Wife behavior

nevertoughever · 2023-12-20T10:20:16+00:00

Cock block, interfere however. But most of all be a better man than your friend. She's bored with you and you must be unattractive to her.

So the main rules are be attractive and do not be unattractive. It really helps to be funnier than your friends.

Don't be afraid to be crude or offensive. Especially in public but it still has to be funny. And not at your wife's expense.

I was kind of in the same boat and I felt paranoia and a horrible amount of fear. I was paralyzed by it. Don't bother looking in your wife's phone it just makes things worse. You will be inspector faggot by the end of the week.

You can't stop or beat hypergamy, you just have to be the best option.

You got your ego bruised because there's funnier people than you and less boring people. You feel stupid and embarrassed and your wife is pretending you're not even there. It hurts. Indicators of Interest are for sure noticed by your friend but this could all be one-sided. And don't think for one second that your wife doesn't find other people attractive. Humans can't help it. It's actually a hard realization.

The first thing they look for here is your stats. How tall are you? Are you fat? Do you lift weights? Do you have any hobbies or goals in life besides worshiping your wife's pussy?

Do you have options if your wife died today? Does she know you have options? I bet she'll start laughing at your jokes and blowing you if she knew you could hit up any three girls and hang out and fuck them today.

Work on yourself and learn to be attractive.

Start by reading or listening to "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. Get it today and read it twice. That will slap you right in the face with some reality

Kevlar__Soul · 2023-12-20T18:27:42+00:00

Simple answer would to not hangs out with this friend around her anymore.

Any conversation would be counter productive because she isn’t doing this consciously. You most likely give off obvious displays of attraction around a women you find beautiful. Just how we are and can’t be changed unless your every aware. She will simply blow it off as you being insecure (she is right by the way) so better off just moving on.

Good news is you now know what she finds attractive in a man. Get to work because what you want is a girl to do this to you in front of your wife. You just got a taste of dread my friend.

Praexology · 2023-12-20T16:27:25+00:00

I'm debating whether to focus on self-improvement

Not sure why you would forgo this for the other things.

Adopt a nonchalant attitude,

If you're cool with being cucked then sure. Indifference only works if your attention is worth something.

or discuss it with her. Unsure about the best approach.

You neither have the acumen, nor the articulateness to get any value from this approach.

sicrm · 2023-12-20T06:04:08+00:00

discussing it would probably end with you DEERing.

and nothing about your post reads you successfully pulling off being nonchalant either.

so out of those three, you’re better off focusing on self-improvement. your main issue right now is she doesn’t respect you.

mabden · 2023-12-20T14:50:50+00:00

"discuss it with her"

Your least beneficial option. It will signal to her, you are weak and insecure, lowering your attractiveness.

Keep your mouth shut, your eyes and ears open, focus on making yourself more attractive.

However, if you really feel the need to say something to your wife, "Is it just me, or does 'my friend' seem hotter lately? Man, would I like to fuck him in the ass."

Meteor1x · 2023-12-20T07:49:41+00:00

MRP for Dummies. „Hypergamy“: When a woman always looks for a better partner based on opportunity even at the cost of hurting a relationship, morality, and other side-effects.

touchandgi · 2023-12-20T08:29:41+00:00

Keep your friend away from your wife. Dial in on your training, eating and reading more. Make an effort to have a joke/laugh with your wife once a day, even if it’s spazzy and autistic it’s better than no effort at all. You’ll be shit tested and maybe even get negative responses to start with but if you stay disciplined enough in your routine eventually the ship will start to turn around.

InChargeMan · 2023-12-20T18:51:44+00:00

Most answers here are bullshit. The world is full to the brim with dudes. The answer doesn't involve keeping her away from temptation, it involves becoming the temptation.

fix-the-man · 2023-12-21T17:16:35+00:00

I have no approach to weight training at the gym

Look up strong lifts 5x5. Any idiot can do it. It's probably the best thing I've ever done.

None of the rest of your post matters.

AvailableCurrency109 · 2023-12-20T13:45:23+00:00

He's probably already banging her man. Lift fucking weights and read the sidebar. Not tomorrow, not the 1st of January but NOW is the time!

Arghu40 · 2023-12-20T07:40:03+00:00

Another commenter just said it. We know nothing about YOU. Do you not have the time to tell us about your background and what brings you to MRP? A handful of sentences about your wife flirting or wanting to fuck some guy in front of you? Yeah, it's all weak, including you.

It's clear you are new to the space. You say you have been together for 10 years? Sounds like 10 shitty years at best. That's a lot of unfucking that you need to do. You didn't mention the sidebar, nor lifting, nor gaming other women, nor any other attractive quality. I will assume you are a career beta, that has let himself go. Your wife wants to fuck another man? Good. You aren't attractive nor a man worth being desired. Tough pill to swallow, but that is what happens at TRP/MRP.

Unsure about the best approach.

Are you blind? Why did you post in MRP initially? Did you even read the sidebar? Did you see the roadmap? Sounds like you are a lazy fat fuck that can't make a decision. That is unattractive; hence, why your wife wants to get fucked 10 ways to Sunday by Chad. You are probably middle aged, lack direction, lack discipline, and are generally an unhealthy fuck. Get your head out of your ass, start lifting religiously, read the entire sidebar, and put together a MAP if you want to save you. I bet your marriage is more than likely over - ILYBINILWY. Forget the wife, forget your shitty life you created, and fuck everything else. Time is ticking for you to get going or fail the rest of your life...

nikfury69 · 2023-12-20T12:59:50+00:00

Debating?

Do you mean masturbating?

As in jerking off, while she eventually fucks Chad. This is called CUCĶOLDRY.

This is not good for you or your family. No matter how good Feminism says it is.

A debate is an oral contest and you lost this one. Now its her turn to deliver the oral.

The question is what are you going to do? Watch some more?

Don't be unattractive. The answers are everywhere in this Reddit.

Nobody Cares STFU Work Harder

thefuture_of · 2023-12-21T10:15:06+00:00

Use it to make drama by making accusations. “You always flirt with my friends , I’d something going on “ . Your actual anger can be used to create real drama . This makes you less boring .

RedWhacker · 2023-12-20T17:59:46+00:00

Not that it matters, but do you trust your friend?

Burneraccountzzzzzz · 2023-12-20T23:41:48+00:00

not your wife anymore

Title	Wife behavior
Author	yankees9888
Upvotes	15
Comments	37
Date	December 20, 2023 5:50 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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