Responses of people from r/sex, to a post about a man cumming too quickly

Scarce12 · 2024-01-10T11:24:09+00:00

Awhile ago, some one posted on that forum the question if they felt more freedom having sex in a relationship or with a hook-up. The majority of them answered that they felt more freedom with a hook-up because they could do things (i.e. deprave themselves) and not worry about what the guy thinks about them.

Needless to say, they all kinds of screwed up.

Arguesovereverythin · 2024-01-10T09:55:31+00:00

People on Reddit are not a perfect picture of mental health. I agree those comments are disgusting and I acknowledge that there are cultural biases against men in relationships. However, for your own sanity, don't give any more attention to these idiots than you already have.

Extension-Moose-4662 · 2024-01-10T13:10:29+00:00

We are told that men come too quickly for women, therefore men are actively trying to find ways not to come. Tell me again which ones are the selfish ones in bed?

Why don’t we ever discuss why it’s taking women so long? There’s two people, why is the assumption always that the man is the problem with sex? Always

lostcymbrogi · 2024-01-10T12:02:25+00:00

Trust me. They complain if you go too long as well. This isn't a flex. I have had to stop before orgasm many times because I tired my partner out. This may sound good...but one does hope to achieve orgasm.

On the one hand I understand the feelings here. On the other hand, sex is by nature a two person job. This should mean you want your partner to have pleasure as well. You generally go to extra lengths, if you will pardon the pun, to please your partner.

If you aren't willing to consider your sexual partners pleasure to be at least as important as your own, worry not, you soon won't have a partner...either male or female.

TheFireMachine · 2024-01-10T11:27:18+00:00

For everyone reading this. Do not allow people into your lives that do not care about you and your well being. Be it friends or romantic partners. If someone hand waves away your issues, and you dont walk away. You will end up always ignoring your own needs and wants just to satisfy others. Then you will being to hate yourself.

It isnt worth it, find people that value you for who you are.

Johntoreno · 2024-01-10T15:10:43+00:00

Ugh… I hate when this happens I don’t even try to discuss it. I BLOCKED & DELETE the person let them figure out why. It takes long to prepare for it for me so I definitely am not going to deal with a minute man

JFC, the entitlement levels are beyond my comprehension.

Impediunt · 2024-01-10T17:11:56+00:00

when women say stuff like that, all I hear is “I’m bad at sex, incapable of pleasuring myself and expect the man to do everything for me”

How about you start actually doing some work during sex instead of role playing a star fish and you might actually get yourself off.

When a guy can’t orgasm society shames them and portrays them as less of a man, when a women can’t orgasm society also shames men… pure hipocrisy

CyberHawk08 · 2024-01-10T15:07:43+00:00

It's getting harder for me to read the political post on reddit. Reddit is slowly turning into the liberal version of stormfront but for white women.

ButWhatOfGlen · 2024-01-10T15:10:45+00:00

Women most affected

lIlIIIOK · 2024-01-10T22:00:50+00:00

Isn't most of reddit against men? Why even bother wasting your time fighting them

MapleWatch · 2024-01-10T13:44:43+00:00

Maybe consider the flip side of this? How much is she going to enjoy it if you pump 3 times, bust, and decide you're done? How much would you enjoy it if she let you pump 3 times and then decided she was done and told you to get the hell off of her?

Lharts · 2024-01-10T14:45:33+00:00

Cherry picking comments of irrelevant assholes from an irrelevant sub.

StopManaCheating · 2024-01-10T13:57:17+00:00

You’re cherry picking the bad stuff and ignored the good advice getting a lot more upvotes.

FartOnACat · 2024-01-10T11:59:58+00:00

Note: nearly all the comments that OP chose were controversial, downvoted, or didn't get any attention at all. He ignored the top comments to prove a point.

Sex is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable activity. The OP of the post cited here is just trying to have better sex with her partner. It's a completely innocent question and the top advice is generally very good and sympathetic towards him.

Taking comments a +1 or lower and using them to say that there's a misandry epidemic ... man, that's some TwoX shit.

Taohumor · 2024-01-10T10:34:41+00:00

Premature ejaculation isn't real. You cum when you wanna cum, the end. Some people can't be fucked to hold it in, their choice nothing wrong about it.

If he can't hold it in its cuz shes just that sexy, it's a compliment. But yea that's definitely some brutal objectification and dehumanization.

Low key its shit like that that I ended up preferring jerking it to porn at the end of several relationships lmao. It was all about her. Like yea I want her to feel good too but what about me lmao, I'm not a dancing monkey.

RustyCohleon · 2024-01-10T11:16:55+00:00

Honestly, there's just alot of shite people in the world now. Men included, the women are catching up and not scared to show it.

Past_Study_4913 · 2024-01-10T11:42:45+00:00

Hmm. I kinda feel there pain on this one, ive had to apologise a couple of times to a girl for cumming in like 5 seconds 😂😜

Its embarrassing, but its a compliment, i only cum that quick if im really into her. The quicker i cum the hotter she is. But i just say, next time its all about you. And i usually keep that promise and can actually pace myself, if i feel myself about to erupt, i stop, and just kiss her, but one girl caught on and she was like nope. Im making you cum now, so, she cant blame me for that, she definitely was turned on by me having no say in the matter as she gyrated her pussy up and down, bearing in mind she was on bottom, missionary. I actually reminisce on that fuck. i loved it.

GreedyCounty6149 · 2024-01-10T12:40:22+00:00

To every guy with misconceptions about their orgasms: I research the subject, and you can find lots of information on my profile.

Puzzleheaded_ghost · 2024-01-10T13:09:01+00:00

Paxil

hifi3xx · 2024-01-10T22:09:34+00:00

I love how agressively this post just screams "figure it the fuck out and stop bitching"

HotwheelsJackOfficia · 2024-01-11T05:37:13+00:00

Give him a viagra or a gas station pill. He will be hard regardless if he wants to or not lol

That's pretty sexual assaulty.

ThisIsMySpaceJam · 2024-01-11T12:18:35+00:00

I do think sex education should include a section on impotency. Mainly to destigmatise it so men a. aren't then mocked by women who think it's unusual, a failure or needing to be "fixed" and b. Men are then less likely to get scammed by ads playing on insecurity about impotency or sexual prowess.

Critical-Set-4362 · 2024-01-11T14:42:53+00:00

Link the post fool.

cabsmom2020 · 2024-01-11T21:58:05+00:00

As someone stated, you picked the negative comments and made it sound like all women or at least all women on that post were uncaring people.

There is a shift in thinking sex wise over the last 50- 60 years, but there's still a ton to learn.

Some men don't care about pleasing a woman. Some women don't care about pleasing a man.

RevolutionaryCry7230 · 2024-01-13T23:14:16+00:00

Don't women realise that if a man comes too quickly they should take it as a compliment on their desirability?

Why are some women taking the best compliment that a man could give them and turning it into a toxic, venomous and cruel thing?

Title	Responses of people from r/sex, to a post about a man cumming too quickly
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Date	January 10, 2024 8:23 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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