Background; I found out she was emotionally cheating with an ex-lover about 2 months before she was having a surgery. Instead of confronting her I chose to not support her in her time of need and instead let it fester. She chooses this as her reason for divorce, I 'abandonded' her.

I did confront her when she wanted to divorce about this issue, she said it was out of context and I am insecure for thinking of the pictures I saw, the words I saw, the reminiscing. That it wasn't considered cheating.

Her and her way to close and involved family forced me from our marital home and changed the locks. Currently homeless in the divorce process but trying to remain hopeful as I've gotten enough going for me to get by. No family, no friends, but I have myself and representation.