How do I form a friends with benefits relationship with a woman?

agreable_actuator · 2024-02-27T18:48:45+00:00

To have a friend with benefits, you first have to have a friend. And you will may need a number of them to find one that would want to have sex with you without commitment. And then, after a while, they may want a commitment and date so then you have some deciding to do.

So, first step is to go make a lot of friends.

ManWazo · 2024-02-27T19:23:35+00:00

Why don't you use Tinder or Feeld instead, it's free!

Other than that, the local swinging, polyamory and/or bdsm communities are good place for friends with benefits.

Fun fact: the hardest part is actually being "friends" because most people suck, while having sex is the easy part.

tromp-et · 2024-02-27T19:03:07+00:00

No offense but would probably be easier and less complicated to find an actual girlfriend

Top_Radio_9436 · 2024-02-27T18:46:18+00:00

OP, do not take this the wrong way but I think putting yourself out in this way could be extremely dangerous for an autistic person. There's all kinds of scammers, predators and trash people in these spaces and if ToM (reading people and understanding their intentions) isn't a strong suit of yours you should stay TF away. You have to be a street smart person to navigate that kind of social landscape safely.

Looksmaxxing only goes so far if you aren't developing your social skills through interacting with women. I think your best course of action is to find a community of people with similar interests to yourself and try to meet some girls there with a friends-first emphasis until you feel confident talking to and approaching women.

featherblackjack · 2024-02-28T09:24:36+00:00

Please don't say looksmaxxing, it makes you sound like an incel

xvszero · 2024-02-27T18:44:04+00:00

Most the people I know in these situations found them through regular dating sites just saying they only want "casual".

But you have to be super honest with yourself and with the other person for this to work. One or both usually catch feelings eventually.

Trepptopus · 2024-02-28T09:42:57+00:00

Why do you want a FWB? Not judging just need to understand what your aims are before I can even try to give worthwhile advice. Also how are your social skills, how good are you at "masking" etc? How do you feel about neurodivergent women? And finally, what are your hobbies and interests what are your special interests?

SicSemperTyrannis123 · 2024-02-27T19:23:30+00:00

Following because I have no idea and need to know too

ConsultJimMoriarty · 2024-02-28T08:44:48+00:00

Do you have any women friends?

Title	How do I form a friends with benefits relationship with a woman?
Author	Possible-Shift249
Upvotes	0
Comments	47
Date	February 27, 2024 6:35 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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