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[–]omega05 34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too many other guys also messaging her. Also likes the attention
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[–]RedditsOlderBrah 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
that's one explanation if you have the type of brainworms that makes you believe that women think low effort messages are getting anyone's attention.
personally it seems way more likely that based on the pictures and profile the woman thinks there's a potential for a spark so she'll give you a few extra chances to prove yourself at all interesting before just stopping with the messages.
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[–]RedditsOlderBrah 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
i don't think you want to stand by this point. a big part of the story you guys need to believe is women have so many matches that it would be stupid as hell to try and get even more attention from the type of guys that post here. if they didn't care about the flood of bad dick and really liked op in particular, they'd put in more effort than one word because they aren't stupid.
trust me, you should go with my suggestion. fits your narrative better.
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[–]RedditsOlderBrah -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
i tried to trick you but you didn't fall for it. if you accepted that women were logical people that don't behave like the stereotypes made up for them by misogynistic losers, well then you'd have to re-evaluate all the stupid shit you believe.
lucky you. you get to stay in your safe spaces. for now.
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[–]RedditsOlderBrah -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
wow. this room full of oil barons are unanimous: climate change does not exist. can't argue with that.
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[–]RedditsOlderBrah -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Everyone in this sub would agree
this room full of oil barons are unanimous
women use men for attention no matter how much they Value the man.
climate change does not exist
[–]raimondi1337 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women do think one word answers get men's attention cuz usually they reply. For every Chad that ignores it, there's 10 simps that don't
[–]RedditsOlderBrah -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol i love how you fine and normal dudes think that when you explain it you'll sound like the smart type of lonely and unsuccessful man that can accurately predict a woman's behaviour unlike the rest.... then you try and look like an absolute psycho.
[–]gimanos1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And this is why it’s fuck OLD
[–]TransitionNormal1387 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because they got sometimes hundreds of options online buddy. It is what it is.
[–]ppaulapple 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They like the attention but too lazy to put the effort in
[–]gardenofeden123 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lazy isn’t the right word. They get so many messages that replying in depth to each one is impossible.
They don’t want to lose the validation though so a couple of words keeps that going most of the time given most guys are desperate.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because women are really not all that interesting, smart or charming most of the time. You imagine that they are because you are hypnotized by their boobs and let's face it if it weren't for said boobs you probably would have no interest in talking to them at all.
[–]FaithInStrangers94 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s the brutal truth
[–]RedditsOlderBrah 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
one or two word answers have subtext. the subtext is 'i am open to the idea of dating you, but you better become way more interesting than your currently being or i'm just going to stop replying'.
hope this helps.
[–]raimondi1337 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Or they just aren't interesting themselves
[–]privacylmao 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah like why would I give 80% of the effort and have to prove myself to her? If I sense she's being stuck up I will not double up my efforts to make myself more interesting, quite the opposite in fact I would lose motivation talking to her from that point forward.
This situation is happening to me right now. A girl I met a year ago started to come back into my life at parties a month ago, we slept together 4-5 times but now that school/work is starting again I just can't prioritize her. I'm a Fuck Yeah! type of dude in terms of texting but she doesn't reciprocitate so I just lost my grip on her totally. She still goes out and always invites me when she does but the way she wants me to join her just feels "lazy". I had great sex ngl, I'm past sex really, I'm trying to find someone interesting, not just fuckable lol
She clings onto those moments we had a month ago my guess is that she wants some more sex or simply she sees potential for something more and still txts me good morning everyday on snapchat (but I know she sends that same gm message to everyone she has a snapstreak with so ultimately that gm doesn't mean shit)
I'm an interesting dude ngl I grinded my way out of boredom and actually have things to say and she can't even put some real effort into fucking texts like I'm one out of 100000 dudes out there texting her. My second guess is that she's playing the hard to get girl but that fucking game is so childish it disgusts me, she's not the prize, I am.
Thanks for letting me rent lmao
[–]raimondi1337 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tldr touch grass
[–]privacylmao 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wtf dude I'm always outside socializing and having fun
[–]Spirited-Ship-1041 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because women don't need to do any work. Guys do
[–]Throwawaycauseimvery 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They aren't that attracted
[–]Basic85 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lack of interest
[–]10thAvatar 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All women are capable of doing both- one word replies & enthusiastic replies. If someone is giving you one word answers, it just means she’s busy giving enthusiastic answers to someone else.
[–]eazolan -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're not real. They're hired by the company to keep your subscription paying.
They can keep 1000 guys a day on the hook by tossing out one word responses.
[–]Uh-huh_okayhoney 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes I realize that I completely blew off a message and later feel bad and will respond.
[–]incognito3107 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They just receive so many messages that they have no necessity to be creative or exceptionally receptive. If she havs no specific targets at the moment, she will just let the contest for her attention stay opened.
[–]CometAzur42069 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s giving you another shot. But there’s really little you should do beyond the typical fundamentals in texting. Keep it brief and set up a date.
The idea the woman wants attention is kind of true but not in the way the losers think. She is LONELY, she wants attention from someone who she is attracted to. Just like you want a hot girl to give you attention. The fuck else do you think you’re on here for? Hoping girls dont give you any attention?
[–]MasterTeacher123 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because she doesn’t like you like that and is just bored
[–]innergamedude 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah.
[–]coolbreeze1990 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly! Lmao
[–]Outrageous-Wish4559 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Short responses are a lack of interest or that she is busy messaging other dudes too. Yeah I would move on
[–]SexxyMoeFoe 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What kind of questions are you asking?
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