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RideTheRim · 2022-09-12T21:46:43+00:00

Been there. Matched with a decent amount of smoking hot women I probably wouldn’t approach irl. Never actually been out on a date with any of them.

The way I see it is these women have so many men in their social circles and daily lives pursuing them they really have no reason to risk going out with someone online. I’ve even setup dates with some of them but they’ve flaked 100% of the time.

It doesn’t really bother me cause these same girls are getting offered to go to boat parties, sports games, fancy dinners, etc. for first dates and I’m simply not going to put out that much for a first date with anyone.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-09-12T20:22:31+00:00

How do you guys approach very hot girls or at least considerably more attractive than you in an online context?

By not even thinking about or comparing myself to other guys she may or may not be talking to. I just focus on myself and treat her as I would any other girl.

I have noticed though that lots of those super hot girls aren't my type personality-wise since they're used to being spoiled all the time and that's not my vibe.

2022-09-12T20:17:44+00:00

You're better off trying irl. Women in general get huge amounts of messages on online dating and hot women get an even higher amount.

However the better looking you are the higher your odds. You've still got to stand out and not simp. Make actual witty anr interesting conversation.

dobbs1997 · 2022-09-13T01:27:32+00:00

lmaooo the REAL problem here is that you believe there even is a league…mothaFUCK a league. Stop putting chicks on a pedestal and start treating all girls the same regardless of how attractive you think they are. This is the only advice you need.

2022-09-12T19:57:28+00:00

Well. I would say they are matching with 10/10, 9/10 dudes. Hundreds of them. So unless you can compensate for that competition. You're going to have a much harder time.

They are looking for validation. Or something exciting.

So yeah, they're opening the door to see if you're someone more engaging than the rest, but because you're not a hot dude, they're not going to put any work in. Especially online.

They'll match you, and you might get a shot if you have a fire opener, a solid follow-up and basically impress them into it, but even then, you're still a 7/10 competing with the rest.

If you had all 9's and 10's women, hundreds, like gorgeous women matching with you. How much time and energy would you spend on a 7 or 8?

That's why this sub likes to push that OLD is terrible for most men. Cause it is. You're competing in a rigged game. Plus it's easier to excite, intrigue, and "catch," when you're in from of her. Cause it's.. you know.. the real world.

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2022-09-12T20:29:06+00:00

Offer them a ride in your lambo or private jet. They don’t respond to anything else.

revente · 2022-09-12T23:04:42+00:00

You just need to outcompete her other matches with your photos. Good luck!

ozzzy83 · 2022-09-13T15:10:39+00:00

Most hot girls are online only for an ego boost OR to advertise their IG, aka to collect followers. Better approach them IRL.

notaproblem333 · 2022-09-13T09:54:48+00:00

You didn’t tell us anything about your financial status. How much money you have definitely matters for getting this type of girl, especially on dating apps.

Sensitive-Reason-965 · 2022-09-13T15:20:59+00:00

I don't really trust in the concept "league". Back in the day when I was in university I just a normal boy with very normal financial foundation. also I think I'm not super visually attractive nor muscular like hot guys. However somehow I managed to date with 2 among the hottest girl in the campus, one was a model and the another was a famous streamer with almost 1 million viewers on instagram. So maybe the key is to control her emotions and little by little until you make her completely emotionally dependent on you. That was I did and was the only thing that I excel at. And when I wanted to dump the girls things was easy while they struggled with it and even tried to re-date with me again after a year. Having said that I've never used any dating apps so I don't know if my secret works effectively.

TossGayway · 2022-09-13T02:42:44+00:00

8.5s+ dont match with 7s online dating

Contango6969 · 2022-09-13T00:33:50+00:00

Luck honestly plays a huge part in it. They get more attention than they could ever handle. So if you happen to message her when she feels like talking to someone and your message happens to hit her the right way then you’re in. And now you have to be entertaining and interesting as fuck. And even then you might lose her attention. This is why dating apps are so fucked

inline6throwaway · 2022-09-13T02:21:16+00:00

Interact with them as if they were 3s, 4s, and 5s that like you. If you're a 7 then you should've had some decent looking (6+ up to 8s and up) women giving you play at least a couple times in your life so you would know how to treat them. At the end of the day though they are still women just like the less attractive ones. So treat them the same

THEtoryMFlanez · 2022-09-13T06:17:02+00:00

I’m just hoping for a 5/10 to come my way someday…..:(

AvatarReiko · 2022-09-13T08:05:29+00:00

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2022-09-13T08:48:47+00:00

Most of the time, you need to take her down from her pedestal that was erected by the dozens of thirsty males. Get into context and circumstances that would present you in a very good way comparing to others, and where she would be little uncomfortable and wishing to learn.

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-09-13T13:39:51+00:00

I would just add that anything too good to be true may not be true after all.

Some of these girls aree bots or scams.

And the OP might actually be rated higher than he thinks.

DeliberatelyInsane · 2022-09-13T16:26:56+00:00

Be a BAMF. Don’t take their shit. Their sense of self is very dependent on the validation they get. And they may try to push the envelope see if they still get it when they’re being a complete ass. If you give it to them when they’re being c*nts, you will lose their respect and become just another guy they have successfully gotten wrapped around their lil finger.

That’s the only way I know.

lazkopat24 · 2022-09-14T10:07:26+00:00

You don't.

You pretty much have zero chance there if you are not at least 9.

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