Is pussy the main way women seduce men and lock them down?

seduction-ModTeam · 2022-09-01T18:57:53+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Butter-85 · 2022-09-01T03:18:25+00:00

High value men do not choose women based solely on the availability of pussy. High value men are not likely to be interested in a woman who is only offering sex.

privacylmao · 2022-09-01T04:24:48+00:00

Low tier women will attract low tier men that only worship pussy and make it a lifegoal to fuck as many of them. Higher tier men will find other things attractive in women such as composure, manners, intelligence, creativity, if she can be a good mother and a good support for her man. Pussy in that case is far from important for someone that seeks more meaningful things in life.

redcastlesteel · 2022-09-01T03:22:17+00:00

I mean, some women might use sex as a tool. Some might not. It depends on the person.

Though you kind of answered your last question - if someone likes you and is sexually interested, of course they'll want to have lots of sex with you.

If a woman is not interested, nothing you say or do will change her mind.

EarthTravelerxyz · 2022-09-01T04:17:00+00:00

You can buy pussy every female got one. High value men go for things you can’t buy in a women like loyalty, manors and intelligence.

smug_beatz · 2022-09-01T05:31:07+00:00

Purpose over pussy! This is a motto I live by!

carbonironandzinc · 2022-09-01T03:18:47+00:00

I don't think women think about the dating process in terms of 'locking down.' I think most women (most people in general) will just assume their relationship is going smoothly until their partner communicates otherwise.

hjallday182 · 2022-09-01T02:45:25+00:00

Wtf is wrong with you dude?

ObamaWhisperer · 2022-09-01T06:13:22+00:00

Not just for this post, but the whole sub Reddit. Don’t overthink shit. Sometimes it’s not as complicated as we make it to be.

rumblingtummy29 · 2022-09-01T09:47:38+00:00

what in the incel

lucasanderson24689 · 2022-09-01T02:58:06+00:00

You have quite the post history.

hancockcjz · 2022-09-01T07:05:49+00:00

Incredibly unpleasant way of phrasing it

Gold-Stable7109 · 2022-09-01T05:39:11+00:00

“High value man” could mean absolutely anything and I promise you everyone will have their own opinion as to how “high value” these men are.

My boyfriend is extremely high value to me, but I’m sure there are other things about him that I love that some people may not. This could classify him as “low value” due to their own personal interests, but to me he is extremely high valued.

Pussy only plays any role if it’s purely a sexual relationship. You don’t “lure men”, you be yourself and you attract them. How can you think everyone ever in the history of time has formed a relationship? By approaching someone. You don’t approach them pussy to the face, either (but if you can, props to you. This just isn’t the time).

There is literally zero way to group all women into a single category of what we’re attracted to when it comes to men. I personally love my boyfriends arms and some people may think that’s odd, but I don’t.

In conclusion, no. Unless it’s purely sexual you don’t run up to a man with your pussy to his face or you may never find love. You simply do what people have been doing for billions of years and just like, be normal. Why is this even a question??

dark-_-thoughts · 2022-09-01T05:02:43+00:00

I'm honestly just wondering what the f*** is going on with your life and in your head to where you ask this. Because either you went down some rabbit hole in your head and now you're just curious or you've been watching the wrong YouTubers.

Honestly though it depends on the guy. Me being the overweight fat guy sex is priority number 3-7 on my inner, for lack of better term, checklist And where it ends up on that list varies day to day. My buddy who has two kids and is divorced. It seems to be the number one factor in his relationships currently. Of course all of these relationships have ended very very badly, but I am proud of him there are no extra kids so he is smart and wrapping his tool.

shonawragg · 2022-09-01T08:54:07+00:00

Jaysus christ … someone has been listening to Chris Tate. High value man? Pussy? Unlimited availability?

Who the F*** thinks like this?

People can fall in love, they can maintain their boundaries whilst being in love, people don’t value a woman on her pussy …

What a croc of shit

leafhog · 2022-09-01T05:59:57+00:00

sweetdropx · 2022-09-01T06:52:08+00:00

Men who have options exercise them. High value or not, if sex is important to him, he's going to ask for it. Then what he does when when she refuses indicates weither he is actually high V or not.

Also, she's not locking him down if he doesn't want even if she puts out.

2022-09-01T08:11:02+00:00

It all comes down to sexual compatibility, but it means so much more than just putting dick into pussy.

idk123703 · 2022-09-01T11:04:46+00:00

Having a man that only wants you for the pussy is not a good feeling. Best to avoid those situations.

gucciwillis · 2022-09-01T07:00:26+00:00

If a girl likes you she will want to have sex with you. That’s how we’ve evolved over thousands of years. Do you not know basic biology?

Swimming_Survey515 · 2022-09-01T12:30:19+00:00

As an attractive woman, I am aware that i can use sex to my advantage. That said, I would only use pussy to seduce a man if i only wanted fwb. If it were a life partner I wanted, I'd show him my personality and hope that we work good together.

Agreeable-You9777 · 2022-09-01T13:52:08+00:00

Yea that’s all they offer. They’re just really made for sex and nothing else. Once you realize you don’t need them for anything besides that, the chain is broken and you’re free

Old-Sheepherder-1176 · 2022-09-01T05:50:20+00:00

Low-quality women may try that but it never works for long in any scenario.

DarkSun18 · 2022-09-01T06:30:34+00:00

I would never sleep with a guy before I'm ready and if he doesn't like that then bye. Also, if I like a man and want to be with him, I'd just treat him well, be attentive, want to spend time with him, support him etc. My body is never just available. Sex is between two people not one man deciding when and where he wants it, yuck.

my_name_isnt_cool · 2022-09-01T04:13:16+00:00

You know how attraction works, right? I'm a little concerned you don't understand the concept of "if a woman is interested in you or not". Thats beside the point, the point is is this how men really think? You think every woman is out there pulling their pants off for any guy you think is 'high value.'

starfire_xed · 2022-09-01T05:00:10+00:00

Yes, it is called pussy whipped.

vin9889 · 2022-09-01T05:44:45+00:00

Blowjobs and massages

Log701 · 2022-09-01T07:04:43+00:00

Women dont use sex as tool instead they like to use the possibility of sex as tool to get men/Fool men "i dont have s e x on first date" which translate to guys mind as i might have sex with you in future which is empty promises that a lot women use

Ragnarok992 · 2022-09-01T07:42:09+00:00

Pussy wont lock down a high value man, you need to consider that he can get any at any time so pussy wont be the key here

2022-09-01T11:06:22+00:00

that's all they have to offer really

wootage3597 · 2022-09-01T06:50:21+00:00

No l. It’s better to use Chains, collars and shackles 🥳

charm33 · 2022-09-01T08:08:47+00:00

2022-09-01T05:42:36+00:00

Sometimes. But it’s a stupid method if you ask me. A lot of dudes are hungry for basic human interaction and positive attention, that a simple compliment goes a long ways. I got called cute a couple days from a classmate, shit feels good.

rudebwoy100 · 2022-09-01T05:52:06+00:00

Women can only use her pussy to lock a guy down if she withholds said pussy before he puts a ring on her finger.

novasolid64 · 2022-09-01T08:41:21+00:00

Money helps

dewouterrrrrr · 2022-09-01T09:00:35+00:00

No, it’s lack of pussy. If you can have her any time you want there is no attraction. When a good becomes less scarce it becomes less valuable.

Ivabighairy1 · 2022-09-01T09:23:23+00:00

It’s the intangibles. High value men have no problem getting pussy.

2022-09-01T09:23:33+00:00

Nah, a lot of toxic women can manipulate weak men into spending all their paycheck on said woman. How do i know? I was a weak man and got manipulated into spending all my money on her. She had me buy gifts for her, she volunteered my car to give her friends rides without asking for gas money to replace MY gas SHE burned. Anytime i’d ask for some gas money she’d get upset and gaslight me into not taking any because she’d never ask her friends for gas. Even tho all of them had money to fucking spend. I wanted sugar but she was slow to reciprocate and only did so when it directly benefited her. I fucking hate her. I wanted to murder the bastard she got pregnant with by some other dude to take away her happiness and hope that a baby would fix her problems. I wanted to see the happiness drain from her eyes as i watched her baby die.

Of course, I don’t want it anymore tho. I’ve not interracted with her or spoken to her in years. Nor do i plan to. I was simply providing an excellent example for the question. She could be homeless or rich for all i care. She won’t ever be happy, truly. She was too selfish and self absorbed

2022-09-01T09:26:32+00:00

No. I'll give you an example that a woman's look does not get them super high value men.

Ex President Barrack Obama and facebook founder and CEO Mark Zuckerberg. Let's keep it real. Not a single men in this subreddit can match the success of the above two men. One, the most popular president of the most powerful country in our lifetime. The second guy, founder of the biggest social media company in the world. Both men married to frankly, fairly unattractive but highly intelligent women. I'm pretty sure if obama wanted a super model, its like taking candy from a baby.

2022-09-01T09:27:31+00:00

Well yes but actually no. That only works on guys with non existent options and younger guys.

generaldoodle · 2022-09-01T10:41:36+00:00

In my opinion high/low value men/women is shit term. So I will go with your definition men for whom "many women are competing for". Well women can use sex as manipulation tools, yet if many women compete for guy how do you personally imagine this will help? All of these women have pussy. So just having one won't help to stand out from the crowd, it is obvious that women need to have other qualities, which in this specific men views are high value qualities.

peacebyfire · 2022-09-01T11:12:12+00:00

Hell no! At least not for me, but I have self respect. After years of dating several wonderful women I'm attracted to mental fortitude. I mean yeah, sex needs to be good, I like pretty women, all that normal stuff, but if a woman doesn't have ambition, grit, and mental stability (this one takes time to see for all sexes) I don't want to share my life with them. People are wasting your time if you're not better in their company. That's on you buddy. They need to inspire you, and equally you should inspire them. If you stay with someone simply because of their vagina you're using them as an object, and this is sociopathic.

Have some women tried this strategy? Absolutely, but they don't lead mentally healthy lives.

There's nothing wrong with a woman not resisting sex, actually that's ideal as long as she's being honest with herself. Do you think it's weird interested women want to have sex? They're people. Seems like a truism to me.

This is harshly worded, but it isn't a judgement on your character. If you feel this way you might be jaded friend. There are some awesome people in the world and I hope you find some good one(s) for you.

my5cent · 2022-09-01T11:37:43+00:00

It's a matter of the lack of culture or part of the culture. The more conservative, you will probably need to wait some vs city like will most likely offer it.

3500_miles · 2022-09-01T12:09:52+00:00

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daring_innovator · 2022-09-01T12:47:27+00:00

Weak men, yes they get manipulated easy and for a multitude of reasons that I won’t get into right now.

Powerful/Successful men, no or at least not easily, this is because for them getting pussy is accessible & expected. These stallions have a lot of things going for them so to lock one down you’d have to really stand out because they have like a revolving door of women coming in and out. Pussy is not good enough you must bring more to the table to highlight you as a potential candidate. Next, you should persuade him to surrender his current rotation pool of women to only focus on you which is a tall order but doable if you’re committed enough. He will look at you in a new light and think about you wondering. He’s a man of purpose, responsibility and ambition so he wants a women with beauty, respect and support his mission in the world.

111001011001 · 2022-09-01T12:56:16+00:00

Kids trap boys

No_Interest_5818 · 2022-09-01T13:24:11+00:00

I'm 26 and single. The most important thing that I'm looking for in someone that I want to be with is that she's educated with a college degree and/or has a career that she's pursuing.

I don't know about other men, but I'm looking for a partner not a house wife.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-09-01T13:32:26+00:00

Well yes, it's called pussy bombing but it only works if the guy has a significant physical attraction to the woman

I see it all day long women kittenfishing on their profiles to get men out of thier leagues these guys only find them attractive enough to bang

Girl pulls out her "secret weapon" (her vagina) thinking it's going to have the same effect it did when she was 21. But she's 38 with 2 kids nothing on her rig is where it's supposed to be anymore and she's carrying an extra 30 or 40 lbs of on board food supply around her waist and trunk and the vag has no affect

This is obviously devastating for a woman

So yeah women do use this to lock you in(in their minds anyway) it means they've invested in you and it makes them feel entitled to a committed relationship

VinceBrogan8 · 2022-09-01T18:51:28+00:00

Some of that falls on men pedestalizing women.

There are women that think that their pussy has the same value as your entire existence. What they don't realize (more like they do and don't care) is that every woman has a pussy. If there were such a thing as fairness between the sexes, they would need to be BETTER than just their pussy.

The men that these women lock down consider her pussy as equal to their entire existence. But her pussy is not as important as my dick.

Title	Is pussy the main way women seduce men and lock them down?
Author	lucasanderson24689
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Date	September 1, 2022 2:19 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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