I feel like there's a little talk about this topic.

I'm turning 30 in a couple of months and I don't care about fucking random chicks (anymore). Okay, maybe a little. But I think with each passing year you spent on casual sex, the chances of starting a family decreases. I don't want to be an old dad either (start art 40).

I want to get married with wife and children. Not because people tell me to but because I want to.

I think men have a little more time than women for obvious reasons but not as much as some of us think.

  • What are the chances to meet a single woman who's not a single mother when you're 30+ ? What is your market value in general ?
  • Where do you meet them ? What places ? (social circles are closing the older you get)
  • Should you move to join a bigger dating market ?
  • What are the most important aspects of your desirablity as a man ?
  • If you haven't finished your education yet and will finish your bachelor's degree as late as 35 (due to adversity in life), do educated womeneven view you as a potential marriage partner or do they smell trouble ?

I would wish to discuss this with you and gain some insight.

Regarding the last point : It does feel like at 30+, status and demographics take over as your main ability to attract women. Meaning college educated women want to marry college educated men. "Game" goes out the window as it doesn't carry a marriage if people are fighting because of money. Women knowingly want men who are on the same level or higher.