Milfs on dating sites keep treating me like a baby.

BurnItDownSR · 2022-08-15T02:50:37+00:00

Share a sample of your text game so we can see what's up.

zisehuar · 2022-08-15T03:00:02+00:00

Good for you approaching mature women. They're flattered. You gotta understand, they do think you're cute. Some might have kids who are teens, so pretty close in age to you. You can say straight up that you like more mature women and show that you're a consistent gentleman.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2022-08-15T06:54:21+00:00

Some of them definitely want to fuck you. Most of them just enjoy the attention from a good looking younger guy.

Your task is figuring out which is which…

TheShittingFart · 2022-08-15T08:59:39+00:00

I’ve slept with 2 milfs and gotten nudes from a couple others. Tbh you just have to try a little bit harder because they do feel weird about it. Don’t use emojis or slang, and be straight up with her because they usually don’t do weird texting games. Don’t ask to meet up in public because they didn’t match with you to go on a date, that is embarrassing for her especially if someone recognizes her. The only reason you guys matched is because she found you attractive and wants sex, she doesn’t want to date someone half her age and DEFINITELY doesn’t want to be seen hanging out with a 20 year old. So, if you want to hang out with them, invite yourself over to her place or invite her over to watch a movie and eat pizza or some shit, idk she’ll get the memo.

Hermes_Godoflurking · 2022-08-15T04:14:20+00:00

It's just the age difference man, it's not always a deal-breaker but a lot of the time it is.

Best advice would be to say something like "oh I don't think you could handle me" or "We really shouldn't do it".

They want to but they don't want to want to.

MywarUK · 2022-08-15T09:03:49+00:00

Depending how you’re messaging them they’ll see you as a bit of entertainment or someone who is more mature than most 20 year olds as they like that. Im 36 and was seeing a 22year old, I had to back out as it felt like babysitting after a few days, but Iv also met a 20year old who was damn intelligent and could hold a conversation, we fucked after a few days and nothing came more of it.

Its down to how you handle the situation also, a bit of advice is keeping the messages from the ‘failed’ chats, look over them and see what went wrong, how could you of replied different?

Did one start the convo with “hey cutie” and your reply was Damn I love your milf tits! Or did you reply with “Hey, thanks! Your profile says 38… but you don’t look a day older than 19? Whats the trick?”

Not a great example, but worked for me on a few hot 45+

SadBox4529 · 2022-08-15T03:05:36+00:00

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palguy22 · 2022-08-15T04:23:41+00:00

You're too young, they see you as a kid

CleanYourLobster85 · 2022-08-15T10:56:10+00:00

Bruh, fuck someone in your own age group. Dont go for the leftovers

RideTheRim · 2022-08-15T04:14:55+00:00

I used to attract older woman all the time at that age but they would never commit to anything. Once I got in my late 20s it became way easier.

MywarUK · 2022-08-15T06:33:40+00:00

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Pain_Tough · 2022-08-15T12:22:32+00:00

You might totally increase your odds meeting them in a part time job in retail or going swing dancing, 80 percent of these two settings are older women, let them size you up and someone will get aggressive at some point,

Title	Milfs on dating sites keep treating me like a baby.
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Date	August 15, 2022 2:39 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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