Where are these single women you guys cold approach to?

Contango6969 · 2022-08-01T04:54:43+00:00

Approaching two girls often easier than one.

Also I recommend going out to bars early. Seems like more single or small groups than when it gets later.

potatoeswithfries · 2022-08-01T07:42:02+00:00

I pretty much only do daygame on the streets, in malls and on public transport. You can make cold approach work in bars and clubs, but - as you noticed yourself - it's a tougher environment, and if it's not a place you otherwise want to go to, then it doesn't make sense to go there just to pick up girls.

However, most oldschool pick up methods will tell you to approach groups in a nightgame scenario... Let's not pretend like that's not the case - you're not supposed to look only for girls who are alone, you're supposed to work groups.

Woujo · 2022-08-01T15:10:52+00:00

You can approach women when they are with their friends too, yknow.

Hot_Tale_8873 · 2022-08-01T14:57:56+00:00

Grocery store, Coffee shop, Shopping, Anywhere

icouch · 2022-08-01T07:15:39+00:00

bouldering gym

I work at a grocery store - plenty of women to approach

living in a college town definitely helps

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-08-01T07:13:11+00:00

You find them during the day.

Avidclimber1234 · 2022-08-01T13:47:56+00:00

Check out the local climbing gym.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-08-01T17:05:57+00:00

I'm not one of the cold approach guys, but, work, school, bars, restaurants, the gym, college campus, shopping centers, beach, parks. Anywhere a woman might be.

MrDownhillRacer · 2022-08-01T22:15:41+00:00

You have to learn to approach groups, bro. Women rarely go out alone. If you sit around waiting for the "perfect approach" opportunity with a beautiful woman who is for some reason without a friend group or gal pal, you'll end up waiting forever.

borderline_autistic1 · 2022-08-01T14:49:44+00:00

I mean I've been hit on by like a half a dozen women with boyfriends/husbands in the last 3 weeks.

If she's out without her man just looking to "meet new people" then she's probably down to fool around a bit

Thirdlight · 2022-08-01T16:20:56+00:00

Literally anywhere you see a woman. My Future spouse was a cashier at KFC when I picked her up. You can even do if its a big group of people with guys and women. Hell that makes it easier. Just talk up everybody and youll tell whos with who easy.

Ugly_Pedalya · 2022-08-01T23:39:39+00:00

I would personally recommend you to just stop looking for them and focus on yourself.

kensei_ocelot · 2022-08-01T15:34:12+00:00

My go to is just going downtown, buying a beer from the corner store and drinking it out on the street or a park or something and just chill by myself enjoying the weather/scenery. While hanging out I will see groups of women or single women also enjoying the day. Sometimes I grab a bite to eat and will see single women eating by themselves. Basically, anywhere you see a woman. It's that simple.

2022-08-01T18:15:51+00:00

I'm probably totally misunderstanding the point of this group. But why wouldn't you just use apps so you know if people are single or not?

That said... As a woman, I get hit on a lot at the dog park. Do you have a dog?

aguwah · 2022-08-01T15:51:07+00:00

I feel like the whole point of the cold approach is to make the approach feel genuine and natural. If you're at a bar then you're not really doing a cold approach because it's a place where girls are already expecting to be approached.

So places like stores/malls, downtown streets, colleges, etc. Are good places to look since it's places where women are going on their own with their guards down.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-01T10:53:54+00:00

I don't know if you are retarded or just stupid. Women will never go out by themselves at a bar, but they will be there with friends and still be single. This ain't rocket science you are just a pussy. Admit it and move on.

distawest · 2022-08-01T12:52:03+00:00

How do you know that these women are single? Actually most of them have boyfriends.

There are very few single women today, so do not spend your time looking up for one. As tiresome as it is, you have to enter the competition!

Suavrai · 2022-08-01T17:48:30+00:00

Try to get a wingman bro!

ReddiBruhh · 2022-08-01T18:06:21+00:00

women are always with their group of friend

These are the women we're speaking of

burncushlikewood · 2022-08-01T19:43:03+00:00

It's called a wingman, they help you occupy more than one woman! I have never been to the club solo, and the one time I approached without a wing guess what happened, after I started dancing with her, friend grabbed her hand and walked away, and she's not going to resist her friends wishes. She was upset that she wasn't getting my attention! Then I tried approaching 2 girls with a friend of mine on the dancefloor it went much better, I confidently opened, my friend backed up what I said and boom we were dancing with two 8s. Unfortunately he had to stop the interaction because I requested his presence, and he didn't want to continue because he had a gf back at university.

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-01T21:41:06+00:00

If you see a group of women, approach all of them. It is brash and bold, but it shows a lot of confidence. You definitely need to have some that courage, but that is where you can stand out and not care about it. Single women keep single women single so be careful when approaching all of them as well. Find a way to catch one by themselves without the other friends looking or one of the women will come to you if and when you walk away, but let one if them do it.

Do not single out one woman right away because if she rejects you and you go to the next one you like, the next woman will say that she wasn't your first choice and the one you want is over there which is why you have to approach all of them and go from there.

In terms of where do the guys approach women, guys get rejected a lot and don't get it every single day/week so that is why guys have to have more opportunities for ONE person to say yes.

The_Dufe · 2022-08-01T22:20:14+00:00

Try a city dive bar lol

EARLY20RAG3R · 2022-08-02T02:18:06+00:00

They’re everywhere

Title	Where are these single women you guys cold approach to?
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