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Therocksays2020 · 2022-06-05T19:35:06+00:00

A learning experience. Or we were incompatible

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-06-05T20:30:34+00:00

Well if you get rejected here and there that’s fine. Probably just not her type.

But if you get mass rejected. No swipes on tinder. No interest from any girls.

Then you are low value. That’s just facts.

masmiester · 2022-06-05T21:47:25+00:00

its not a rejection of YOU, its a rejection of that particular timing and approach ( + hundreds of other life 'things' in the background you can't control)

waresmarufy · 2022-06-05T23:21:25+00:00

Getting rejected is still doing more than others. Most don't even approach. Keep going

rudebwoy100 · 2022-06-06T00:57:17+00:00

I view rejection as women with low esteem who are in utter disbelief that such an angelic creature like myself would ever be interested in them so they turn me away to protect their fragile ego.

lollypup12333 · 2022-06-05T19:39:57+00:00

I think men don’t really get hit on by women that often. I’m very fond of making the first move. With that said it doesn’t bother me when I get rejected because I’ve kinda realized that either way I’ve just made this man feel real good about himself.

2022-06-05T20:07:04+00:00

The person that’ll say yes to you. The one who won’t reject you is out there and part of the process is looking for that person. So it’s not so much of you getting rejected, its more like the person thats for you hasn’t met you yet .. so keep meeting people and understand that rejection only means that your flirting with the wrong person. Brush it off, continue your journey and don’t ever let rejection slow you down .. i hope that makes sense!

conker1264 · 2022-06-05T21:40:17+00:00

Depends on the situation. If rejected before getting a date, no biggie we aren’t compatible. Rejected after a date? Starts to hit me for a few days and then I realize it’s either something I didn’t do or we weren’t compatible. Usually it’s the 1st.

Invest2prosper · 2022-06-05T22:55:47+00:00

A gift - saved you from pursuing an investment of your time and energy on an individual who fails to appreciate the value you bring to the table.

Sometimes you want something so bad, but the optimum choice is to stay away from those who don’t value you

focus_flow69 · 2022-06-06T00:06:45+00:00

Not everyone vibes with everyone.

Some people will like you and some people will not like you.

The goal in life is to socialize with people who like you. So if they reject you, they are simply self filtering and doing a favor for you by saving you time. You are better off without them.

donchelli · 2022-06-06T01:00:40+00:00

Part of the game, part of life. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-06T01:09:37+00:00

It’s not you, it’s them.

Minty_MantisShrimp · 2022-06-06T04:14:36+00:00

Look my guy, rejection is inevitable, you’ll eventually receive it.

19M

Today I approached a guy who was way taller than me and I wanted a picture with this guy.

I got nervous but did it anyway.

I got a positive response, we took some pics displaying our size difference (I’m 6’4) and it was fun, we exchanged instagram and we went on our Mary way.

What made it exciting was the probability of rejection, and getting a positive response instead was the life of the game

IGiveSilverBullets · 2022-06-06T06:04:52+00:00

Fucking sucks, you’ll feel nauseous for a little while. But you have to get back on the horse unless you want to die alone

YouNWA · 2022-06-06T06:50:48+00:00

Onto the next one. Don’t dwell on that shit.

potatoeswithfries · 2022-06-06T08:19:34+00:00

It's just part of the game. Something that happens. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, and if you happen to lose, you move on and try again elsewhere.

I also find rejection funny, but I also know it can be painful to get rejected a lot - still better than the pain of regret you can feel for a long time afterwards if you don't do anything.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-06T10:02:35+00:00

Everything is better than taking it personally. Most of my rejection wasn't about me or me doing or saying something wrong. ofc it can happen we make mistakes sometimes but till you can learn something from it till it's fine to look back on it and learn that I'm not gonna say this or I'm not gonna be that whatever next time but if I can't do anything about that just let it go like nothing has happened and move on to the next girls

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