How do you ask girls to kiss/etc?

2022-06-02T15:42:07+00:00

You don't ask permission. You read her and escalate.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-02T16:05:24+00:00

You don’t directly ask for a kiss or sex. You never say “hey do you want to fuck?” or “can we kiss?”

It’s all indirect stuff, “let’s go somewhere private” is fine.

Telling her, “i can’t concentrate because your lips are distracting me” in a suggestive way can work too specially if you initiate hand caressing as well right after that and she lets you do it…

That’s long as you two have been talking for 20 mins or so alone first.

And then you just go for it if she accepts those words and your hand caressing.

But you never verbally or express your next move, you hint to it indirectly and via flirting.

Popular_Chapter · 2022-06-02T13:16:55+00:00

invite her out on a 1 - 1 date then, maybe not on the first date but the second give her a reason to come back to your place then escalate from there

for example at a bar you could say something like "i've some wine back at the house if you want to help me finish it?"

vardarac · 2022-06-02T14:30:38+00:00

Asking permission to kiss a girl is weak as fuck. You know this instinctively, that’s why those dumb lines that your friends are feeding you “sound funky.”

You need to flirt, then isolate. Get her to a private place where sex can happen. Girls know what’s up when you invite them back to your place.

As far as getting to sex, that’s why they call it escalation - the word itself implies a gradual process. Kissing > heavy petting > fondling > take her clothes off > finger her pussy.

At this point she should be soaking wet, and she’ll probably beg you to fuck her if you do it right. You can always say something like “you want this dick?” before you enter her

3dprintje · 2022-06-02T17:37:20+00:00

When signals are fuzzy, I sometimes say: 'I kinda want to kiss you' and then lean in half way. Hasn't failed me yet.

DeliberatelyInsane · 2022-06-02T15:53:05+00:00

You don't . You don't even tell them you're going to kiss them. When the time feels right, you lean in for a kiss, if she doesn't reject it, good. If she rejects it you move on. There are certain routines that PUAs used to follow. But in my experience, they're not needed.

revente · 2022-06-02T13:49:56+00:00

Unless it's a hooker you don't ask.

Get her in a 1on1 date like situation and escalate

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/

KinxTheTimeStripper · 2022-06-02T14:30:43+00:00

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Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-02T15:15:43+00:00

Words mean nothing without the vibe. She has to like you and feel comfortable around you enough and then you have to build sexual tension with flirting, holding extended eye contact, making out etc and you can bring up topics that are more sexual or sometimes I use speed seduction. Basically you can't tell a story without imagining it so the story you tell to the girl she has to visualize it to understand so you can bring up that kind of story that makes her even more aroused and you can deal with logistics too so it's useful if you're already near to a place where sex might happen and useful to understand girls usually fear from being judged by you or other guys/girls so you have to make her sure that you're not gonna judge her so she can be more open up with you and try out risky things then if you do these well things might happen to your favour

atomant88 · 2022-06-02T14:51:49+00:00

I have actually seen some guys tell girls to kiss them on the cheek to test it out

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-06-02T16:29:57+00:00

You kinda start to get a feeling that she’s down to kiss. You’ll be somewhere and the conversation will null and you’ll both be facing each other or touching/leaning on each other. Then you’ll just lean in a bit and usually she’ll face you and lean in and then you lean in more and if she reciprocates that then it’s go time any you just go for it.

“You wanna go somewhere more private” works, too. But like you probably want to have at least set yourself up by having gotten more personal already. (Touching, talking, kissing)

lollypup12333 · 2022-06-03T05:05:44+00:00

As a girl who is not afraid to make the first move, read her body language. If she touches you, your already in, unless you’ve seen her touching a lot of people…then she could just be a touchy person. Also pay attention to eyes contact or where her eyes are looking when you are talking. Looking at your mouth? In. Looking at eyes but like not looking away at all? In.
You could also just tell her you think she’s gorgeous and see if she returns the compliment.

ozzzy83 · 2022-06-02T18:22:40+00:00

You do not ask girls for a kiss or for any kind of permission, you flirt with her (learn how to do that), and then when you feel that the moment is right, aka if she flirts back, you just kiss her. As simple as that. There are a lot of books and videos about fundamentals and advanced stuff, so read/watch, learn, apply, practice.

2022-06-02T13:18:37+00:00

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Connect-Pear-3859 · 2022-06-02T17:30:15+00:00

Build some attraction, lean in and do the triangle look. Left eye, right eye and mouth and if she leans in she's up for it. If not back to building attraction with push pull.

gangweedsavedme · 2022-06-03T00:51:41+00:00

If you both are interested in each other, she will look to you to lead the situation, maybe after a deep conversation, look into her eyes, hold eye contact, get closer and kiss

ravius22 · 2022-06-03T02:14:35+00:00

What most ppl said being indirect works, but be charming about it. If you do this on the 2nd date, be sure to create sexual tension on the first date so it's a piece of cake later.

Red_cat_nap · 2022-06-03T04:19:45+00:00

Ask to hang out. Ask to watch a movie together. Ask to cuddle. “Do you want to ____?”

Or do it and ask “does this feel good” “is this ok” “like this?” Or the spicier “baby, show me/tell me how you like to be touched”. The rest is all making them feel good enough that they want to jump you and listening to verbal/nonverbal feedback

atomant88 · 2022-06-03T09:18:18+00:00

just ask. you're overthinking this. its really as easy as just asking.

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