is this a thing or am I delusional?

Optymistyk · 2022-05-08T18:51:34+00:00

A wise person once said "A single guy would flirt with a tree if it approached him"

Srsly, I guarantee you they will be glad you did, even if they don't like you. Doesn't happen ever to most guys

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-08T18:45:36+00:00

As a guy, this is something I struggle with at the gym. There are women that I would like to approach and talk to but I don’t want to seem creepy. Approaching a woman in her tight, cameltoe hugging Lulemon pants when she’s working out, seems harder then my dick.

wolvtongue · 2022-05-08T18:25:51+00:00

Just ask someone to help you with something.

ricagraca · 2022-05-08T18:22:17+00:00

Probably they do not want to be seen as creepy. But if you want attention or if you want them to approach just find a way to be closer to them.

a55_Goblin420 · 2022-05-08T19:56:33+00:00

Guys won't admit it, but cute girls we're genuinely interested in make us nervous in some way or another, whether the guy displays it or not (a lot can mask it, the most common mask is walking up and introducing ourself). Also we overthink whether or not she's genuinely being interested or just being nice and we don't want to come off as creepy. Also the quick look aways are to not come off as creepy as well. On top of that guys Also assume that if a girl is attractive, she's probably dating somebody.

But if you're interested in somebody, but feel like no one is gonna approach you, ask them to help you out with something. Strike up conversation, ask what he's doing later. Like speaking as a guy, it would be so flattering if a girl made a move on us.

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-08T18:53:00+00:00

Men don't have balls to approach so do it yourself

Frosty-Parsley9140 · 2022-05-08T19:38:04+00:00

This kinda cute, the fact that you think you’re coming off as creepy to a guy lol. One you will never come off as that to a guy especially if ur attractive. Ur getting eye contact. So obviously you are. More then likely you own that fucking gym and approach any guy without coming off that way. Asking for a spot is a great way to start that off. Asking for advice even if you don’t need it. Just do that several times and it will just flow

myconium · 2022-05-09T11:39:29+00:00

Try smiling at them next time. It would make you way more approachable

sheeckynuggees · 2022-05-08T19:47:41+00:00

Yup i think that's very mean tbh.

originalgainster · 2022-05-08T23:28:52+00:00

About 95% of the time they look away fast. I have a very pretty face with a side of mysterious. Not my words, close friends have said.

Seems like 95% of the guys you make eye contact with are pussies, or they are not interested.

Lon4reddit · 2022-05-08T21:50:26+00:00

I have been told by a lot of people that gyms are no place to meet girls. But I've never had any issues if I got approached by one. Plenty of guys can't keep eye contact and if you have a resting bitch face haha, well that might help you know.

Mundane_Natural5131 · 2022-05-09T01:35:19+00:00

I tend to look away when i dont want to make it weird lol. I never approach women either since it would be weird to them unless i catch them looking at me like you said then i would push myself to make the approach but i never get looked at lol

TooMuchJibberish · 2022-05-09T01:47:10+00:00

Guys are told not to approach women because it's considered creepy, especially at the gym. That's probably why they won't approach you.

lilfishbowl · 2022-05-09T01:51:20+00:00

If I look away from you fast there is either an abnormalty or I am checking you out

Ulq-kn · 2022-05-09T02:05:21+00:00

It depends, personally when i'm daydreaming while staring and she looks at me i turn around unintentionally, but if i were staring at a girl i'll keep staring till one of use break the eye contact

Temporary-Knee-7050 · 2022-05-09T06:09:03+00:00

Special people will pursue special people ..from guy standpoint,, women keep a wall of reserve up often times ..

Title	is this a thing or am I delusional?
Author	sheeckynuggees
Upvotes	43
Comments	112
Date	May 8, 2022 6:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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