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Dracron · 2022-03-20T15:09:09+00:00

Improving your circumstances is probably the baseline of improvement for seduction. Any improvement in your circumstances has the side effect of effecting you confidence as well, so not only does it make your life better personally it also moves the gears forward on most of the aspects that are key to seduction that aren't the actual experience of approaches and escalation.

mabden · 2022-03-20T16:02:32+00:00

You can have everything going in your favor, but if the logistics aren't right, it can easily derail the night.

NOVAcaledonia268 · 2022-03-21T02:25:10+00:00

Most people still get together through work, school, courses, family, friends in common and etc. A woman is much more likely to show interest in you if you meet organically than by cold approaching or OLD. Thats why you see so Many average guys with good looking Girls. The guy who is a 6 has a better chance of hooking up with a girl if they happen to be at the same College party than a guy who is a 8 and matches with her on Tinder.

coachmelloweyes · 2022-03-20T23:36:13+00:00

Finally someone who gets it. I have a very short and handsome friend who works in a bar as of recent… he tells stories of how he fucks daily because of it.

Yesterday I visited and saw in live in the flesh. It’s all about positioning.

Be enough and be in the right place.

SwimComfortable7465 · 2022-03-20T16:23:11+00:00

Very astute points OP! That's why they say, "location, location, location". You could be a 2 in one place and a 9 in another.

Interesting tidbit about the Latino workplace. I live & work in Southern California. Latinos are known for sticking to their own and are not as afflicted with "white is right" like Asians are. If your taller, fitter, more handsome friend was in an exclusively White or Asian workplace, he may have had more luck.

People need to know their audience and go where they are appreciated if they wish to be successful in the dating and mating marketplace.

rustoof · 2022-03-20T23:01:59+00:00

This os why my number one advice for 18 year old guys going to college is to join a fraternity. Circumstances are king

Whuann · 2022-03-21T10:42:58+00:00

Instructions unclear, got circumcised.

2022-03-20T18:29:39+00:00

Undisputed facts.

biokaizen · 2022-03-20T15:44:50+00:00

Compare both on tinder, the latino fatty has nothing to do versus the other good looking friend.

The fatty latino has to wait opportunities

Glenncinho · 2022-03-21T00:02:47+00:00

Yeah I’ve seen this before. I’m half Latino half white but definitely more on the “gringo” side. I can speak Spanish and have secured my fair sure of lays with Latina girls but I remember at least two instances I went after someone to be my girlfriend (both Mexican) and they ended up choosing the very Mexican man over me.

It kinda hit the ego but I noticed that these women very much wanted to stay within their culture - that is those cowboy Mexican men types, Coronas, vaquero music, micheladas, etc etc, beside the want to have that Mexican upbringing for their child from both parents (one of those girls has since had a daughter).

In that aspect, it makes sense. I’m not that type of guy and surely our relationship would be more of a mix culture thing.

It is what it is. Regardless, any time you have with people!

readMyFlow · 2022-03-20T20:58:39+00:00

What is circumstances in this context?

puma085 · 2022-03-20T21:40:18+00:00

Very wise words. The circumstances are not the same for everybody though. Some have better circumstances than others. But in general, I would say very good advice.

Bobybraun · 2022-03-20T18:12:55+00:00

Yeah, well no

Snakehead004 · 2022-03-21T01:13:04+00:00

When you are truly living your best life.. Or a no fucks left life.. Women will swarm to you. Different types of women for each senerio..

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