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[–]Imlouwhoareyou 42 points43 points44 points 4 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
My guy has never been hit with the eyes
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was smoking outside a party once and this small, redheaded girl approached and asked for a cig. I said I had none left, that I had actually bummed mine from another smoker.
She says "can I drag off yours" or something along those lines. I gave her my dart. She puts in the center of her mouth, her two fingers pressed against her lips, and she gives me the eyes, just staring into mine for what felt like an eternity.
I was too starstruck to respond, tbh. She gave the dart back and her friend pulled her back to the party, but I had never been more attracted to someone in my life.
[–]TooMuchJibberish 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Not every guy has the privilege of being "eyed" by girls or whatever you call it. It's not like you can just do something and it'll make it happen to you.
[–]Imlouwhoareyou 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You’re right. But it’s foolish to say it’s not possible to tell just because you have never experienced It.
Anyway, username checks out
[–]TooMuchJibberish -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
But it’s foolish to say it’s not possible to tell just because you have never experienced It.
No it's not, you typically learn new things from past experiences or by active teaching (school) or notable observations that make sense/have logical patterns. I personly wouldn't know what these eyeing things are or what they look like since I've never experienced them. Well to be fair, I don't think girls even look in my general direction to begin with lol
[–]cutanddried 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This type of thinking is exactly why this sub needs to exist
Be coachable
[–]TooMuchJibberish 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't understand, did I say something bad?
[–]cutanddried 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just ignorant not bad
The point was that you know it when it happens. Adrenaline kicks in your happy and confused and all your senses light up.
You're over here taking about academics AND refuting the idea that this is something that needs to be experienced.
It's akin to your first kiss. You can't study that shit. It needs to be experienced.
[–]TooMuchJibberish 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Adrenaline kicks in your happy and confused and all your senses light up.
Interesting, let's say I get this adrenaline spike like you say. But it turns out the girl wasn't actually giving me those "eyes" and it's just a big misunderstanding? Or is there no mistaking this?
It needs to be experienced.
That's what I meant, I tried to say you either "observe" what it's like or you have to experience it firsthand.
It's akin to your first kiss
Well I haven't had my first kiss so...🤷♂️
[–]cutanddried 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Actually it's all about what you do
And that is the only determinant to when you get the eyes out not
So what is a guy supposed to do?
Be seductive, confident.
Women can't change what they are attracted to. Neither can you
You just need to do it for someone. You'll know when it happens
[–]TooMuchJibberish 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be seductive,
I don't know how to do this/be this.
You just need to do it for someone
Like any girl that I have interest in?
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[–]Vigeto619 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
When they stare at you so hard you begin to get uncomfortable
[–]bee_eazsy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea this sums it up
[–]Imlouwhoareyou 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
When you know you know.
[–]willgo-waggins 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When I met my current girl it was at a social group party. I walked out the back door and looked across the patio and we locked eyes and she just stopped talking and stared and I stopped and stared. There was no question at all.
[–]Imlouwhoareyou 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha. I love it.
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes and they're called BDE - big doe eyes. Had a gal look at me with them 2 years, knew right away i'd be plowing that ass like snow in the arctic circle - and i did.
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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's when their eyes get BIG, seem to sparkle, they smile and hold it for a few seconds. You just know it when you see it. It's happened only like twice in my life, like seeing a fuckin UFO.
[–]Kiltmanenator 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
DDBL - Doggy Dinner Bowl Look- that look your dog gives you just before you begin filling its bowl with food.
[–]Zebrahead033 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Women know how to give "the look". If you don't know what that is then a woman has never looked at you that way.
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[–]Zebrahead033 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh you'll know. There will be no doubt.
Unless you're so caught up with over thinking and over analyzing it that you completely miss it.
[–]Lefanteriorascencion 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This happened a handful of times to me . The most recent , I was at a shopping center and this attractive Brunette land I locked eyes. It sounds corny at but it felt like I’d known her for a lifetime and like we were meant to be together. I don’t believe in soulmate crap and I’m fairly stoic so it was a weird phenomenon, felt bad for the boyfriend, but alas out of respect I just enjoyed the moment and kept it moving.
[–]vroomvroomski 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao this only happens to me with girls I'm not attracted to
Yea there is girl at the gym that gives me those looks occasionally and has a boyfriend. I feel bad for the guy lol
[–]Calamity__Bane 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, absolutely. It’s not just the expression on their face, though, it’s their body language and follow-up actions as well.
[–]great_account 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes you can. Just cause you missed it, didn't mean it wasn't there.
[–]ur_notmytype 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, every guy that was interested in me looked at me like they wanted to eat me up and I gave them a look back and the rest is history
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she’s interested in chugging your yogurt you’ll know.
If she’s looking at you a little bit cause she’s curious, you’ll know.
If she’s not into you at all you will know.
And she doesn’t have to say a word.
[–]Dodechaedron3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/dilated-pupils-meaning
[–]JohntheAnabaptist4 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Warning, there are a lot of anti depressants and other meds that cause dialated pupils. It often means they're on drugs
[–]Dodechaedron2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Sure. Also darkness induce pupils' dilation. However, when the other factors are removed, it's an ioi.
[–]JohntheAnabaptist1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah, its just the "removing the other factors" part that's often the issue. So many people these days are taking some drug, especially women
[–]Dodechaedron1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Even in the middle ages, drops of the "deadly nightshade" extract (atropine) was used to dilate the pupils and make women more sexy. Anyways, I've seen that dilation in a woman's eyes and you understand when it's genuine attraction.
I totally have too! just wanted to make sure to warn people here that drugs exist
[–]vorter1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Love is the drug. Boom.
[–]Illustrious-Exit290 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can absolutely tell. And honestly when I have acted on it I have never been wrong yet.
[–]caledonguy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some people are natural at reading body language and and pickup on what type of eyes a girl is giving them. I don't do alot of approaching girls but when I come across a girl that gives me a certain look I know that if I shoot my shot they're a 95% chance of me getting her number.
In short I can tell and I think it's a built in feature(maybe could be developed) and I've gotten girls since I was in grade school.
[–]blackwing2198 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think there are certainly times when it is obvious but there’s no way you can definitively say that every time someone looks at you you know how they’re feeling about you and if they’re interested. Especially if they’re any good at hiding it which they’re probably trying to do in the first place
[–]Gwitness 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
don’t even have to read the story, brother you will know when the look a girl gives you is off of attraction, you just know. I’m not one to always think when a girl makes contact with me is checking me out, but when a girl looks at you like she’s staring into your soul, I knew and was always right. you got her, only you can f it up
[–]anou142 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
u will understand if you watch this Nina giving the eye
[–]LarryBigBalls 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you retarded my boy
[–]vorter 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not the same. That’s more of an “O” face.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Dude, if you like someone approach them. Stop trying to read minds. It’s a pointless debate because while you two are discussing if the girl is interested, a guy with balls who gives zero fucks about rejection has already approach the girl and having a good time with her.
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[–]CompetitionFair7686 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s not possible to read minds. No one can read minds. Even if someone thinks he is sure he is not 100% sure, and many times they get it wrong. Argument settled.
[–]anotherwayoflife 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao imagine being this buzz kill idiot because you misread the thread
[–]BlancheCorbeau 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The question itself is irrelevant beta nonsense.
Don’t hang back in fear of rejection. All that matters is whether you’re interested - and to a lesser extent, whether you can show interest without coming off as an asshole.
Ruminate over whether you can read tea leaves or eye blink rates to assess interest all you want… but it all basically amounts to simple tricks you’re using on yourself to overcome your own fears.
Just be afraid, and approach anyway. So much time and energy saved.
[–]BlancheCorbeau 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yikes. I had no idea they still made glass snowflakes.
Best of luck, you’re… gonna need it.
[–]Fletcherskate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s a vibe
[–]_je11y_bean 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Short answer. Yes.
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