"I just don't feel a connection"

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-06T11:01:35+00:00

It means that you present yourself one way in your profile but in reality you are disappointing and you don't have any chemistry. Typically this has to do with exuding neurosis instead of sex. Try focusing only on what you want and don't try to impress the girl.

MsStarstruck · 2022-01-06T08:38:07+00:00

Obviously all the fine tuning of your profile went to a point where it’s not a honest overall-picture of yourself anymore. Meaning, the cute girls like what they read but don’t like what they meet. Change your profile, make it more authentic and meet the chicks that actually want to date you and not a polished up version of yourself you obviously fail to deliver.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-01-06T12:51:03+00:00

It means you don’t give them the tingles

Visualize_ · 2022-01-06T08:41:08+00:00

Well good news is you have leads so you nailed down one step of the equation. Now you need to just improve on your dates and it seems like the biggest issue is you are boring. Chances are you aren't escalating or your conversations are just like Q+As and you need to lighten up the mood and start bantering

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-01-06T13:43:25+00:00

Need more information. How do you act? What do you talk? What you do for dates? Are you too safe in your conversations?

When I meet up I usually get to take it further. I just treat it as a bit of a joke. It fun.

Tip if go out for drink or some food I never sit across the table in an interview, sit next to girl it more familiar. Kino easier. I've move furniture around to do it sometimes.

Alextryingforgrate · 2022-01-06T10:31:10+00:00

Do you just ask questions on your dates or have a conversation with them? Do you gaze into their eyes or stare like a bozo just hoping that being good looking is good enough?

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-01-06T14:52:22+00:00

Not trying to be rude, but it sounds like you just have a boring personality bro. You're probably asking boring interview-style questions during your dates and not building any rapport with them. I doubt you're trying to make the pull at the end of the night either.

Basically, it sounds like you got lots to work on.

Shadow__Account · 2022-01-06T15:38:45+00:00

You don't seem to build attraction. Do you make the interaction man to woman? Or just generic platonic nonsense what do you do for work blabla. Do you escalate kino? Do you have fucking powerful eye contact that almost makes her uncomofrtable? Do you clearly state your intent? Do you easily talk about sexual things.? Do you value yourself and tell stuff about yourself instead of just asking her questions? Do you worry about if she is enjoying the interaction instead of you enjoying the interaction? Do you push and pull? Do you tease her? Do you show leadership qualities?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-06T17:23:56+00:00

The problem is lack of sexual tension. The way you interact with them is mostly platonic, safe, and without any sexual energy. You don’t insinuate your sexual intentions, you don’t flirt sexually, you just treat girls as friends. You never lower your voice tonality and try to make them blush and turn on the heat. Hence why she is not feeling with you

norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-06T08:29:02+00:00

Do you try to escalate? Touching, kissing, sex?

excentrik-art · 2022-01-06T08:12:01+00:00

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LordCarnifex · 2022-01-06T17:09:32+00:00

What do you do for a living? Where do you live (coast, metro, rural)? Are you exclusively relying on dating apps (I wouldn't rely on them at all, to be frank)? How often are you going out by yourself? Do you have platonic women friends (platonic meaning you're not lying to yourself an harboring a secret desire for them)? What is your style, both in terms of clothing and hair? Where are you going on your first dates? Give me info and I'll give you a long answer.

slunkinx · 2022-01-06T08:09:19+00:00

too much of a simp. stop caring about these hoes

TearsofAnger · 2022-01-06T08:32:35+00:00

You're looking for someone to date, not a fwb. Quit online dating, it's mostly for casual relations and attention grabbing. You will have more luck finding a real, tangible relationship in person.

daddysgotanew · 2022-01-06T14:25:42+00:00

You’re just not good looking enough, sorry. They were most likely bored/needed a free meal/ Chad wasn’t answering that night and said “ah fuck it, I guess I can go out with this dude it’s better than sitting at home with the dog”

IndianRedditor88 · 2022-01-07T03:39:31+00:00

Your conversational skills and a personality need a revamp since you don't come across as interesting as you seem in your profile.

Title	"I just don't feel a connection"
Author	BobR100200300
Upvotes	5
Comments	39
Date	January 6, 2022 8:08 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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