Being lean vs being big

tes_befil · 2022-01-01T16:25:31+00:00

Low bf% is far more effective if you're looking to just build attractiveness. And once you're lean you can always aim to slowly build muscle on that. But in my experience low bf% will pull way more girls than being built. But the best combo is ottermode, or low bf% with a little bit of muscle.

bestinwpb · 2022-01-01T14:38:41+00:00

How tall are you ? Generally you want to have the body type that makes your v face look the leanest sharpest

TMGThro · 2022-01-01T13:22:58+00:00

Doesn't matter what other people find attractive because no one likes the same thing. You will find people who like you as you are and has a preference for your body type. Do what makes you feel good and don't worry about how you think people think you should be because like I said there isn't a 1 size fits all

caesarfecit · 2022-01-01T17:55:27+00:00

Based on my experience, here's two observations that might help.

The most universally attractive physical trait a man can have is a low body fat percentage. Everything else depends on the girl, but there's very few if any girls who find doughy guys more attractive than lean ones.
Every girl has certain preferences, but ultimately they aren't super picky provided your game is tight. What I find is the key, is to make the most of what you've got. If you're a big beefy guy, get lean and toned, and wear clothes that fit properly. If you're a skinny pretty guy, accessorize and make your look distinctive.

ProfitisAlethia · 2022-01-01T15:56:35+00:00

The classic conundrum of looking good naked vs looking good in a t shirt! Oh yes! The answer to have your cake and eat it too is years of good bulking and cutting . or injecting testosterone enanthate , taking HCG , and dosing an AI for 10 months out of the year for the rest of your life until you die haha

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-01-01T17:19:16+00:00

I think most women prefer low body fat because it makes you look more handsome and they will spend most of their time looking at your face and eyes not your body. Definitely for the women I am attracted to this is true (young and thin). But for other subsets of women, such as women who lift or other groups they may prefer bulkier muscles. So it’s also a matter of knowing your audience depending on who you are attracted to.

IOnlyCameToArgue · 2022-01-01T16:31:53+00:00

I've(m33) decided to just bulk and get big again.

When my gf(f28) and I first got together she loved my huge arms, shoulders and chest. My biceps were about 18 inches.

Then I really got into intermittent fasting and jump rope to lean up. I lost a ton of weight because I wanted abs and I wanted a lean face.

But now my gf has admitted that she liked the big, strong version of me. She didn't mind that I my face looked a bit full or chubby.

From my other experiences I think women still prefer big and strong men over lean and pretty.

anishp983 · 2022-01-01T13:22:12+00:00

Why not both. Main gain.

letsgetrandy · 2022-01-01T13:18:58+00:00

Be confident inside and make whatever body type you have work for you.

austinrose7 · 2022-01-01T18:11:46+00:00

One of the best guys with women I ever knew was short and chubby. He pulled hot girls from daygame like it was nothing. Consistently too.

Also I’ve seen conventionally attractive models date guys who are overweight and skinny. Nothing is more important that personality and charisma.

skatinislife446 · 2022-01-01T18:04:35+00:00

Big, natural, lean. Pick 2, you can’t have all 3.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-01T17:44:36+00:00

None of that is going to make a difference if you don't genuinely accept and like yourself.

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-01-01T17:19:29+00:00

I think most women prefer low body fat because it makes you look more handsome and they will spend most of their time looking at your face and eyes not your body. Definitely for the women I am attracted to this is true (young and thin). But for other subsets of women, such as women who lift or other groups they may prefer bulkier muscles. So it’s also a matter of knowing your audience depending on who you are attracted to.

Radio_Unique · 2022-01-01T19:26:12+00:00

as a woman who’s always in the gym and fit, I noticed men who has proportional body, lean and great big legs, most men in gym only have big arms and chest no legs

2022-01-01T20:20:13+00:00

Low bf with muscle definition/lean probably looks more aesthetic/attractive, but work on bulking up while keeping bf low to improve all your life aspects

Mrcopeland25 · 2022-01-01T20:51:02+00:00

i’ve been both i pulled more when i was bigger i was 6’3 240 and ripped when i was lanky and lean not so much but going back to 240 now been getting way more looks and eyes since i started

2022-01-01T20:51:42+00:00

Lean. Better looking and cheaper: stop ego lifting.

2022-01-01T21:00:49+00:00

Hey OP, Pardon my lack of knowledge. what is bf? (I couldn't find anything on Google)

ugglygirl · 2022-01-01T21:46:39+00:00

Be a pleasure junky. Engage in those activities you find pleasurable. Girls dig that!

2022-01-01T23:14:51+00:00

I mean, you can be big and lean if you lift more....

Silent-Recipe-3600 · 2022-01-02T01:58:13+00:00

The truth is it doesn’t matter because you will get a different answer from a lot of girls. Some will say lean, others strong, others in between. I’m 5’10 185 with visible abs rn so I’m more of an in between for my height and I’m most confident like this. Do whatever makes you feel most confident in your body. You mentioned your genetics keep you at a low weight so unless your 6’0 or higher don’t expect to get over 200 lbs.

Title	Being lean vs being big
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Date	January 1, 2022 1:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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