Catching a flight back to the US tomorrow after spending time in Costa Rica, Panama and Nicaragua. The more time I spend here, the more I realize the dating/pick up scene in the US is total fucking garbage, the quality of women is total shit and the attitude of most American females is total shit too.
I am 44, Black/Hispanic mixed, I am fluent in Spanish and Portuguese, literally here, you can walk to any female and start a conversation, I had 0 hostile attitudes, women rolling their eyes or bitchy attitudes.
Most girls here have a genuine interest in getting to know you and if you ask them for a favor, not only are they willing to help but they are willing to go above and beyond.
Women here not only are open to being approached but they like it, they will give you subtle signs of interest(they will touch you, they will turn their bodies towards you, etc) so if a girl likes you, unless you are a social retard, there is no second guessing.
I could go and on but I am planning a return trip to Panama, I honestly don't even a see a point in cold approaching women in the US, I think it is a fucking waste of time.
I watched some cold approach videos by Todd V, David from How to Beast today and man, they seem so fucking awkward after I spent some time here- the number of awkward experiences with females here was 0, so yes, there is something about our culture that is totally fucked up,socially, it is not a normal culture.
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