How to stop stressing about the girls I almost had

Environmental_Cress2 · 2021-09-16T17:47:03+00:00

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pokemonpokemonmario · 2021-09-16T17:54:20+00:00

Tell me about it man. I try to use this as motivation for self improvement to make sure I don't miss no more opportunities in life when it comes to girls or anything else.

prettyaurore · 2021-09-16T18:28:19+00:00

Sorry you're going through this. There are definitely plenty of fuckable fishes in the sea. haha. All jokes aside, keep yourself busy and work on you. <3

Artichoke19 · 2021-09-16T23:36:35+00:00

The amount of times I’ve matched almost all the lotto numbers on a ticket but each number is like, one or two digits off.

Doesn’t bear thinking about. I just buy a ticket for the next draw and get on with life.

If I win the jackpot I win the jackpot. If I don’t…well…I dont!

I see it the same way with women. I tell myself that like men, they also know for certain after a few seconds or moments of meeting me whether they want to have sex with me or not, too.

That I can’t talk a woman into sex if she doesn’t already inherently find at least one aspect of me physically attractive.

So to me to stay sane - it’s always 50/50.

Same as when us men see a woman and decide yes or no. 🤷🏻‍♂️.

Would you be happy if a woman you didn’t find sexually or physically attractive still felt like they could ‘convince’ you to have sex with them?

I mean…the average man is obviously far more likely than the average woman to eventually cave if plied with alcohol but I doubt any self-respecting man is going to wake up the next morning feeling particularly good about the encounter.

AdrianMojnarowski · 2021-09-16T20:39:47+00:00

I do know one thing tho

Women they come they go

Saturday through Sunday, Monday, Monday through Sunday yo.

Redis_Sara · 2021-09-16T19:45:27+00:00

Don’t stress over something you can’t control!

LoneWolfRyan · 2021-09-17T02:31:21+00:00

tell me about it. last year I met an amazing woman, but before I could make a move one of my friends did and now they’re probably gonna get engaged in the next few years. it fucked me up, knowing I had 5 months before he met her that I could’ve used. but I’m not gonna pray on his downfall, he played his cards right and they’re both happy.

the best thing you can do is wait for another woman to come around, and learn from your mistakes. or better yet, go out in the world meeting people, maybe you’ll meet the right woman faster

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-16T17:42:15+00:00

Does nothing for you. Better yourself and move on. Maybe they come back to see the new and improved you.

dress__code · 2021-09-16T20:04:05+00:00

Heavyweight and heavy metal is helping. In same boat as you. Fucked up the friendship by sending a drunk text. Now sober me can’t move on.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-17T06:51:14+00:00

Work on your game.

Talk to more girls.

Or don't do any of those and be miserable like you are now.

ja_pon_pon · 2021-09-16T23:19:48+00:00

Bro this is the history of my life, I've had many girls just 1 step away from sleeping with me and something happened that ruined it. It's frustrating but happens to all beginners.

2021-09-17T00:43:53+00:00

This used to be me and honest answer is you need to do something with your life like now that I’m in college and hanging out with friends and going to bars I don’t give a fuck about the girls back home that rejected me they’ll probably see me and wish they had me cuffed 2 years ago

Spinuchi · 2021-09-16T21:21:48+00:00

"Never let nobody curve me, that dont deserve me"

su1tup2301 · 2021-09-17T06:50:50+00:00

Last year I went out on a great date with a girl, which I thought would've ended with sex as we were getting pretty heavy when we made out. She ghosted me for no reason a day later. Two weeks later I went out on a date with a girl who is now my gf of one year and I couldn't be happier. Life throws curve balls OP, just enjoy the ride and see where things go

Chillhardy · 2021-09-17T14:45:18+00:00

My dad always told me “women are like transit busses. A new one comes every 20 minutes”. Shallow, but damn good advice

jestercake · 2021-09-16T19:27:25+00:00

What's done is done. Plenty of fish.

youallsuck40 · 2021-09-17T20:24:29+00:00

Ew … I doubt they wanted to fuck You

Iistendipshit · 2021-09-16T22:47:37+00:00

That's what I'm wondering too... When I got out of high school Corona started and been attending uni online since. Haven't even met any girl in that period of time, let alone had time to develop feelings for her. So I still stress about my high school crushes... Your best bet would be to fall in love with some girl from the internet, doesn't matter if she's a singer, youtuber, actress, porn actress, or even if she's popular, has an onlyfans, hell doesn't matter if she even exists. The only thing that's important, if she exists, she has to live a minimum of 2000 miles away from you, so you know from the start you have absolutely no chance in theory to even consider her being an option. That way, you'll always think of her, but you won't be stressed since you've never had any chances with her whatsoever

-WolfieMcq · 2021-09-16T20:19:23+00:00

Dude get one of those manual sex tubes. And a book of women’s names. Do you know what to do: pick a name and close your eyes. What you don’t realize is often when we fantasize about what’s wonderful it’s deliberate it that you were not there.

Interesting_You_6832 · 2021-09-17T03:52:38+00:00

Lol you just lusting bro forget it and get a pocket pussy. And work on yourself and when your ready and got your shit together you’ll find a girl.

TheBurningStag13 · 2021-09-17T14:19:06+00:00

When you find out how to cope, let me know the secret mate.

Title	How to stop stressing about the girls I almost had
Author	Environmental_Cress2
Upvotes	145
Comments	44
Date	September 16, 2021 5:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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