How do you actually become a high quality/value guy?

gbizzle2 · 2021-09-16T03:19:37+00:00

Its a mindset thing. High value is a man who has quality options and masculinity

Shyness is feminine. Stop being shy and call it being quiet. You can be quiet and masculine

Youre not lonely youre alone. A man elevates himself the most while he is alone.

Its a lie. You dont have low self worth. You value yourself

Good-Phrase · 2021-09-16T02:56:04+00:00

Being decent looking, having realistic goals/passions, not giving a shit about looking like an idiot, being humble, and having discipline to name some things, not saying this cuz that’s me though… maybe one day LOL

5_7pickup · 2021-09-16T03:48:56+00:00

High value don't mean shit if you don't market it. Are girls just suppose to know you're high value without ever meeting you? If you are high value and you wanna show someone then you have to put yourself out there and meet people.

blunt_eastwood · 2021-09-16T16:37:07+00:00

I go by what Mark Manson has said in Models, which is to focus on the three fundamentals: Honest Action, Honest Living, and Honest Communication.

I think if you read his book and study those three fundamentals you will find what's missing for yourself.

rewinder909 · 2021-09-16T05:58:36+00:00

Live by your values and you will become a high quality person by your standards. If your waiting to be high quality for someone else you are not being truthful with yourself.

skyrunner22 · 2021-09-16T13:55:09+00:00

There are many sayings for this type of stuff but mainly a high value man is someone who values them self. There are soo many different ways people say this, interval locust of control, the street dudes would say "the game is in you, not on you". You have to be internally driven and seek validation within your self. There is a certain enthusiasm/energy that person exudes that draws people to them. (Look up the etymology of word enthusiasm, basically god within, possessed by god)

I am sure we all have met the guy who could dress in suit or torn tshirt and his confidence was still unwavering, this is because he is internally driven, he gives zero fucks what others think and this in itself is attractive to all people because many people struggle with this issue. This guy is easily able to talk to people, relate and then people push attractive traits on to them. But they value themselves so they naturally establish boundaries, speak up for themselves, assert themselves, lead when needed, etc. Things women find attractive in general.

2Fast2Real · 2021-09-16T03:37:33+00:00

Self worth and shyness isn’t something you can be told about. It’s best to get a therapist.

birdmanunited · 2021-09-16T12:16:20+00:00

Height matters

AelfredRex · 2021-09-16T13:15:42+00:00

It all comes down to the culture you choose to consume. Do you just follow the herd or do you want to feed your head the best? Little value in being average.

MentalCelOmega · 2021-09-16T06:40:17+00:00

High value men are not made, they are born.

D_Caedus · 2021-09-16T10:04:11+00:00

By appearing busy and not giving too much, it's more about perception really.

SmolAnus · 2021-09-16T12:26:08+00:00

It is not a change that can be done overnight. It took me 6 months to start feeling good about myself after I decided I needed to change. But you're already on the right track. You just need to be mindful of your change. A counselor can't change you but only guide you, you need to make the change yourself. It is pretty much a battle you have to fight but when you win and look back, you will feel proud of yourself.

GotThaAcid5tab · 2021-09-16T15:51:02+00:00

You already are!

Barakaa78 · 2021-09-16T16:08:48+00:00

Like many said high value only keeps women interested, it doesn't get them interested.

ass-eater-42069 · 2021-09-16T16:17:27+00:00

Being 5’ 4 is tough

rdae11 · 2021-09-16T17:26:34+00:00

It sounds like you have a lot going for you. The only thing I heard you say that was potentially a problem was that you are a little bit short, and psychological research shows that height is a strongly prohibitive in the majority of women, so it’s possible that might be limiting your options somewhat. It’s bs, but I’m just being real with you, that stuff matters to women. Maybe work on finding a girl smaller than you. I wish you the best. It sounds like you have lots of great qualities.

day_dreamer9711 · 2021-09-17T01:32:00+00:00

Its all about your communication skills!!! I know ugly dudes who can talk fast and quick witted who get girls all the time. Im tall, good body, good physic but i suck at talking. I get really nervous and im shy plus i fucking stutter. I hate myself sometimes like i got everything that women want (money too) but i just suck at fucking talking to people and im always down to earth, keeping to myself. Fuck all that "nice looks" bullshit. Its all about communication!

bandsupjay · 2021-09-17T02:38:15+00:00

Be yourself and own that shit. Walk like you’re the man and have options. Have an abundance mindset and stop caring about every little interaction with women. Be there to have a good time and never let anyone walk over you. It’s like a version of being yourself unapologetically and not letting people treat you like shit. You already got the money and shit, so this is like the inside stuff.

Title	How do you actually become a high quality/value guy?
Author	rdae11
Upvotes	25
Comments	32
Date	September 16, 2021 2:40 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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