Update to the "25 year old virgin. Have a date and then Netflix and chill" post I made. For some reason the mods removed it.

DennisReynoIds · 2021-07-09T02:36:34+00:00

Pro tip homie, always make sure your date makes it into their place safe before driving away

Sweet-Palpitation473 · 2021-07-08T23:49:42+00:00

Aw man, that's so great man. You must feel on top of the world. I'm so happy for you.

LIL-GLUTEN-rm · 2021-07-08T23:09:32+00:00

Atta boy👍

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2021-07-09T00:56:08+00:00

No sex but honestly, not the main goal.

Awesome, I'm glad you had fun!

For future reference, though, it's good to realize that she would have taken a sledgehammer to her front door if she realllllly needed to. She called you back because she was comfortable spending the night with you, which means she was probably also comfortable having sex with you.

It's perfectly ok to play things safe and slow like you did. I'm sure it'll all work out pretty well for you in this case. There will be other times when the outcome will depend on you reading the situation quicker and more accurately, though.

In those cases, you'll probably need to recognize that she probably isn't hanging out with you for youtube recommendations... she's probably cuddling in bed with you in the middle of the night because she wants the same physicality that you want.

Don't be afraid to ask for what you want. She'll probably say yes!

Cringe_1031 · 2021-07-09T02:09:29+00:00

Sometimes spending time together is better than sex

2021-07-09T00:16:17+00:00

So happy for you man. Don’t worry about the sex, worry about enjoying yourself.

Hoffmaster21 · 2021-07-09T03:40:09+00:00

Also it is totally okay not fucking on the first date. Especially if you're nervous and it's your first time. You'll be so much more comfortable the next time you see her that anxiety may be way less.

dodoindex · 2021-07-09T03:47:51+00:00

yo good work bro! sex doesn’t need to be the main goal. I think this is mission success as well!

StealthyPancake89 · 2021-07-09T01:06:35+00:00

Sounds like a good night and you would have come off as a good guy not trying to get in her pants on the first night!

EA946677 · 2021-07-09T01:33:39+00:00

I'm the one who changed the likes from 69 to 70

chatpal91 · 2021-07-09T00:41:03+00:00

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Moon_whisper · 2021-07-09T03:04:00+00:00

Congratulations on the cuddling and making her feel safe around you. Despite what many guys are saying about hie uou should have "went for it", you are better off in the long run doing exactly as you did.

Awesome on bringing up the anxiety too. You made yourself human to her, vulnerable and relatable. She chose to sray with you nog only because she feels safe and comfortable with you, but because she wants you to feel safe and comfortable with her.

I don't know what you are thinking about this girl, but she is scoping you out for some more than a ond night stand. Way too early to tell how interested she is, but definitely interested enough to spend the night in your arms. That kind of intimacy is really important for most women. The fact you didn't try to jump her the first night will be a big deal to her.

Sure you might nog have gotten laid, but keep it up, you may end up with a devoted girlfriend. You are FAR from the friendzone.

(For the record, I am a woman.)

2021-07-09T05:17:12+00:00

Aww that sounds amazing and like a really chill, comfortable experience! Plus, imo the sex will probably be even greater once you get to know each other a bit more.

lightbraddah · 2021-07-09T02:23:13+00:00

Hell yeah bro good for you

Madelinecole09 · 2021-07-09T03:29:15+00:00

Please update us this is cute!!

ImportantDinkleBerry · 2021-07-09T00:42:24+00:00

Are you looking for an LTR?

starwarsman123 · 2021-07-09T02:02:34+00:00

That's huge mate!

Best of luck on the second date, you seem to have matched well!

Competitive_Trip5045 · 2021-07-09T07:47:30+00:00

Read your previous post and was wondering what would happen next. Thanks for the update, Happy for you!

lavenderblond · 2021-07-09T10:19:33+00:00

Always, always wait for your date to get in the door before you drive away.

Pik000 · 2021-07-09T02:19:38+00:00

Good job, just make sure next time you escalate, girls will read into this that your not interested if you dont. A girl knows what would probably happen if shes sleeping at your house overnight, so its safe to make a move, if shes not keen she will say no. Wont be an issue just doesnt want to do it straight away.

JohnnyLazer17 · 2021-07-09T00:58:24+00:00

How come you didn’t go for it?

betachadtries · 2021-07-09T13:39:36+00:00

Congrats man. Keep going and try not to get stuck on this one. Good results for what it was. Sounds like fun. I think escalation would've been ideal here.

Keep going out and do approaches

Swimming_Fortune · 2021-07-09T14:16:55+00:00

Good, sounds like a great experience. I'm 24 and in a similar situation as you, just now expanding my comfort zone and being open and vulnerable with women. One thing I'll caution is that as hard as it is, to try not to develop strong feelings for her just yet. Sometimes when i've thought things are going well and did something like that, I ended up getting ghosted. I hope it works out for you, I'm just offering a word of caution to be careful with your heart.

Blaphrodite · 2021-07-09T04:47:19+00:00

That’s great. Women looking for a relationship love a man who isn’t pushy about sex the first time you have a moment you need to be vulnerable and sleep. You didn’t act like a horn dog like some guys would. Kudos to you.

Time to build on that and have the best sex of your life and likely a relationship. You’re soon to disvirgined. Yay!!!

coreyk56 · 2021-07-09T11:34:16+00:00

YOU DOG

Shanbaceball · 2021-07-10T01:05:49+00:00

Sweet

2021-07-09T07:49:51+00:00

Don’t be afraid to escalate by touching her in more intimate areas and such. Obviously don’t just outright grab her vag or what ever of course 🤣 you gotta build to it through the “cuddling”. For example, you’re running your fingers around her back while watching a movie or something. After establishing a pattern of movement for a while, begin to slowly get lower and lower, works a treat if you’re wanting the lay.

You’ll know you’ve been rejected if she moves away, she will make it obvious. If she does not do this, proceed to your goal (getting them panties or bra off). It’s all about body language and “feel” at that point.

I say this because you had her in your bed late at night and was pretty close. If you had of been a bit braver I seriously think you could have scored and gone all the way.

Bravo on the kiss though dude.

2021-07-09T07:18:34+00:00

that's all good man, next time though got to do more than just cuddling and watch YouTube. I think coming to your place to "charge her phone" was just an excuse to hook up, but she realize you stressed out. Next time chill and have fun, this one might be a keeper.

yeTaughtMe2 · 2021-07-09T01:47:21+00:00

Damn nice, shoulda piped tho. Keep working on it bro🤙

Rowan-the-Girlfriend · 2021-07-09T01:23:04+00:00

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Good-Tap-9604 · 2021-07-09T04:25:31+00:00

You fumbled big time. Girls naturally seek leaders but you giving me the biggest beta male vibe. Fake your confidence if you got to, next time lead her, when kissing her feel on her thing and compliment it and just keep escalating from there till you get what you want.

hudsonv11 · 2021-07-09T02:51:42+00:00

A better future is possible. Splendid

Health077 · 2021-07-09T04:40:50+00:00

Tinder?

Tiku21 · 2021-07-09T05:05:49+00:00

I'm happy for you

Jenenga · 2021-07-09T05:40:02+00:00

Congrats man!

tbarbeast · 2021-07-09T06:25:24+00:00

My man. Im proud of you

2021-07-09T06:37:24+00:00

Nice. Sounds like a nice girl.

Starshiee · 2021-07-09T06:41:07+00:00

good man!

Mr-Nyan · 2021-07-09T09:32:50+00:00

Sounds awesome man

2021-07-09T09:48:26+00:00

I take that as a fat W man, well done.

StressedAndrew · 2021-07-09T09:57:55+00:00

Proud of you bro 😊🤜🤛

ViberArmani · 2021-07-09T10:11:38+00:00

get it. happy for you bro.

noNameCode · 2021-07-09T11:19:34+00:00

I wish same thing to happen to me someday

BigShuggy · 2021-07-09T11:27:14+00:00

Sounds like you had a good night, love to see it 👍🏼

OppositePassenger806 · 2021-07-09T16:07:34+00:00

Awesome date. I think I told you there are good ones out there. Honesty is always a good policy. Glad you didn’t press her for sex, but I think that’s coming.

mydogsnameistheo · 2021-07-09T16:27:16+00:00

I’m happy for you bro. This is the way great relationships start. Good luck!

Clar0020 · 2021-07-09T16:28:21+00:00

Congrats bro

frankie08 · 2021-07-09T16:50:52+00:00

Way to go, dude!

restfullslet · 2021-07-09T17:23:20+00:00

I haven't bought it. But this dude is selling alot of pick up stuff

https://instagram.com/30daysdatingfixed?utm_medium=copy_link

Don't know if this helps?

Wu_Pao-chao · 2021-07-09T18:53:15+00:00

atta Boy!

chlangdo · 2021-07-09T21:03:10+00:00

I’m a 31 year old virgin

JackedUpStump · 2021-07-30T04:33:35+00:00

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