The 3 Best Ways To Show Sexual Intent - (Without Being a Creep)

RogueSquirrel0 · 2019-11-01T17:43:52+00:00

Ppl struggle with this so much. Learn this by heart: “disguising” your romantic interest as friendship DOES NOT WORK. You need to communicate interest from the moment you become interested, often times early on the relationship.

Moretalent · 2019-11-01T17:39:19+00:00

hate videos. Trying to read shit at work here..

DankTank07 · 2019-11-01T19:36:05+00:00

LPT: Watching a video from someone who isn’t in the same person as you, WILL NOT HELP YOU.

It took me a long time to find myself and figure out how to talk to people before I could confidently talk to people I had a romantic interest in and it still doesn’t always work out. It’s like losing weight, there is no 3 easy steps, there is no secret. It’s work, it’s learning about yourself, and it’s being okay with hearing someone say no

beyoncais · 2019-11-01T18:47:47+00:00

"Hot and cold" already has a name. "push-pull"

ProFriendZoner · 2019-11-01T18:36:21+00:00

TL:DW

What are the 3 secrets?

caesarfecit · 2019-11-01T22:01:25+00:00

Polarize to attract.

Attraction creates interest.

Reward interest with interest.

That simple.

AngryMobster · 2019-11-01T17:58:47+00:00

Anyone got other examples of Hot/cold moves? I've had my fair share of coming off kinda like a douche.

jgamez6 · 2019-11-01T17:16:30+00:00

Someone get this man a better mic! Lol aside from that I'm gonna try this out I'll let yall know how it goes.

Kihulane · 2019-11-01T17:55:48+00:00

The second secret seems a bit cringy for me. This needs to be in great context or situation to say "No way we're kissing today" or something similar.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-11-03T14:43:14+00:00

1

The video talks about being direct as a verbal thing, when this is a miscategorization.

The whole issue with declaring one's feelings most of the time is:

Guys are doing so desperately
And/or they're failing to have the confidence to escalate physically while also being in tune with the woman's feedback as he's doing so.

2

So it's not that being direct is necessarily bad. It's that guys often aren't savvy enough to pull this off. Instead they: * Wait too long until their chance has passed and then throw a really awkward Hail Mary by "confessing." * Fail to escalate physically and try to tell her how they feel, which only draws attention to their lack of confidence to escalate. * Make a move without calibrating based on the feedback the girl is giving.

3

Joking around, playing hard to get, or being hot and cold, do not solve the core issue of needing to confidently escalate physically, with good calibration.

beyoncais · 2019-11-01T18:55:15+00:00

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Justo_Lives · 2019-11-01T18:57:28+00:00

None of any of this matters until you’ve built a strong foundation of values and principles underneath how others see/react to your actions. Until then, you’ll be scrambling for the crumbs of validation you get from any human, regardless of gender, forever.

Kviten004 · 2019-11-02T10:11:47+00:00

Free Todd V program on youtube https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKIaJfW2hUsxV_F0zdb-eF0YiK9SE-20L

Father-McKenz1e · 2019-11-02T16:45:09+00:00

Denial is ridiculous. You'll only attract confused drama queens who like to play games (which is what you're doing).

The Hot and Cold is also pathetic, cause it gives the idea that it is an effort to praise her. Most of times it gets as answer "huh.. thank you, I guess?" - this is NOT a good answer.

But the joking one is actually cool.

f_ckupsomecommas · 2019-11-01T17:27:38+00:00

This is great thanks buddy I’m gonna use this over the weekend

JayzerJ · 2019-11-01T17:40:43+00:00

Be good looking

finbarqs · 2019-11-01T23:42:58+00:00

Hmm if it was a job I wanted, I wouldn’t question it. I’d take it because I think they appreciate me for coming on the force!

2019-11-02T19:01:33+00:00

Great video! will def watch more of this channel. You gotta be subtle and not too obvious and have her wondering. Girls are like guys. Given the right triggers, you can psychologically influence them to like you. Establish your intent subtly and view yourself as the prize.

beyoncais · 2019-11-02T04:22:22+00:00

Finally something on this sub that is clear, easy to follow, and actually makes sense. Wonderful job! So many people can learn from this!

mistermeanmistermean · 2019-11-01T21:28:11+00:00

How to thinly conceal being a creep...

2019-11-01T17:13:17+00:00

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osid_osidovich · 2019-11-01T19:06:09+00:00

If you're unattractive you'll be judged creepy nevertheless

The only way not to be judged creepy as an ugly guy is to pretend to be asexual or gay

CrazyZedi · 2019-11-02T01:04:57+00:00

Actually triple the creepy.

Title	The 3 Best Ways To Show Sexual Intent - (Without Being a Creep)
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Date	November 1, 2019 4:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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