Introduction

pulley · 2011-01-20T00:51:16+00:00

Congrats for creating a life for yourself man! You’ve already shown the world you can change, keep at it!

How’s the nightlife in Shanghai?

DukeOfPrunes · 2011-01-20T04:24:45+00:00

Major props for turning your life around after so many years! From what you've said, it sounds like all that's keeping you from being more successful with women is your demeanor, and that's something that you can change with a bit of time and effort. Good luck!

cousindupree · 2011-01-20T01:03:35+00:00

I got some info that can be helpful. Email me.

Remember that the game is played in field and not on the computer. It is won (of course never really won) using a combination of abundance and scarcity. Fake abundance as if you have a lot of dates and as for scarcity, don't allow yourself to be too available.

That's enough for now. I was in Shanghai a couple of years ago; great time!

Cousindupree1 at g mail dot com

RedErin · 2011-01-20T17:38:33+00:00

Remember, the problem isn't actually that you're 'too nice'. It's just that you lack confidence.

chumpta · 2011-01-20T09:14:13+00:00

Kino just scares the living hell out of me.

lol. i often forget how bad i had this. start by touching the back of your hand to a girl's upper arm. then move to the other side of your hand to her upper arm. try to do this when you emphasize stuff.

seriously, back of hand -> upper arm is like the LEAST intrusive kino you can possibly come up with. get comfy with that and work from there.

omv · 2011-01-20T08:09:31+00:00

Sounds like you're doing everything right. What do you do in China, if you don't mind me asking?

AboveAFC · 2011-01-20T08:14:32+00:00

Is Barbarossa still open? Loved that place back in 2006. You can go to some of the seedier bars and practice kino on the girls that are paid to flirt with you. Expat whippersnappers, like myself, might think you're creepy, but who cares. Ju Lu Lu used to be the place for that. I miss shanghai. How's your Chinese ? Instant dhv.

Edit: just googles around, julu Lu was literally torn down. Fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu

yokhai · 2011-01-20T15:36:19+00:00

Welcome to the forum. I'm excited to see this from the "older guy" stand point.

2011-01-20T16:06:24+00:00

Welcome! I'm in a similar boat... I'mma friend you so I can watch your progress. Good luck sir!

philosarapter · 2011-01-20T19:57:01+00:00

Time to overcome fear man. Fear is the enemy. Its what you the mormon church has used since childhood to control you and is now the only thing that prevents you from going up to that cute girl you see and telling her a great joke you've just heard.

Fuck fear. Get angry at fear, and then let it have no say in how you run your life.

Title	Introduction
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	19
Comments	27
Date	January 19, 2011 11:57 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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