Alright, so after spending a good amount of time on seddit I've come to realize there are not only a lot of members here but also a lot of styles and techniques. Now I'm always one to take in what others do and while some may be obvious, there are other things I never thought of or understood why it is so important.

So with that said, I thought it would be cool to help one another out and post some quick tips we can use when going out be it day or night. For example...

  • Take that extra 5 minutes to tighten your appearance. A nice outfit will help out, but more importantly make sure to shave that neck hair, trim the white off your nails, and even wax your eyebrows. Such minor things will go far, believe me.

  • Make sure to get at least 3 warm-up sets knocked out before breaking out into your regular routines. I'll often start by asking someone what time it is or where the nearest Starbucks is at. After that, I'll be more at ease and adapted to talking to people be it the local supermarket or shopping mall.

  • Exercise! This is probably a no-brainer but hear me out. When you decide to go for that run or life those weights you are doing so much to benefit yourself. You're physically improving your body, mentally thinking more positive about yourself and environment, and emotionally taking away that the way you look is what people are looking for.

  • Pull the trigger. Look, it's OK to tell the girl you're seducing to know that you're interested. Ease on the negs/qualifiers and try being forward when initiating plans to go out. For example, I'll say "hey, I think you're really cool and I see us going out, oh and us totally making out." while maintaining solid eye contact. Not everything needs to be a game.

  • Don't curse. Look, I enjoy dropping words such as "fuck", "shit", and "bitch" whenever I am with friends but it really looks stupid when talking to a person who you don't even know. I've literally had female friends of mine tell me how they'll meet a guy at a bar and then state that they were turned off that he was unable to get his thoughts out without cursing. Show you have intellect and class, this small bit does wonders!