Any tips for "after sex" game?

Seduceher · 2011-12-17T01:06:35+00:00

Look into her eyes when she orgasms. I read this on this forum and it's so fucking awesome! Seriously, I fucked 3 girls last 2 weeks (not the norm so I'm not gloating) and each one told me later how they loved that part. Even if you miss the orgasm, as you are in missionary and thrusting, tell her, "look at me" and then just look into her eyes while nailing her. Her mind will be blown. One girl even did it back to me round 2. I still remember that. hahah. works. While in missionary pull her arms behind her head and hold them there and do what i said with the eyes.

A good lay makes them want more. Just a random tip.

punisher1005 · 2011-12-17T03:35:28+00:00

I pat her on the head and say "good job".

notcaptainkirk · 2011-12-17T03:31:20+00:00

That's because you're picking up women that just want to get fucked.

Seduceher · 2011-12-17T01:14:03+00:00

I've been there too man. Sometimes I chalk it up to things just not working out, but sometimes I think it might be more my fault than anything else. I think usually I act more emotionally attached than I actually am. I smile a lot and am very open about my feelings (happiness, comfortability, etc). I have really passionate sex and I genuinely like to cuddle and kiss afterward. Especially when it's a girl that I'm really attracted to (both mentally and physically), I like to add some dimension of emotional connection to what would otherwise be a purely physical relationship.

I think this backfires more often than not; girls that I'm not that into get more attached than I am and ended up getting hurt, while girls that I want to keep seeing get freaked out and move on. But I'm learning to hold a little more back, at least at first.

A couple questions for you - how long after knowing these girls are you waiting to sleep with them? I know from my experience, if I do it right off the bat (within the first date or two, or first week of knowing each other) it is much more likely to fade into nothing. They get 'freaked out' or 'think it's moving too fast' or whatever. I think this is especially common with young/insecure/emotionally immature women (possible logic: he's getting this close to me this early on, therefore he's done this before, therefore I'm not that special to him, therefore he probably won't stay around?).

Also, what do you usually do after sex? Do you them kiss a lot? Are you very intimate? Do you find yourself initiating or reciprocating most of the post-coital physical interaction?

SinSlayer · 2011-12-17T08:06:05+00:00

Im sorry to be the one to tell you this, buddy, but it sounds like you suck in the sack. If a girl likes the sex, then guess what, she'll come back for seconds. Even if theres little to no emotional connection; if the sex is awesome, she'll do it again. According to you, your dominant and agressive, but are you passionate and attentive. Do you try to make sure she's enjoying every aspect of it, or just trying to give her a good pounding? Immediately after (im talking in the first 5-10mins after orgasm) how do you treat her? Is it clean up and get dresses, lay here and cuddle, offer a back massage, go down on her and give her one for the road? When you talk to them afterwards, is it all "Hey... when can we fuck again?", or do you ask them about their day, whats going on in their life, let them vent?

My first suggestion is to ask any of the women that you kept in contact with that dont want to have sex with you anymore to be completely honest with you about your performance. Many of them will blow smoke, but read between the lines. "It was good." means "it WASN'T good." "I enjoyed it" means "I was too drunk to remember." No one asks for seconds on food that tastes like shit.

My second piece of advice is to stop focusing on women you can have sex with and more on friends who don't mind having sex become part of the relationship. When all you want from a girl is sex, its a turn off. PERIOD. "Come over so we can fuck." is a far cry from "Lets rent a movie and order a pizza at my place."

Lastly... dude... you're 29! C'mon man.... this "how much pussy can I get before I die" shits gotta be getting pretty old by now. Im not that much older than you, and Im PRETTY sure I've got your numbers beat, and from what you stated, I KNOW I get more "repeat business" than you, but at the end of the day, making a deep connection with someone you can talk to, trust, laugh with, cry with, and enjoy things outside the bedroom beats all the nuts you'll ever bust. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and I'm a firm believer that the only thing better than pussy is NEW pussy, but at some point you gotta stop chasing ass and focus on what really matters, and I PROMISE you that when you do, girls will come back for seconds, thirds, forth and sign up for the newsletter, not because of your "after sex" game, but because you're a good man and women like being around good men!

Best of luck.

2011-12-17T09:03:48+00:00

i usually put on a penis puppet show. some of you know what I'm talking about.

TonyDAbsolute · 2011-12-17T10:43:37+00:00

http://www.absoluteability.com/attraction/guide-to-sex/

thedonkdonk · 2011-12-17T12:33:14+00:00

Make that bitch some pancakes. Bitches love pancakes.

Seriously, you should always have stuff to make breakfast at your place. Nothing says "good guy" as well as making breakfast. It doesn't even have to be good. You just need to try.

At her place? Get up early and make your self at home in her kitchen. It shows you can be the master of your surrounding.

bmay · 2011-12-17T02:48:55+00:00

How long after sex are you waiting to contact these girls? And when you do, what are you saying?

2011-12-17T07:37:46+00:00

You know those guys that women complain about who don't call after a fling? You're boning the female equivalent.

KMazor · 2011-12-17T21:32:17+00:00

I think you just need to stop playing games altogether. Just be real with the people you meet. Trust me you won't have to worry about losing the significant one.

drumdance · 2011-12-17T01:51:17+00:00

I hope this doesn't sound dickish, but how are you in bed? Are you dominant or passive? I used to be pretty passive until a few years ago but since then I've gotten really dominant - pull her hair, throw her on the bed, order her around, tell her I'm going to fuck her until she screams, that she's my whore etc. Girls eat that shit up.

anonymous_troll · 2011-12-17T14:53:25+00:00

After sex?

I usually say, "take the elevator on the right, it doesn't require a key."

Title	Any tips for "after sex" game?
Author	Seduceher
Upvotes	29
Comments	50
Date	December 17, 2011 12:42 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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