Headed out to a club last night with a big group of international students, including spanish girl #1 who I had met the night before. I had originally intended on escalating with her. She leads us to her friend's house, with about 13 other spanish and italian people.

(Side note: one of the strangest blowouts had happened the night before - there was a girl, eye-fucking the shit out of me from about 10 feet away as I opened a set of two girls who had been making out, putting on quite a show. This girl is giving me the biggest sex eyes I could imagine, so when I go up to approach, before I can even get a word out she walks straight away from me. Anyways, she ended up being at the Spanish and Italian house I mentioned. Sorta made me laugh.)

So we head to the club, and spanish girl #1 isn't really giving any signs that she wants to be seduced, so I move on. Opening a few sets, and eventually I come to Spanish girl #2, who had been throwing me a lot of IOIs as I danced. I open with "hey, you look fun! what's your name?" and conversation begins. For the first little bit, I'm finding it hard to break out of interview mode, but eventually I just say "let's go grab a drink" and isolate her over to the bar.

One of the few times that I will buy a drink for a woman is in this situation: if there is a cheap drink special, and if they are interested and are into you, but aren't quite coming out of their shell yet. Buying a cheap drink can then be used to initiate some sort of toast - for example, I asked how people toasted in spain, and she proceeded to teach me, which led to large amounts of kino.

Anyways, we go back to talking, and eventually I'm going for the kiss. Unfortunately, it didn't go exactly as planned - you know in the movies where people can't seem to decide which side to go to, and they just fumble around? Yeah, that was us. We're both looking around awkwardly for 2 seconds after it, so I just say "that was the most awkward and poorly executed kiss I've ever had. You have to promise me that we'll improve that by the end of the night." She smiles slyly at that, extends her hand for a shake and says "sounds like a deal."

When I shake her hand, she just goes and pulls me to a quieter section of the bar, where we are able to grab a booth and have some quieter time.

Of course, being the horny male that I am, I push for the SNL. I whisper to her "you know, I'd really love to take this somewherea little bit more private..."

to which she responds, "mm, I'd like that too...but I have to go home with my friends..."

To this, I did not necessarily know what the best response would be. I didn't press the matter, as that would seem needy, and she keeps bringing up the fact that she has to leave with them at the end of the night. I figured this was some form of ASD, or at least logistics getting the better of me. I take her number and tell her I will call her today.

As far as pickup goes, this one was fairly standard, but I was stumped on how to handle the "have to go home with my friends" bit. Furthermore, I need to work on my closing - how should I improve my ability to take girls out of the bar and back to my place?