What have you done this week?

iDandy · 2013-02-15T15:14:08+00:00

*I talked to a girl on the bus and asked her for her number, she declined but was very nice about it.

*I asked a cute girl out from my class. She said yes but she doesnt own a cell phone so logistics are terrible and the date will probably never take place

*I talked to four or five girls in class but there was no vibe with any of them so that was that

*I'm going to a party with my cute coworker tom who I have already kissed and she said openly she wants to hook up with me. Will it happen? I give it fifty fifty.

MrS1r · 2013-02-15T20:03:56+00:00

Girl (8) looked at me, I held eye contact and smiled. She came over and was super interested and actually very intelligent. We danced and now she's totally into me. Holding eyecontact is such an easy way to get someone to focuse on you!

piggybabe · 2013-02-15T21:21:32+00:00

*Talked to a HB9, older than me, neg war, nice talk

*Flirted with a HB7, prolly going out with her tomorrow, not quite sure yet

*For the first time, since last years new years eve I got invited to a party

*Failed to get a job, I'm damn broke, that's a real c-block.

Sociable60102 · 2013-02-15T21:09:35+00:00

Broke up with cheating girlfriend. I think this will help my game a lot

idk112345 · 2013-02-16T02:38:30+00:00

Finally lost my virginity at the age of 22. The girl told me it was the best first time sex with a new guy she ever had (I was her 7th) and that she was surprised I undertood what turned her on so well (think she might have orgasmed) and accused me of lying afterward when I told her it was my first time. She brought it up for the rest of the night lauging in disbelief. Fuck yeah

BoneyBonesJones · 2013-02-15T21:56:45+00:00

I went to the mall today and approached a couple girls. Keep in mind I'm no pick up artist or anything, I just mustered up the courage to make a couple attempts since I really want a girlfriend. I'm only in this subreddit right now cause I'm gonna have to do some seduction in a couple hours and I've never done it before so I'm in the market for tips. I have no game and I don't have confidence in the idea that I'm an interesting person (apparently I'm good looking but I dont think so. I have awful self esteem but I'm trying slowly), so I figured if I approach enough girls and ask if they're single and find me attractive (and if yes then I'd ask for their number), eventually someone will say yes. I just have to do it a shitload of times.

So anyway, I went to the mall today. Got rejected three times but one of them said that if she wasn't taken she would have given me her number, so that felt good.

In a couple hours I'm going to meet a woman I found on the internet for drinks. She's looking for a friend with benefits for the one-weekend-per-month that she's in my city. I have no idea how to seduce a woman and I don't have confidence in my social skills, but I'm just gonna go anyway. She's a nice woman and at the very worst I'll just have a funny story to tell. I don't think I have to do much though. We've already exchanged nude photos and had a bit of small talk, so I know she's interested in me. The last time I met a girl on the internet for a casual encounter, I just hopped right into her hot tub and started massaging her back. I didn't have to "meet up for drinks first" or anything, but I'm glad Heidi wants to meet up first because it'd be cool to make a friend. I hope I succeed because she's 38 and I'm 22 and I'd like to see if all those years of experience make a difference in bed (she claims they do!).

I can't wait til I've approached like 50 women and am far more desensitized to it. I was disappointed in myself for how anxious and nervous I was at the mall today. I should have at least tried a conversation.

EDIT: I fucked Heidi. She's awesome!

WeaselStink · 2013-02-15T22:32:28+00:00

Went to the grocery store daily and practiced eye game. Said many hellos. Discovered the importance of the left hand ring finger.

No closes of any kind. But practice is always good!

gubbz · 2013-02-15T19:12:19+00:00

Been going down to the pub by myself and having a pint and just meeting people, doesn;'t matter who they are i'm just working on all tips and practicing body language etc.

I ended up taking to a 6 and an 8 and I really felt rapport between us. It was great, felt in control. Awwww yeah!! it's so amazing when all the subtle movements, talking kino etc come together.

Sorry to ramble (drunk) but I have found it is all about confidence, as simple as that ( as many have noted on seddit)

TheDoctorMouse · 2013-02-15T23:47:29+00:00

When walking about, I began forcing myself to look straight ahead (i.e. not at the ground) and make eye-contact with people on the street. I try to smile at people if we both make eye-contact, and I've been getting smiles back. Not a massive achievement, but I'm feeling much more confident with myself.

I also taped this image to my wall so that I see it every morning when I wake up.

Lennygames1337 · 2013-02-15T21:40:48+00:00

I asked out a girl last night.I kind of cheated as she told her friend to tell me to so she was going to say yes.Bad news is her internet broke so she cant contact me at the moment

2013-02-16T00:09:09+00:00

I started meditating. I made more small talk with attractive women, but did not close with numbers or anything.

Jmcothran · 2013-02-15T20:51:22+00:00

Started new job working as cook at a new restaurant. Currently assessing female servers.

CldntThnkOfAGdUsrnm · 2013-02-15T21:21:55+00:00

Met and chatted up 2 different gorgeous blondes at the airport yesterday. Said to myself

"balls up dude, you're never going to see them again, what have you got to lose? "

Had really good conversation with both of them.

nsgafc · 2013-02-15T23:22:27+00:00

I've been retraining myself to be confident.

PSSYPUNISHERRR · 2013-02-16T04:38:04+00:00

I went hiking, got some gourmet burgers, went to a museum, went golfing, and went to Downtown Disney. I did a lot of stuff instead of sitting at home and jerking off this week. Feelin' good.

DaveTheJoker · 2013-02-16T01:22:09+00:00

Didn't do shit as far as seduction goes.

Rodburgundy · 2013-02-15T19:44:32+00:00

I planned on asking this girl out in my math class for valentine's day and she didn't even show up.

jdb050 · 2013-02-15T21:28:11+00:00

Talked to a cute girl in my class, almost got #-close but I fucked up. Will definitely #-close and hopefully #f-close next week when I get the chance.

Liitening · 2013-02-15T23:48:22+00:00

Worked on eye contact with fellow female interns at my work. Worked on including nearby girls into my conversations with my friends. Still haven't cold approached.

BecomingAssertive · 2013-02-16T00:26:44+00:00

monday: went out alone, 2 approaches only, no success thursday: went to party with friends, met some new people, 2 girls, 1 taken the other one fancied my mate. Approached 1 girl I didn't know (waited a long time before i could finally get myself to approach), no success

so pretty bad.. but I'm glad I atleast did some approaches. I need to work on smalltalk with random people to build some social momentum I think.

martinx3x · 2013-02-16T02:51:11+00:00

On Valentines Day I talked to a girl from my high school sitting by herself the bus stop. She seemed a little nervous but really wanted to talk to me. This is the first time i've really used the stuff I learned on /r/seduction. I actually escalated and we ended up getting smoothies together.

lainzee · 2013-02-16T03:30:55+00:00

Invited myself out with some acquaintances and had a great time. (I had severe social anxiety so inviting myself to anything is awful for me. Usually they ask me or I don't go and instead sit around and feel sorry for myself.)

Gave goofy little kid Valentines Day cards to my coworkers. Included a little tease/neg on the one to the guy I'm actually attracted to. (It said something like, "Happy Valentines Day to someone who's funny, nice, and awesome" and I wrote "So definitely not you then.") Saw the look on his face after he read it and how he was itching to say something to me about it but were in a room full of coworkers and outside vendors. I anticipate escalation tomorrow (was off today).

JoieTheVivre · 2013-02-16T23:12:57+00:00

Got myself a GF. Pretty good

2013-02-15T23:34:20+00:00

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RonnieLibra · 2013-02-15T18:09:32+00:00

I don't get what's wrong with this thread and why it got the thumbs down... So may haters on Seddit.

I think this guy was just trying to get an enthusiastic conversation going...

scikoplaymate · 2013-02-15T23:29:51+00:00

"I asked out the guy I kinda turned down and he kinda stood me up.

bluesbt · 2013-02-16T00:58:31+00:00

I've done so many things this week I never would expected from myself and I'm pretty happy ahora

got 3 numbers since last friday!
met up with a with one of the numbers on wednesday (my first day 2 ever with help from u/BeatBoxing_Abe) and it went well. trying to think of a good thing for a day 3 with her
i started talking to guys more about pickup and found a chill friend with great game who i can talk to about this (he reads seddit too!)
it's not unusual for me to not wave to cuties who give me eye contact when im walking places
listening to krewella troll mix vol. 3 right now and its purty good

CldntThnkOfAGdUsrnm · 2013-02-16T03:04:11+00:00

-persisted with a girl I number closed. I thought she was being flakey when not returning my voicemail. Saw her again. Thought it'd be awkward. Didn't puss out and asked what was up. Her phone broke. Asked her out again. Says she's not busy next week. Gave her my number. Moved on. Old me would have wussed out. Decide to take on the not giving a fuck attitude. R/hownottogiveafuck helped. -opened a set of fashion students. Went well. No number close but i'll most likely see them again -lastly: lesson learned: kids can be a great way to open a set. Was siting in a coffee shop. Playful kid walks around. Starts staring me down. Started being playful. Got some laughs from mom and friend. Should have been more playful with the kid and opened conversation with the mom and friend.

Human_Isomer · 2013-02-16T03:07:36+00:00

Basically, went on my first date with an HB7. It's amazing how quickly I can forget everything I've learned here in a matter of seconds. Froze at some instances, but kept eye contact! lol Definitely learned some lessons. (Jerk off b4 a date. It helps)

ilikeCRUNCHYturtles · 2013-02-16T06:24:19+00:00

Small stupid thing: A girl who I met at a bar two weeks ago (who approached me) texted me last night (Valentines Day) and asked if I wanted to hang out. When we first met at the bar we were making out within two minutes, she was telling me she wanted to blow me about en minutes, and ended up in my car on the way back to my place. She PASSES OUT IN MY CAR, I guess she was drunker than I thought (she did have a couple more drinks after she came up to me). Anyway, on v-day she asks hang out, i say yes, and she doesn't respond until late then says she wants to hang out tomorrow (tonight technically). I text her a couple hours ago, she texts me back, when I ask her what she's up to she doesn't respond. This is all fucking weird to me because this is a girl who told me to my face numerous times she wants to blow me but now seems like she's playing hard to get. I guess not really that much of a small stupid thing.

alligatorblowgun · 2013-02-16T10:39:41+00:00

Had to bartend at local bar. Girl orders mixes with diet coke. Asked: "why diet coke? You don't need it." Free drinks all night and being told best. Bartender. Ever.:)

So even if you are in a current relationship, seduction has its perks!

DrunkAtTheWedding · 2013-02-16T11:28:13+00:00

Learning patience. I worked this girl for an hour and a half before kissing, longest ive stayed in a set for months not day2ing

KongGeLei · 2013-02-16T17:55:38+00:00

I decided to try picking up a newly-met acquaintance in Chinese instead of English... It worked.

ben0wn4g3 · 2013-02-16T17:57:39+00:00

I went to a bar last night and opened pretty much every table of girls in the building, I used an opener I'm naming the apocalypse opener which I thought up that night based on the Russian meteorites, I didn't ping any particular girl or even have the intention of staying long to talk to them, merely build a little rapport and then later if I wanted they would be easy to approach.

One table I approached a couple of times and I actual sat down told this one next to me she was my favourite and held her hand before politely dismissing myself once again and chatting with my mates, I would like to think I looked rather alpha. I had a couple of girls get a bit bitchy about something or other so I fucking owned them (Any girl who is rude with her rejection feels the wrath of my tongue and I'm fucking ruthless - there are very easy polite ways to reject someone - I feel I'm slowly doing mankind a favour as hopefully they'll be more polite next time they reject a guy). Quite early however another girl called me up asking where I was, we had a date a couple of night previous and she came and met me, she came back to mine and fucked all night. It was also the first time I'd fucked her.

tawpua · 2013-02-16T20:38:08+00:00

I'm new to this, it's been an interesting week.

While I was high on MDMA at a rave last Saturday I pursuaded a girl I had k-closed a few weeks ago (before I found seddit), who had initially ruled out a date, to come out with me (pretty easily). Went out twice during the week and no f-close, but she invited me round to hers last night after I'd got back from the bar, we fucked, but it was slightly awkward as she seemed a bit uncomfortable about being naked/having sex. She said my dick was too big for her. Thinking of steering clear for a while as I think I may have seemed a bit keen or seemed pressuring (I tried to avoid this, but I daresay it happened. As I say, I'm new at this). Is there something I've done/am doing wrong, or do you other guys experience this sexual nervousness/reticence?
No luck at the pub last night though I was with a female friend and we kept getting mistaken for a couple.
Went to a flash mob with the intention of meeting cute students. Just middle aged lesbian-looking activists and religious types, left.
Generally trying to improve my game, opening as many random strangers as possible, as practice for opening girls and to demonstrate high value on dates. Trying to improve my voice and body language: to talk less quickly and nasally, to keep my arms unfolded and out of my pockets.

ghost20063 · 2013-02-16T22:12:21+00:00

Basically, I talked to a bunch of people that I wouldn't date (guys and middle aged women) and avoided any girls seemingly around my age and type.

Other than that, I went to a bitchin' Zeppelin 2 concert where I continued to avoid girls around my age and type.

Also drink.

The_Curious_cat · 2013-02-16T22:23:29+00:00

Threw out the last of my ex's things.
Started talking to a few old friends again.
Organised to go out with 2 different groups next Friday and Saturday night. Stoked.

Xeonit · 2013-02-16T23:30:28+00:00

I started going to a certain place frequently, and all of a sudden i received a message by a girl who i met there, asking me out for a coffee. Nice place

SirWill · 2013-02-15T19:06:54+00:00

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Title	What have you done this week?
Author	SingAlong_Original
Upvotes	55
Comments	88
Date	February 15, 2013 3:08 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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