Hey seddit. I'm extremely new to the community. Just recently I decided to read up on some seduction techniques to refine my game. I had gotten by pretty well with what I guess some might call natural game, but I think it always helps to refine techniques. One thing I was noticing that was leading to issues in my game was that I would stray away from outcome independence if I wasn't actively approaching women on a regular basis. I would become needy around the girls that would sleep with me and end up fucking up by texting too often and referencing sex way too much. My attitude was making it seem as if I was someone who wasn't used to getting laid and I was driving women away. With these problems in mind, I looked to seddit for some things to keep in mind and believe I used them effectively this weekend.

Over the weekend I went to a house party with a girl that I had picked up in the mall and a close friend of mine. The party was pretty small, but there were a couple of cute girls there. I did not want to be rude and actively hit on other people in front of the girl that I went to the party with, but I'm always keeping opportunities in mind. I saw two cute girls standing by the stove in the kitchen and decided to open them with a story. I told them that I used to have a friend that would go to house parties and turn on the stoves and wait to see if people would try to sit or lean back into them. They gave some shocked laughter and commented on how fucked up this person in my imaginary story was. I agreed and we started chatting. The cuter of the two was giving me a lot of attention. She smiled, adjusted her hair a lot. She told me her name was Claire and I playfully told her that I had bad experiences with girls named Claire (would this be considered a neg? Not too sure). She laughed and assured me that she was one of the good Claires.

The party went on and I hung out with the girl I had come with for a little bit. I did not try to hide that I was there with this girl and had my arm around her for much of the party. She had to go escort her drunk friend home, so I kissed her goodbye and went back to the party. Claire and her friend were sitting down on a couch in the living room, so I sat down next to her and we started chatting again. To be honest, I don't really remember what she was talking about, but at some point at a natural pause in conversation, I took out my phone, put it on the keypad screen, and handed it to her, without offering an explanation. She looked at me and said "Are you serious?" I said yes and she asked "Why do you want my number?" At first I think I just brushed off the question and said something along the lines of "I just want it" until she said "Give me a real reason." I told her that I thought she was cute and that we should hang out some time. As a joke, she said "Too cute for you." so I immediately said ok and tried to snatch my phone back from her. She protested loudly and put her number in my phone. I said goodbye to the people in the party and left with my friend.

Keeping in mind the texting techniques that I had learned from seddit, I messaged the girl the next day, making a reference from the night before. I was a little more lenient with my text limit than what I've seen described on seddit (I'm 19, so I think girls my age are used to having all day text conversations with guys they talk to) but kept the conversation short and immediately moved on to making plans. I avoided asking her when she was free and instead said. "Let's hangout tomorrow! Come over to my place tomorrow." It was probably a little risky to suggest meeting at my place so early on, and she showed just a little bit of resistance by saying "Yeah, or we could go out for lunch lol" I replied "No, we shouldn't go out to lunch" and explained my opinion on dinner/movie first dates. I always say something along the lines of "Dinner and movie dates don't let you talk and get to know the person you're on a date with." I highly recommend this. I have not once had a girl say something other than "I agree with you" because otherwise she comes off as someone who's just looking for a free meal. This saves you money and lets you get personal with a girl early on. She agreed, so I told her to be at my house around 1.

Something came up earlier today, so I no longer had the open house to work with. I contacted the girl and told her I would have to change the time and meeting place. We arranged to meet up at a park halfway between our houses at 8:30. When I met her I hugged her right away, making sure to match my energy from the night of the party. I do my best to make sure that my personality doesn't seem to change from the first interaction I've had with a person. We sat down on a set of bleachers in the park and started chatting. She told me about her day at the lake and other general information about herself. At some point the topic of porn came up and I asked playfully what kind of porn she preferred. She gave a little shocked laughter and said that we couldn't just start talking about a topic like that. I laughed it off, knowing that I had still opened the conversation for sexual topics. We talked for a bit longer and then I used another line that I read on seddit and said "I'm going to kiss you now." She smiled and leaned in.

We walked around the park for a little bit and sat down in a new spot. This time she brought up the conversation of sex as it related to her in past relationships. She mentioned that she believed it was better to wait for sex. I told her I disagreed and she mentioned that she would once made a guy wait four months for sex. I mentioned that I would not be in that guy's position and she asked me "So if I held out on you, you would stop talking to me?" I looked at her and smiled and assured her that I would in fact stop talking to her. She seemed a little taken aback but soon smiled and commented that she appreciated my bluntness. She asked me if I respected girls more if they waited for sex and I told her I don't judge girls based on their sexual dealings and I would have neither more nor less respect for her for holding out. At some point in the conversation she mentioned that she hadn't had sex since last November. I replied that we would have to fix that at some point. I was slowly becoming more bold. At a natural pause in conversation we began kissing. Things got heated and we were soon making out heavily. Fortune favors the bold so I began to work my way up her leg and under her shorts. She commented that her shorts were really tight and said "I'm not sure I want to do this in a park." I didn't stop what I was doing and just said "nobody else is around." I was surprised that she offered no further resistance and even pulled off her shorts when I asked her to. She was getting really into the action and so I decided to go for the home run. I said "hold on a second." She asked "What now?" I pulled out a condom and she asked "Are we really going to do this right now?" I just smiled and nodded and fucked her right there on the park bench.

Sorry about the length. If anyone has any questions, comments, or concerns about my game please let me know!