Should i lie about having never had a relationship ?

Awston · 2016-05-14T17:11:58+00:00

Chances are she'll be able to tell you're inexperienced. Honestly I would just focus on being relaxed and making it seem like it's not a big deal. But don't talk about it unless she brings it up.

bugxter · 2016-05-14T18:15:15+00:00

Your truth should be more important than whether she likes you or not.

Venenarium · 2016-05-14T19:28:18+00:00

Iron rule of Tomassi #2

NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

However, don't lie about it either.

Read the article, it's short :3

Ocric · 2016-05-14T18:57:25+00:00

It's not going to come up unless thing girls is super low quality and wants to find a guy to be her bitch. You should only worry about things that have already happened. We could play the what if game forever. Since you are new you should focus on flirting and not locking up on a date. View this a practice, you're gonna fuck it up. The underlying goal of game is learning how to deal with failure and build on it to gain success. Nobody with any skill worth having gets there without tons of practice and failure.

If for some reason it does and she's not looking for a guy to manipulate just say: "A few in the past, nothing long or serious"

Woujo · 2016-05-14T20:22:19+00:00

Iwant2binspired · 2016-05-14T20:36:41+00:00

Sure start a potential relationship based on a lie.... sounds like a solid plan. If it were me, I would rather you be honest but with a willing attitude.

Foxfire67 · 2016-05-14T17:28:35+00:00

Damn typo. Meant to say that i have not ever been in a relationship before and am worried it might be a deal breaker

Big_TX · 2016-05-14T23:44:19+00:00

don't make up stories. Try to avoid the topic. general honesty is the best policy, but may be a deal breaker for her depending on your age. If you lie just say something blasé and short. .

Dernuld_Trumpet · 2016-05-14T21:41:19+00:00

Wear it as a badge... if she says no because of that she's not the girl you want..

jefffffffff · 2016-05-15T01:32:52+00:00

Fully embrace it like you feel. She will remember how comfortable you were saying it more as opposed to the fact you've always been single

Friendly_B · 2016-05-14T21:24:39+00:00

Did you misspell something in your post? It's not making sense. I think you meant "I've never been."

It's none of her business. Don't assume that she'll interrogate you about past relationships. You've known women. You've been around women. You've had relationships.

Do not under any circumstances second guess that about yourself or make up anything false. It doesn't matter what she thinks about your dating history, she doesn't need to know anything about it. It's insecure of her to ask (HOWEVER) it's just an indicator that she wants a stable person and someone who knows how to make that happen. Do you want a stable relationship and know how to make that happen? Talk to older men in your life who have had long term relationships if that is your goal.

Congruenceislife · 2016-05-15T11:42:05+00:00

I wouldn't dude. I mean who cares, right? show it's not a big deal and more than likely she won't either.

H8CourtshipALot217 · 2016-05-18T01:15:19+00:00

depends on your age

CocoTheMan · 2016-05-14T23:51:47+00:00

Just be you, she will like you and if she asks tell her that you havent had a serious relationship but you've fooled around, IMO

PubertEHumphrey · 2016-05-15T01:45:03+00:00

I lied

0b4m4 · 2016-05-15T01:53:14+00:00

If she's going to judge you on something petty like that then she is not worth investing in. In my opinion

glassuser · 2016-05-15T02:29:00+00:00

Never lie. If you're worth the effort you're putting into it, then your word is worth more than whatever lying might get you. If you need that to be the truth, then make it the truth, THEN tell it.

forseti_ · 2016-05-14T21:18:07+00:00

Think about this after you both had sex.

sumtinsumtindarkside · 2016-05-15T02:47:32+00:00

It depends on how good your follow up game is. If you can I intellgently craft a reason for you being single, even if it shows vulnerability that's ok. If you aren't that great at that, then just lie.

sorcererbro · 2016-05-15T04:52:20+00:00

While the truth is a great thing, there are some questions that either should not be answered at all, or should not be answered truthfully.

If you're a virgin, that is for you and you alone to know. Anyone else should think you've had sex beyond their ability to confirm.

If you've never been in a relationship, the same rule applies. If anyone asks, either deflect or lie. Lying isn't something to celebrate, but it's a perfectly acceptable response to a question that shouldn't have been asked in the first place because its only purpose is to put you into a catch-22 situation.

Deflections:

I didn't make time for you today so that we could talk about our past relationships.
I like to live in the present. Let's leave past events in the past.
My past relationships are for me and my past partners to know about. I'm sure you'd appreciate it if you were in their shoes.

Title	Should i lie about having never had a relationship ?
Author	Foxfire67
Upvotes	30
Comments	33
Date	May 14, 2016 5:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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