Women want to feel as though they have figured you out, and they want information revealed to you over time. So, follow these bullet points to ensure that you are doing everything in your power to be mysterious.
One common rebuttal to this is that men should "not be someone you're not" and I offer a reframing. Don't look at it as being someone you're not, but rather, you now possess an understanding of female nature and their desires, which you can use to get more women.
How to Be Mysterious
- Never directly reveal information about yourself
- if you want her to know something about you, drop breadcrumbs (hints) for her to pick up on
- Never Qualify yourself
- Have contradictions within you revealed over time.
- Let the women do the majority of the talking
- Be outwardly oriented, focused on the woman during conversation
- limit texting to scheduling dates and for messaging her back after messaging you first
- do not express how much you like her or what your intentions are
- never allude to a future together
- do not text her and reveal your life story
- do not build comfort and rapport / engage in small talk over text
If you want someone to talk to with about your problems in life and what you're dealing with, find a good friend whom you can trust. Your wife is your wife, not your therapist and you're not her child who needs to provide you with validation.
This article goes into more detail about how to be mysterious with women:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-be-mysterious-with-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web
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