Cold approach success rate

aklseduction · 2024-01-28T21:51:59+00:00

Go invest your time into better things rather than walking around cold approaching women.

Just work on yourself and as you grow and evolve into an attractive man, women will fall into your life/bed naturally without you really doing much. Now picture this; You are a more fulfilled happier masculine man, with an easy effortless sex life. Win-win situation. Not much game, if any, needed.

OkFeeling4338 · 2024-01-29T00:41:29+00:00

Id say a more realistic answer is : it depends.

Are you approaching every single girl that you find somewhat good looking as a beginner (no shame in that).

Or are you more experienced and selective with the women you approach.

How long have you been doing this?

When I was new 4% was pretty good. After several months im now approaching a lot less women (because I'm busy with more dates and have more specific standards). I would say my date to approach ratio is 15%.

Don't give up king you're on the right track.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-01-29T14:52:00+00:00

I wouldn't be discouraged by this. 4% is a decent number considering you're new to this.

What I would advise is making the interactions shorter and see if it affects your close rate. That way you're investing less to approach the 25 girls you need to to get a date. If you keep each interaction brief you can approach 25 girls in a couple of hours.

I think you have to treat daygame as a bit of a sales funnel. The girls you initially meet are at the top of the funnel and you should invest the least amount of time in them, as they give you their number, reply to texts, agree to a date, actually turn up to a date they move down the funnel and deserve more of your time.

Even for experienced daygamers 10-15% is the best you're likely to get so 4% is a very decent place to start. I've met guys who's done 1000 approaches without getting a single date, that's an actually worrying success rate.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-01-28T22:48:27+00:00

Still believe in cold approach as a general social skill and it gives you some freedom online doesn’t, but the truth is that having a good online profile is so much more effective. Guys get in their feelings and hate online dating, but it is by far the most effective way to get dates with some small adjustments and decent pictures

AceOfSpadesGymBro5 · 2024-01-28T23:11:12+00:00

When I was actively dating, it could be close to 100%. But I'd let women approach me first, which they often do with stuff like shooting me flirty eyes, hovering around me, making innocent conversation, etc.

SF_Inner_Game_Coach · 2024-01-29T07:34:30+00:00

~50%?

I generally only make 2-3 thoughtful approaches a week. Sometimes maybe just one approach. The way I go about approaching is much more intentional, however, and I think they can feel that.

Factsonreddit · 2024-01-29T06:28:02+00:00

If I get a girl’s number after talking to her in person, my success rate of getting a first date is very high. You don’t build enough comfort, don’t talk enough/build a connection before the date.

yolo24seven · 2024-01-29T03:25:43+00:00

Jon Anthony says his cold approach success rate was 10%. He is a scammy pua coach. If he is claiming 10% then your 4% is that bad.

ProfessionalCause437 · 2024-04-28T20:05:23+00:00

Beginners roughly do a couple dozen approaches when starting their first month and never have they said they could get a date with 4% being 25 approaches.

Beginners are usually always discouraged in this period as theyre struggling to get just one date with all the numbers they've had.

Don't see the point of this question. Or the message its trying to send and to whom... asking guys to throw stats? Okay. 85 approaches, 14 dates and 5 lays. Typical week for me

No-Challenge9192 · 2024-05-23T05:35:46+00:00

hey, I'm from China and I'm cold approaching people from time to time, the success rate is about 5% (I mean to get laid of). but I cold approached people very infrequently and it has allowed me to successfully date about 20 girls in about 10 years. In the last few years it seems that the social climate is very resistant to PUAs and the apparent rate of rejection is getting higher and higher, but that's not a problem, I've adjusted my approach to ask for a number with a high success rate recently. Then one question I'd like to ask dear OP, how do you cold approach a girl in a group, many thanks!

Ozzytheaussy · 2024-05-27T15:43:08+00:00

People talking like all women are the same 😂.

Dude you're doing what millions can't do.

Cold approach is so much better than online

MrAnonPoster · 2024-01-29T18:38:40+00:00

Define "success rate"?

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-01-30T19:28:57+00:00

That's decent, have you gotten any lays from it?

COMFORT-ARLINGTON · 2024-02-12T00:43:15+00:00

4% actually sounds good. i know a guy who did 20k approaches and 0 dates

Title	Cold approach success rate
Author	Super-Chemistry4148
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Date	January 28, 2024 9:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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