I've noticed an increase in posts here from guys wondering if they're being creepy or not. A "creep" is about the last thing a guy ever wants to be called by a woman. Here's the most valuable actions you can take to reduce the risk of coming off as creepy and increase your chances of appearing attractive:

  1. Get your fundamentals in check. I'm going to tell you something that no pick up artist or dating coach ever will because I'm not selling you a product. Looks matter, A LOT. And the reason is because society gives attractive people a license to express themselves sexually. This doesn't mean that you need an immaculate genetic background. Many of you guys simply need to dress better, adopt better grooming habits, diet, get fit, improve your posture, improve eye contact. Self-care reigns supreme because a woman can tell with a short glance whether or not you're the type of guy that takes good care of himself. But more importantly, do it for YOURSELF. This will be like steroids for your confidence.
  2. It's not enough just to get your external fundamentals in check, you also need to work on yourself internally. You need to develop your confidence and your masculinity so that you can give off that calm self-assured vibe that women crave. While it helps to be able to weave words together eloquently and seductively, women are mostly paying attention to the energy behind the words your saying. She's feeling your vibe. If you don't believe in yourself or the seduction, she won't either. You need to express a level of charm and charisma. She needs to feel your masculine presence. 

Don't underestimate 1 and 2. A woman knows as soon as she meets you whether or not you're the type of guy she would entertain sleeping with. Stop focusing on attraction and seduction tips and focus on actually being an attractive and seductive man. 

  1. You need to have a rudimentary understanding of female dynamic and psychology. You need to show girls that you have enough basic social skills to read her, understand her behavior, and and interact with her in a way that feels normal and comfortable. Most of you guys are either way too into your head and disconnected from your body so it feels weird and awkward. Or you're way too into your body and disconnected from your thoughts and emotions so you give off a sleazy vibe. Develop a sense of empathy and learn to read female behavior. 

  2. This is a big one that nobody will ever tell you: You need to understand male psychology and male dynamic as well. This will help you optimize your masculinity and develop yourself into a man you can be proud. Most men these days are effeminate and disconnected from their masculinity. You need to start trusting your instincts and intuition as a man. The more human and natural you are, the more success you will have. Women fall head over heels for men with a strong masculine energy just like we do for women with strong feminine energy. You need that polarity to keep yourself in a masculine frame and keep her in a feminine frame. 

  3. You need to get comfortable with your masculine sexuality. Most of you guys have been brainwashed by decades of millitant nice guy programming that has subconsciously left you feminized and ashamed of your of your sexuality. A woman cannot feel attraction for you without sexual tension. The lack of sexual tension is actually what creeps most girls out. When you approach, she can sense that you want something from her. So if you act all platonic and try to hide your sexuality and your desires, it creeps her out because your actions aren't matching your intentions. You need to own your sexuality as a man. This is the edge that those Chad-guys have over most guys. Because they have the looks, they feel entitled to express their sexuality. I suggest you avoid sexualized media like porn and stop jerking off. You're draining your masculine sexual essence and it makes you awkward and creepy. You need to develop a human focused sexuality. 

  4. Stop pedestalizing women. Your nice guy programming has brainwashed you to believe that women are inherently at a higher value than you because of their beauty. Women shit and fart and sweat and eat nasty-ass food and all other kinds of unattractive shit. Plenty of them have acne and weird body hair and shit that they cover up with makeup and waxing and all sorts of beauty products. Many of them are really uneducated and lack basic critical thinking skills. There's women that do all kinds of creepy, weird, and crazy shit too. Most women just do a better job of hiding these things and presenting themselves in a classy or sophisticated manner. Realize that there are some women that will find you creepy no matter what you do, and in those circumstances it usually says more about her than what it says about you. A girl that's highly attracted to you will let you get away with a lot of risque shit. Because she likes you she will see it as bold and confident. If she isn't that attracted to you, one wrong move can turn her right off. Start qualifying women on more that looks and start making her invest in you too.

7.  Reverse psychology. Worrying about being creepy makes you feel creepy. Stop it.

Dating is like marketing and promotion. Most of you guys are focused on the pitch because subconsciously you know the product sucks. If you have a solid product, the product will sell itself even if the pitch isn't perfect. This is why self-improvement trumps game. 

I'll be updating this if I think of anymore advice, so be sure to check back later, especially if you have comments or questions to share.