Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night stand

hunterpua · 2023-08-28T17:24:51+00:00

When you get more experience, you'll be surprised how many women would actually be down for one night stands.

I've had women be the ones to tell me they didn't want anything serious.

We need to stop assuming that just because women's emotions make them feel one thing means they can't do the opposite of that thing or that there is only one way to respond to those emotions.

Anyone who works out, man or woman, does the opposite of what their emotions tell them to do all the time.

Majority of the time your emotions just want you to rest, chill, and maybe gorge yourself on junk food but if you work out, you're acting in direct defiance of those emotions.

Also, I have a friend who I call the female version of myself. Because both of us used to regularly sleep with multiple people at the same time and in our circle, the two of us have slept with the most people.

She tells me she gets her emotional fill from the guys she casually sleeps with. As in she's able to cuddle and simulate romantic situations with the guys she messes around with even if she has no real interest to commit to any of them.

Just focus on improving your ability to charm and seduce women and you'll definitely get your fill of casual situations.

chief_yETI · 2023-08-28T17:55:15+00:00

does OP live in a small town or something?

itsamatterofattitude · 2023-08-28T17:08:42+00:00

1) This is not true for all women. I've met MANY women who are fine with a ONS. Not every woman has an emotional connotation to sex and are very capable with enjoying one night of meaningless fun.

2) Use this to your advantage. Personally, while I've had more ONS than I can count, Im not really a huge fan. Id much rather have sex more than once with a woman, even if its simply a FWB situation. This is the main reason I emphasis putting sex on the back burner instead of trying to force a ONS. I'm a strong proponent for taking a woman out a few times even if my primary interest in her is sexual. I want to build that connection and I know that if and when things do get sexual and she does get emotionally attached, she'll be someone I can goto for sex regularly, even if the committed relationship remains aloof or unavailable.

kettlebell_workout · 2023-08-28T18:48:41+00:00

I was thinking exactly the same way like you before I had experience.

Like I will use PUA tactics to get what I want and will dump her. What kind of monster I am?

And once I had my first couple lays I felt really bad. But not because I used them. But because I felt that they used me for their own satisfaction.

Why? Because I did the most of work. I approached them. I made conversations funny and engaging, I figured out all the logistics. And even in bed I had to be dominant. And make sure she had pleasant time.

And what she had to do ? Just follow me along. That’s it.

Women ain’t angels. They pretend to be hard to get (disqualification). They flirt. They do kino. They do push pull.

They are playing the same exact game as you an me.

The only difference is that they are playing in the totally different league. They are the masters of seduction.

Feeling_Difference_8 · 2023-08-28T18:07:44+00:00

I disagree. There is a certain demographic of women that don’t mind this at all.

LaughingStockTheBoat · 2023-08-28T17:44:28+00:00

For a woman to want to have a one night stand with you, you have to be out of her league (at least to her) to the point that they think it might be the only chance they can sleep with you.

ILikeTinder · 2023-08-28T18:33:38+00:00

Not true at all lol. Most girls I’ve been with just used me for my dick and weed until they got bored 💀

deplete3 · 2023-08-28T18:40:02+00:00

Not true. Women behave like men these days and they’re proud of it. You sound inexperienced

rudebwoy100 · 2023-08-29T01:40:07+00:00

Has nothing to do with emotions, women just don't have much of a sex drive and don't desire sex like we do and most of the time they don't even orgasm so what would they get out of sex outside of a relationship with a guy that they love?

If women found the average looking guy sexually arousing and could get off within 5-10mins every single time they had sex they'd be going crazy and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry.

3Lthrowaway18 · 2023-08-29T01:27:11+00:00

Every ONS Ive had was because the chick was horny as hell and I was available and willing. None of them, that I could tell, seemed bothered afterwards.

TL;Dr: A woman's likelihood of engaging in a ONS is directly proportional to how horny she is at the time.

Guys, on the other hand, will do a ONS whether horny or not.

flavoredcakesforB · 2023-08-28T23:44:50+00:00

Your proclamation is fallacious at its worst. The fact of the matter is many women are perfectly fine with ONS, so long as they don’t see the guy as potential for anything long term and are horny.

Necessary-Bonus4475 · 2023-08-28T17:46:37+00:00

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Oh you’re serious? Allow me to laugh even harder!

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

notsoslootyman · 2023-08-28T18:21:03+00:00

I had to upvote this just so other people can see how the comments take this down. I'm so proud of this sub.

FlynnRideHer1 · 2023-08-28T19:29:45+00:00

So, what we have here is a post that is

Sexist
Factually wrong

Steve77307 · 2023-08-28T21:19:00+00:00

Yeah I'm of the same thought. I think the ONS thing drives a lot of conflict between the genders. It doesn't seem to be worth it given all of the complications.

Goes against social norms and instincts across the board, especially for women. People of all ages, genders, and cultures seem to not to be in favor of one night stands. Most people will usually say something like "its not for me" or "its fine if other people do it". This tendency is strongly baked into women no matter how much culture or feminism liberates them sexually.
Competition. Since there are way more men looking for ONS than women, apps like tinder and such are very skewed towards men. Most guys want to hook up with a relatively attractive girl as well, which reduces the pool even further.
Ideological forces like Religion and Feminism. If women's instincts aren't enough, you also have religion saying to wait for marriage before sex. With feminism, it seems to be a double edged sword saying its ok sometimes but sexist other times.
Your own beliefs. If your a regular guy, you might be going through some cognitive dissonance over this topic. This makes it hard with all of the other reasons on this list.

At the end of it all, you need to be highly skilled/socially intelligent individual who is ok with what they are doing, less you get reported for sexual harassment for a mistake you made along the way.

It's much easier to just fap occasionally while looking for a long term partner.

33jeremy · 2023-08-28T18:22:36+00:00

We’re now living in 2023 a.k.a. The social media era. A lot of women don’t have a problem with sexualizing themselves through IG or even go beyond that by showing off their naked bodies on OF. Here on Reddit you can see plenty of crazy subs where women show NSFW content that would have been unfathomable in the 60’s. If anything women use us men to make a quick buck. Sex goes both ways and you’d be surprised how many women are open to having flings

partyn3xtd00r6 · 2023-08-28T19:20:23+00:00

not true at all lmao mega cope

Glacier_Sama · 2023-08-28T20:20:07+00:00

This is not true and has never been true. If her pussy is wet for you, she will fuck you without a second thought of anything else.

2023-08-28T22:50:29+00:00

not true at all dude lol

ChungusMcFunkopop · 2023-08-29T00:21:03+00:00

...no, they absolutely fuck on the first night if you're hot enough

lol

mehennessynu · 2023-08-29T03:31:35+00:00

Your blanket statement is not true.

birdgirl3333 · 2023-08-30T04:52:42+00:00

Women don't get attach to men they don't like but they want to fuck guys they're into , so usually they do get attached.

And sexually speaking, most women have higher libido , we can keep going and having multiple orgasms with multiple partners, men need time between orgasm.

Women can get sex at drop of a pen, so it loses value. Women walk around knowing they can fuck almost any guy , but we don't because biologically women are driven by two needs: safety and security first. That doesn't negate that women want sex but sex isn't the main goal when it's easy and women risk pregnancy , violence, etc.

I can walk up to any guy or DM any guy for sex , 80-90% will say yes. It has no value to me when it's this high. I don't care. Even women want a challenge : a high value guy who is handsome, masculine, driven, generous, provides more than sex ( dates, commitment, adventure ). Women are seeking men who also challenges them...same as men

I've left all my one night stands knowing I don't want see them again . They were thirsty but uninteresting. I want more.

It's not the easy sex, it's that women desire more 💯💯🙏💯🙏

Title	Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night stand
Author	ofexagency
Upvotes	6
Comments	35
Date	August 28, 2023 5:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/163riwt/sex_for_women_is_too_emotional_to_accept_a_one/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/sex-for-women-is-too-emotional-to-accept-a-one.1428638 https://theredarchive.com/post/1428638

Comments