If your sex life is dead in the gutter and your skills with women are nil... well then you're gonna have to get ready to grind hard.

(By the way, even if you're not a total loser, you're still gonna grind hard)

And when I say grind hard, I really mean grind hard.

This isn't a war of many battles. This is a war of literally infinite battles.

A game of numbers.

What do I mean by my nonsense?

I mean that as long as you don't sit at home all day, you will be faced with daily battles to fight.

Throughout the day you'll be seeing plenty of sexy ladies going about their business. Here's some unpleasant information, they're all ripe for the taking, so to speak. In other words, you'll be always faced with the "obligation" and "opportunity" to approach.

If you pay even a sliver of attention you'll be seeing plenty of chances to take and bullets to get hit with.

What do you gotta do?

Catch those bullets like a champ.

And you must get it in your head that you have to catch as many as possible. Not just the safest options. ALL OF THEM.(As many as you realistically can anyway)

That's scary. Hell yes it's scary. But you're here. You've seen behind the curtain. Quitting is not really possible anymore. After opening the door of personal development you can either be halfway in or all the way in. You can't even come out. The data is in your brain, you know everything now and you literally can't give up because you'll always be in that tug-o-war between yes and no.

Never stop because once you stop or stutter, you're fucked. Especially if you stop or stutter before getting relevant and good numbers.

Let me give you a tip right now.

This is a trap I, as well as many others I'm sure, have fallen into.

Don't pat yourself on the back too hard or too often.

I'll be frank, your first approach doesn't mean shit. Yeah you manned up. You picked your balls off the floor and did the hard deed. Good job. But you're not even close to success.

Get back on the horse and keep going. Stop celebrating that you took one step in an infinite marathon. Acknowledge it and keep going.

Are you going to celebrate you went to the gym once?

And it doesn't even matter if you had a great week or a great month. This is for life. Just like the gym and any good habit you're trying to establish. It takes daily practice and repetition till the end of your days.

Always keep this in mind. It's easy to get comfortable because you feel great. Because you bested the loser within. Because you overpowered your fear and laziness.

And there's no excuse on this planet that will change the fact that you gotta make those approaches and you gotta make them count. No matter where you are or how you feel. Feeling like shit? Well sorry bro, we all got those days. Grab your nuts and go approach. It's more about repetition than it is about anything else. Especially when you're starting out.

Oh and uh get your information and get the fuck out of here. Stop jerking your mental dick and asking insipid questions about every step you take. Don't come back here until you've gotten some notches on your belt.

I'm out.