Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game?

MFApprovedNigga · 2018-04-01T16:04:25+00:00

I'll start by saying daygame approaching in practically non-existent. I network well and getting pretty good at clubbing but I feel so anxious and weird approaching in the morning.

ben1324 · 2018-04-01T16:12:51+00:00

Literally all outer game. I’m fine once they are in the bedroom and getting physical, fine with how I feel, but suck at what to say... I basically suck at opening and then until I make a physical move

2018-04-01T16:56:48+00:00

Escalating. At all.

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-01T17:40:16+00:00

Closing, back in college it wasn't an issue because i really didn't think about it. After a long-term relationship and being out in the sea again this is my biggest hang up. All I have to say is "you wanna get out of here?" or "let's go back to my place and listen to music" that's it. But for some reason, I either forget or think i'm crossing some imaginary line.

I'm getting better at it though. Everything else I do pretty well with I think.

Sirburger · 2018-04-01T16:12:28+00:00

I do (used to) this thing where I get the girls number and that’s it. I don’t text, call, snap anything. Been working on that recently. Not saying that’s my weakest but certainly one of the top of the list, since it’s kinda necessary for the rest of the game.

2018-04-01T19:40:02+00:00

Groupspeak. I find it hard to find times to chime in or connect when it’s usually a 3-way conversation and I feel like one of the ones left out.

My 1 on 1 game is fucking stellar though. If I can isolate a girl it’s usually game over. Wish it translated well to groups though

elolugo · 2018-04-01T16:58:36+00:00

Approaching, i get so nervous talking to a girl a don't know

IllStep · 2018-04-01T20:04:43+00:00

Probably opening and reaching the 'social hook point'.

It's just seems next too impossible with a HUGE percentage of hot young girls if you don't fit their physical preference

So many instant rejections at worst, or at best, girls who are trying their hardest to give you NOTHING to work with in the hope that you'll leave them alone to get on with their night lol

ElDinerio · 2018-04-01T20:45:45+00:00

Dude I'm trying to figure it out. Here lately I've been getting waaay more play then I ever have in my life but its weird. Twice now I've gotten numbers and then they don't respond. First one I can kind of understand cause I asked for her number under the guise of her fixing my car; although she was very touchey feely and kept calling me cute. This last one we talked for an hour and a half while occasionally dancing. I didn't even ask for her number, she just gave it to me then. She was a 9.5/10 so somewhere in the back of my head "I'm not worthy" was creeping in so there is that.

So I guess my weakness right now is possibly escalation that is more enticing to keep in contact?

Maggost · 2018-04-01T20:47:41+00:00

Pretty much I don't have the balls to approach a girl in the middle of the street while going to work.

Twobithatter · 2018-04-01T22:30:05+00:00

Keep long the conversation going, while showing interest and not just random convo

MattED1220 · 2018-04-01T23:48:02+00:00

My weak spot is inner game. At times I just think that nobody will want to date me or whatever. I'm getting past it though. I'm putting in the time and talking to every pretty girl I see. It's a great feeling knowing what I was fearing was just fear. I still have long way to go but if I keep building on what I'm doing I should be okay.

2018-04-02T00:17:25+00:00

This is going to be different from most other comments. Female here. I’ve slept with what I consider to be an average number of people, but way under what a lot of people have. For the last 10 years I haven’t dated a lot and have been in a couple of long term relationships. I am super weirded out at the thought of sleeping with people who I am not in a committed relationship with. How does that phrase go?? Something like when you sleep with someone you are sleeping with everyone they’ve ever been with? For that reason I am very sexless right now. I don’t have HPV and I want to keep it that way. Any advice? I want to be having sex. I suck at this :(

i_need_help_bro · 2018-04-02T02:13:34+00:00

hearing disability (hearing damage)

itzReborn · 2018-04-02T04:28:11+00:00

All of it 😔

spoonthrower · 2018-04-02T06:16:06+00:00

Knowing how to handle relationships. I’ve been such a ONS person, who ghosts girls and rarely hooks up with them for more than a week or two, that I feel suddenly much less experienced when having to maintain something for more than a few weeks.

tab13092 · 2018-04-02T19:07:21+00:00

I'm pretty bad at approaching/breaking the ice. Though I'm much better then I used to be, I'm still generally shy and take a bit to warm up to new people (anyone, not just women). Once I'm relatively comfortable with someone, it's easy after that.

I've gotten better at it though this past year, partly because my job entails me working with the general public so that's been a very low-pressure way to brush up.

I think at this point I have a hard time starting conversations with people I don't know, so generally when I'm at a few local hang out spots I just sort of include myself in group conversations or other similar situations. Have made some pretty decent friends doing that.

Title	Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game?
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Date	April 1, 2018 4:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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