Is not giving a fuck attractive?

zichlone · 2019-01-04T22:19:09+00:00

Confidence is attractive. But be weary of being arrogant in lieu of confident.

ntipz011 · 2019-01-04T23:34:23+00:00

Confidence is attractive.

Not showing your best self because you're just a lazy carefree fuck is not attractive.

gdu090 · 2019-01-05T01:50:19+00:00

Short answer : yes

The most affective thing you can do when out at a club or whatever is relax with your friends and enjoy yourself.

Never mind any of this “game” “pua” shite, smile, have fun and dance and the girls / guys will come.

wowzacowza · 2019-01-05T01:24:37+00:00

I don't think it would be classified as either attractive or not attractive because it depends on too many other things. Not caring what other people think of you could be attractive but mostly because you're not seeking validation and you're not trying to build rapport. Those two things are mostly unattractive, but super common, so by not doing them you'll seem more attractive. On the other hand, not caring what other people think of you could be unattractive because it displays a social disconnect, meaning you aren't high value socially. Part of being a decent person is being well adjusted, and if you walk around oblivious to what others think of you, that's not well adjusted, it's just denial.

I'd say the key is self esteem more than not giving a fuck. Basically, don't give a fuck when something's trying to bring you down, but give a fuck if it's positive.

JacksonCreed4425 · 2019-01-05T04:12:36+00:00

The asshole characters and generally the most liked. As like as they have redeeming quality such as Drive or ambition

ColdCaulkCraig · 2019-01-05T16:19:24+00:00

People try way too hard to apply "confidence". The secret is to just live your life and not make the primary focus on women. If you have an interesting life and you put yourself out there, things just fall into place.

PolesWithGoals · 2019-01-05T01:37:20+00:00

I mean I think it is but girls at my school don’t agree

gbz5 · 2019-01-05T02:13:27+00:00

Yes, very.

kellykebab · 2019-01-05T03:39:26+00:00

Nah, not really.

Sandvicheater · 2019-01-05T03:56:14+00:00

Balancing act between confident and douche

Crashlands · 2019-01-05T19:04:50+00:00

Check out the book “The Subtle Art if Not Giving a Fuck” by Mark Manson.

2019-01-05T14:14:29+00:00

I think caring deeply for yourself and others but not caring what they think is attractive.

Not wanting to kill a man but willing and able to kill a man.

You see being an alpha male is as complicated as understanding women.

mydeardroogs · 2019-01-05T03:50:42+00:00

Some women would respond really well to that. Some women could tolerate it in doses. Some women wouldn't respond well to it at all.

Title	Is not giving a fuck attractive?
Author	DryAlgae
Upvotes	72
Comments	26
Date	January 4, 2019 10:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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