Stop living a lie: seduction is all about looks.

Atriev · 2019-12-03T19:49:39+00:00

Interesting how my hot white friends can’t get hot white girls but I can despite being a short asian man.

They have no game. Pass 2 shit tests, and suddenly the girl is engaged in me despite her being taller than me.

PiperBigBell · 2019-12-03T20:41:14+00:00

Seduction is a social skill. If you can influence how you come off to others, influence how you are viewed. Then you can do more than get lucky. Looks is a small part. And if you're in game long enough you realise there are thousands of reasons a woman will or won't fuck you. A thousand ways to keep them, lose them, fuck them. Too many fucking factors besides looks that make her react a certain way.

I will agree in that most advice here isn't even close to related about seduction. Just a guy getting "lucky" and having no skills or strategy.

rich_god · 2019-12-03T20:20:59+00:00

I'm really not hot and I get laid very consistently with multiple relationships and occasional hookups. I have two very average looking friends who have sex with multiple new (very attractive) women every week and also have a long standing LTR. Another one who is also pretty short and not special at all in terms of look has had sex with more than 100 women that year alone.

Being hot is really not that important. What is important tho is believing that you're hot and loving your body.

wakaflocka987 · 2019-12-03T21:19:28+00:00

Lol at this still being post worthy in 2019. The only other topic more beat to death in these communities is indirect vs. direct. So goofy.

appmanga · 2019-12-03T23:02:36+00:00

A new body and plastic surgery won't make a shy guy into a stud, or an awkward duckling into a swan. You wouldn't believe some the guys I've known who were all-time slayers, guys who would make Quasimodo say "Man, that dude is ugly".

The truth is there are many ways to achieve the goal of sleeping with women, but most guys prefer to lean toward being honorable and sincere. Yes, looks mean a lot, but if only good looking people got laid, we'd all be gorgeous.

Your humblebrag is nice, but most of us don't have $15,000 to spend on getting a new face.

JessePloughs · 2019-12-03T21:54:00+00:00

I seen some fat ugly dumbasses pull mad hot pussy. Women are less attracted to looks than guys are.

Women are attracted to guys that make them feel a certain way.

Rosa231 · 2019-12-03T21:33:00+00:00

What did you make me realise now? I am going to be in my room, crying.

MountainClimax · 2019-12-03T22:34:14+00:00

It isn't, but looks will get you in the door with the majority of women, so you only need minimum game and courage.

Guys without looks can still get laid but they have way less options, have to wait for attractive girls to be in the right 'time' of their life to consider it, or be rich/famous, etc.

soprano1919 · 2019-12-03T23:23:49+00:00

Even if your really attractive you still need game. Source: im a 9-10 in the looks department, women tell me daily, i can have 80% of the chicks i go after. Not bragging but you need game, its just easier to approach when ur attractive thats all. Wen ur attractive u may get approached as a man as well; But you need to be able to carry a conversation, connect with someone, flirt, and seduce or you wont go far. All of these are social skills that need to be developed aka game.

antiquatedipad · 2019-12-03T23:59:58+00:00

https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html

BurnablesOnMondays · 2019-12-04T07:52:42+00:00

I'm attractive. My game sucks. I only get laid out of luck.

Title	Stop living a lie: seduction is all about looks.
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Date	December 3, 2019 7:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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