I don't know what the deal is. With the seduction community being deplatformed, companies changing focus and many of the original voices retiring or vanishing, what's left seems to be less a skeleton but rather a cesspool of complaining and negativity.

This needs to stop.

What use to be looked at as an approachable and exciting challenge has once again turned into complaining, bitterness and scarcity mentality.

Look, things have changed. Social media and technology have taken short female attention spans and made them even worse. Tinder and other dating apps give women an abundance mentality and an easy hit of validation. #metoo, social justice and whatever else has made it dangerous to show masculinity, share your views and made a need to mute our personalities. Decent guys are being overlooked for chads, influencers and opportunity.

PUA strategies are being discounted as old-school, the big names now accused of being fakes never having the success they claimed. Personality has taken a back seat once again to looks maxing, success and having an instagram worthy resume.

It's all bullshit.

Things also haven’t changed. 15 years ago online dating was just as relevant, just not as openly discussed. Women could still go out and be approached by dozens of men a day. Feminism existed. Most bars were sausage fests where the 20% got 80% of the results. Good guys were overlooked for those with looks, fame and fortune.

What made pick-up work is it created a community that fostered positivity, motivation and achievable challenge. Systems were designed for those who didn’t have natural game to have a blueprint they could follow and fake it until they make it. Indirect grew into direct and finally natural game. This hasn’t changed as those were all steps in your progression. Indirect still works for those so scared to approach or certain they aren’t interesting to spark conversation even if it’s forced. With interaction came confidence and a graduation into direct. Men were so clueless or afraid that these tools and promised success gave them the will to “plow” seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Game worked.

With so many leaders gone and few willing to take up the mantle we’re left with a new generation of clueless and scared men desperate for help and the places they now turn speak of futility not achievement. “Online dating only works if you’re hot. Bars suck because the women you want are at home watching Netflix. Day game is creepy and women want to be left alone. Mystery had no skill. Tyler is autistic. RSD is just selling a bill of goods. Bootcamps don’t work.” Guess what? All of this is true if you want it to be.

Gone are the days where guys would try the unimaginable just to see if it works. The thrill of the hunt has turned largely into a desire of instant gratification and any failure proof that something never worked or ever will. This is how incels are born. The apocalypse opener could never exist today even if it still does work.

We are no longer seeing the forest for the trees. This is a plea to everyone to realize as much as things changed, they are still the same. There are desirable women out there that you can and will attract. The joy is in the journey.

Let’s get back to the days we were daring, fearless, cheerleaders for one another and had fun. See the endless opportunity that still lay in front of you and enjoy the process once again.

You got this and I've got your back!