NEEDY/Creepy vibe with GIRLS?

Spandex420 · 2020-06-19T18:33:56+00:00

You hit the nail the on head, my friend. Confidence is everything. Good looks certainly help, but confidence goes a long way toward attracting women. Neediness projects weakness, and weakness is unattractive. Be confident in yourself and women will notice.

mosaicevolution · 2020-06-19T19:31:24+00:00

I constantly feel weak for wanting someone. But we are social creatures, it's normal to want companionship. I dont need another person for self esteem issues, or to make me feel whole, I just require physical touch and emotional support, everyone needs these. Idk

JesustheSpaceCowboy · 2020-06-19T19:48:57+00:00

Interjection, I will get mad if I’ve already slept with you multiple times and then you come at me with how you “aren’t ready for a relationship” so you can fuck other dudes, AFTER we’ve had a talk about how I’m not interested in just banging you and want something legit well before we even slept together.

John_Wick_Detroit · 2020-06-19T19:26:37+00:00

Is there anybody out there not trying to make a dime off this crap?

cer216 · 2020-06-20T06:02:53+00:00

Confidence, sense of humor, intelligence, and courtesy go a long way. Physical appearance is nice but looks fade, we all get old. For example if someone holds the door, makes me laugh and is passionate about ANYTHING, I am more inclined to take them seriously.

My husband is a huge gamer and GOT fan etc. I am not a geeky girl AT ALL, but I find his interests in nerdy things very endearing and it makes him unique which I love. Ask about her interests, but be sure the conversation is a two way street, and don’t be afraid to tell her yours. Don’t doubt yourself! The nice guys don’t always finish last, but the ones who participate in a lot of self doubt often do.

AmateurDemographer · 2020-06-20T05:14:37+00:00

Here’s the thing. I don’t think you can fully eliminate neediness, but the tactics you outlined can certainly minimize it.

runningvicuna · 2020-06-19T21:36:05+00:00

I’m too picky so I put a girl on a pedestal.

And it’s pandemic season still right? Or no?

If a girl wants to fuck there’s guys that don’t give a fuck about masks that will fuck anyone. Or am I paranoid?

idontmeananyofthis · 2020-06-20T12:16:50+00:00

Good video. Drop editing the pictures in it’s distracting and also get a better mic

BKBooklover · 2020-06-21T01:48:56+00:00

Nice

Aeon199 · 2020-06-20T01:24:31+00:00

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xAlois · 2020-06-20T13:17:28+00:00

Imagine that someone - not necessarily a guy or a girl - came up to you and, whether it be directly or indirectly, asked you to be one of their, if not the only, main sources of happiness.

I think that most of us realize, upon truly imagining this, how undesirable of a position that is to be in, for multiple reasons too. Reasons I won't go into detail to describe here, because I trust that everyone reading my comment will be able to find their own truth.

But, generally speaking, we don't want to be responsible for the happiness of others, because most people know how difficult it is to be responsible for your own happiness.

And then, there's also the truth that neediness makes you look both fragile and dangerous in a volatile way at the same time.

Fragile because losing this person's attention or affection, even temporarily, will hurt you greatly, and dangerous because, as all humans would, you will fight to keep and defend the things which bring you happiness, quite selfishly too.

I think that's what you get to when you boil down why neediness is off-putting and discomforting.

So, the conclusion is simple and obvious: you become more attractive to people by showing them, among other things, that the pressure of you being happy around them is not entirely on them. You also show them that you know how to be happy, even without them, which is attractive! Who doesn't want to learn how to find even more sources of happiness? And who doesn't prefer the idea of being surrounded by happy people in their life?

greatlifeahead · 2020-06-20T13:38:56+00:00

You should learn to hide and control your real emotions. You should never let a woman see your weaknesses. You should also control yourself and test women and walk away if she doesn't qualify.

Fake abundance. Think about sales. You have to fake that you have other offers and act like you are negotiating from a position of power.

You should also learn how to look happy and smile and fake confidence. Think about it like customer service. You cannot have a bad day in your job. Same should apply to approaching women.

So you can be needy and insecure in the inside and it is OK but you have to be in control of your emotions and project strength and not weakness.

Title	NEEDY/Creepy vibe with GIRLS?
Author	sinbad2011
Upvotes	393
Comments	53
Date	June 19, 2020 6:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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