How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?

weirdgroovynerd · 2020-12-12T07:33:19+00:00

Listen, I need to go meet some friends, but it was fun chatting with you.

Here's my phone number if you'd like to get a cup of coffee sometime.

burncushlikewood · 2020-12-12T08:39:19+00:00

I only know night game, day game is a different beast entirely. Go to the bar or club and approach. Don't touch areas that are too sexual, grab her hand and lean in then back off. Touch her upper back, don't touch face or inner thigh till later. Go to the club approach her then leave and return later. People think you have to stay with her all night but this isn't true. Escalate slowly with touching until she's ready to make out. If it's day game get her number then ask her out, do something non traditional then just seeing a movie or going to dinner. Go on a hike or something unique

2020-12-12T08:36:08+00:00

The typical model (in no way the only way) to do this this and everything go well is:

opener: whatever floats your bought and that is congruent to the situation.

banter: do some light hearted conversation that slowly start to reel them in.

Rapport or connection or escalation (a lot of PUA too many different names for this phase): This is where you make sure you have a solid connection with the woman. Probably in this stage you'll do more complaint based stuff and flirty stuff. Also be mentioning shit that you like to do that is fun.

From here you have a fork: Either go for the number or go for the same day lay.

Number: After setting up all those fun things earlier circle back to them and say maybe you should do them sometime. Then ask for her number. After getting her number talk to her for a little while longer about other shit and then kindly leave.

adbar89 · 2020-12-12T09:38:28+00:00

It really comes down to how you jive with the person. If there's a rhythm to both of you, getting numbers setting another date is easy. If in meeting the person, teasing is always a good way to create a fun and chill atmosphere. As in dont take her so seriously at times and being cheeky in leading to her laughing with you is good.

In general, as pretty as she is, if there's no jive, then even if you pursue, it wont be a fun thing. Remember to always love yourself more and be real on what you really want whilst being realistic about it.

Willing-Chair · 2020-12-12T07:58:54+00:00

I tell her she is cute or pretty or something like that. This seems to work for me because I can tell a lot based off her reaction. I know there are more subtle ways to go about it but I am not good with subtlety in social situations.

hug-bot · 2020-12-12T10:56:23+00:00

ughh nothing

mr_Tobbor · 2020-12-12T13:36:09+00:00

Kino routine is easy. Read online. But the crucial thing is that: Is she receptive to your touch? If not. SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED!

mrjonesjj · 2020-12-12T14:40:43+00:00

Sexual banter and physicality. Start slow, I think some other people already gave advice on how to be physical so I won’t add that here, but you have to create a “man to woman” frame for the conversation. Make subtle sexual jokes. Start small and eventually make them more blatant. Establish your intent - make it clear what you’re there for, but don’t be too over the top blatant with that either. You shouldn’t need to come out and say it, she should understand from the sub communication of the way you talk to her.

nag1878 · 2020-12-13T01:49:07+00:00

As someone told me, a girl will come back home with you the first time she met you if she's

A. Super drunk

B. In a super adventurous mood

Neither lead to anything sustainable

Exchange numbers. It's a great start...it's what she's expecting too mostly

jumanjirox · 2020-12-13T04:21:17+00:00

Yall actually talk to women?

strawberryheats · 2020-12-13T07:11:02+00:00

Make her laugh

user666420666 · 2020-12-12T09:46:49+00:00

Just ask for her number; usually that's enough to let her know what's up I.e. you're interested in her or something.

Just-Drew-It · 2020-12-12T16:26:58+00:00

There aren't a specific set of rules to adhere by. Learning to read the room is one of the many skills you need to be successful in dating.

If things are going well, I wouldn't end it short. Gather info by weaving inquiries into the conversation: Finding out what her responsibilities are for that day, if she has something to prepare for tomorrow, etc.

There's no sense in cutting it early if things are going your way. Keep making a good impression until the conversation starts to fizzle or you get body language indicating that it is time to make your exit.

Obviously, you want to get her number. The absolutely best way to do this, is ask for hers. Put it in your phone as she tells you, and then dial it. She'll get your number, and you'll know for sure that she's genuinely into you because her phone will ring; that she gave you her real number.

There's a million different ways this scenario can branch out, many of which lead to sex that day. Never go for it unless its a sure thing. Literally every woman that isn't ready for it will be disgusted that you tried so soon.

Hope this helps.

Hornyonion · 2020-12-12T18:33:48+00:00

Say hi

Pull pants down

Show balls

i_love_lamp822 · 2020-12-12T17:18:35+00:00

Who writes a number down these days? Enter it in your phone usually with an note In case you forget her name

2020-12-12T17:50:15+00:00

nothing. give her money ig?

pancakebirdpowder74 · 2020-12-12T20:20:09+00:00

"Hey can I have your number/one of the socials so we can keep in touch, I'd like to get to know you better."

It worked for my bf on me so it might work for you!

sixfeet83 · 2020-12-13T11:04:15+00:00

I do say then we’ll is your been mea. Why?

Title	How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?
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Date	December 12, 2020 6:49 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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