The size of my bones is my biggest insecurity, having the wrist size of a woman, which has made me think that every single woman that has been with me probably made and exception for me.

I am masculine in all other aspects, but men that are less masculine than me seem to have somewhat better dating success because they have bigger bones.

I can say with confidence I am fit, and for my weight range I sure am strong, but how tf can you see that before I take off my shirt? You can't, because I have small bones, other men look good with clothes on too.

Most women of a certain, let's say attractiveness level and up, will rather choose a big man, and big men also have big bones, some of them aren't even fit.

Perhaps it is the half a year of no sex because I moved to another country and I've started my social life back up from 0 that's making me question this.

I've went on a few dates with two women over the course of this time, didn't sleep with them, first one is coming back in the country only in Fall so ain't no point in waiting for that, the other was just 2-3 dates, would never wife her cause she does drugs and shit, she's in a little attempt at a serious relationship rn so when she gets bored we will probably end up fucking.

So while I have definitely had quiete the few flings, I'm still not a firm believer that more attractive women will find me attractive because I have small bones, is that true?