Society (and men) have long since deemed that expecting a woman to fit the “housewife” role in a relationship is unacceptable and sexist, but for some reason women still hold it over us?

DeportForeigners · 2024-03-31T10:41:50+00:00

> some girl replying saying that they’re capable of paying for themselves but they deserve the man to pay for them

The correct response to this is "ah, I see. Like how men can cook and clean for themselves, but they deserve a woman to do it for them!".

Turnabout is the fairest play

Igualdad23M · 2024-03-31T14:34:01+00:00

Society wants women to be F18 pilots because that seems cool but doesn't want them to be murdered by a missile society wants women to be cops but desn't want them to be kidnapped raped and beheaded by Sinaloa's Cartel.

In other words Society wants women to get the good things of modern society but not the trade offs. Society wants women "to not be at home" ( get good, comfortable and well paid jobs ) but still want men to support and sacrifice for women. Society wants first and foremost the well being of their women, not just like everyone else, the well being of their women as women, and everything else (us) is just a tool to achieve that.

Prof_Acorn · 2024-03-31T16:32:51+00:00

I don't know. I've been the better cleaner and cook in every long term relationship I've been in. They still expect me to make more money as well. I just want an equal partner.

facelikethunder22 · 2024-03-31T10:24:35+00:00

They want to have their cake and eat it too

neveragoodtime · 2024-03-31T13:24:06+00:00

Women have always had the option of working outside the house. It was quite normal for both parents to work while a live in grandparent took care of kids. It wasn’t until a brief moment in the 50’s when a middle class was able to have a stay at home parent. And it was considered a luxury, until a generation later when women have decided it was literal slavery. It wasn’t until air conditioned office jobs that were easier than raising kids came along when women started demanding to be included, as though they were ever excluded. Not causation, but certainly a convenient correlation for women.

gojosatoru-yuigi · 2024-03-31T09:38:01+00:00

Its like being a non traditional woman expecting your man to be traditional.

Eterna_Caelestia · 2024-03-31T09:44:25+00:00

No modern woman is worth a dime.

RSA1RSA · 2024-03-31T17:45:44+00:00

With so many simps willing to just bend over and dish out their hard earned cash with some selfish and entitled woman, they can get away with it.

Mary19891 · 2024-03-31T10:39:51+00:00

I know I love the idea of being a housewife.... unfortunately the times were in make me do work as well... which I do but I do love the more traditional ideas.... But maybe I'm not common around... it's unfortunate

RockyMaiviaJnr · 2024-03-31T19:46:39+00:00

You can’t fix the world my bro. You can only control you.

I want a partner to stay at home and raise the kids, and I earn enough money to do so. I always pay for all the dates to set the expectations right from the start. If she wasn’t raised to be a housewife or is into feminist nonsense and argues with you about wanting to pay then she ain’t the one for you so you move on.

michaelpaoli · 2024-03-31T10:27:16+00:00

women still hold it over us

That's gonna vary radically, woman to woman. So ... if one don't fit well to one's liking ... whatever that may be ... well ... go try another. Some want highly traditional. Others anything but. Many something between or an odd mix or whatever. And, yeah, that really applies not only to women, but very much also to men. So, key bit is getting a reasonable compatible match ... therein lies the rub.

RalfMurphy · 2024-03-31T12:49:11+00:00

They tend to hold onto grudges (ducks for cover)

ThrowAway-MR0 · 2024-03-31T09:44:25+00:00

I may be a traditionalist. But I think there is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles if that’s what you both want.

randonumero · 2024-03-31T16:08:29+00:00

women ironically are the ones that still assume that men want women to fill the housewife role even when it’s not the case anymore and hasn’t been for a long time, and they hold that to use against us

Why don't you think this is the case? Most people I know in healthy relationships who can have one stay at home parent, especially when the kids are young, do it. Often the working parent helps a bit more with traditional roles like cooking certain nights, driving kids to sports...but the majority of people I speak to see value in having one person in the homemaker role.

I think more so than large numbers of women not wanting it, most people realize how expensive life is and have less access to high earners or people with that potential. The number of people I knew in college who got married after was smaller than when my dad was finishing undergrad and I'm given to understand that it's even smaller now.

jebieszjeze · 2024-04-01T14:35:40+00:00

Society (and men) have long since deemed that expecting a woman to fit the “housewife” role in a relationship is unacceptable and sexist

fuck no. thats what a very vocal minority want you to think is the norm; and not just you, women too.

kkkan2020 · 2024-03-31T18:12:26+00:00

how i isee it is that a lot of people really are just not fun to be around period. they're really angry bitter nasty people taht don't know how to keep their mouths shut. better just do everything on your own.

mhk23 · 2024-03-31T14:04:49+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/live/9CGduTEpTgw?feature=shared

adam-l · 2024-03-31T17:18:10+00:00

Society (and men) have long since deemed that expecting a woman to fit the “housewife” role in a relationship is unacceptable and sexist

Scores of women, even in the West, choose the tradwife role. That is especially pronounced in the upper class, where women typically don't work, and just "manage" the house.

Claiming that that role is sexist, is sexist. You bigot. :)

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