3 months ago I catch her talking to a guy she spent 10 years getting therapy due to his sexual abuse to her sister and her. Apparently a friend said she could get closure. Messages say they love each other and are planning to take my kids and elope. He’s got a long history in and out of prison. She says she will not speak to neither the friend or him if i stay and we work on it. 3 months later I catch her again and this time she says she loves him. I go to leave with the kids emotionally distressed and yelling, calling names. Next day I return, to have a warrant with charges for 2nd degree harassment and 4th domestic abuse. Verbal is considered abuse during a fight for those that don’t know. She had been recording any and all arguments we had that three months while “working” on it. I spend 46 hours in jail with murderers and rapist. I get out and see my kids one last time before my wife comes to house with DFS and cops to take them away under a protection order. 2 weeks in and they are in another state while I’m out on bond with an ankle bracelet trying to wade my way through this absolute twilight zone.

Remember, it can always be worse guys.