Can a young man be a 'red piller' and live a red pill lifestyle even if he is dating or married to a much older woman?

For example, we have a 26-year-old man who makes six or seven figures, and he wants to be 'red-pilled' and live a red pill lifestyle. However, he doesn't want to date younger women; he is attracted to older women and wants to date women who are older than him—women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, or whatever. Can he still be red-pilled and do it? The reason red pill guys date younger women is so they can be in control and dominate the relationship. I don’t know if a guy could do that if he’s dating a much older woman.