What I mean is that people frequently talk about men as abstract beings instead of humans. They take what any man says and assume he's lying or takes the absolute worst faith interpretation of what he's saying. Like I've said the words "I want to lose my virginity" and the comments were saying I viewed women as nothing other than a means to an end of sex. It felt like I was taking crazy pills because of how large a logical leap it was. I see things like this happening very frequently and it just seems detrimental to any for of help this sub is supposed to provide.

To me, it feels no different than the men who hear a woman wants a man with a stable job and assumes she views men as her personal wallet. It's a jump to a conclusion based on shitty views of women, and I'll probably get banned for pointing this out, but a lot of people here have way too shitty and biased views of men to be giving out advice to men who are struggling.

I get that some people here have has terrible experiences with men and red pillers but bringing that bias here into a space where the goal is to help men exit that place is not going to be helpful to anyone.