Toward the end of my marriage when there was increasing conflict with my wife, I started to have problems getting it up. She routinely criticized me for not going long enough, and not initiating. Sex began to feel like a chore to keep her from being angry at me. She also kept pushing me to do unsafe sex and I didn't want to have another kid with her because she was so mean.

I'm so glad I don't have that woman in my life anymore, but it's changed my views of women in general. I find it difficult to get aroused anymore. I've been on a few unsatisfactory dates, which felt nothing but stressful. Even strippers can't give me a boner anymore because I know they just want money. All of my experiences with women during and after the divorce have made me distrusting. I feel like they all have an agenda. There is no real love, and I don't see anything as sexy anymore. All the hoops it takes to court women just turn me off.

Anyone else experience something similar?