How do you maintain a rotation?

ShampooMonK · 2024-06-04T02:25:55+00:00

For those of you that have solid game, what are your strategies for maintaining a rotation?

Keep it simple stupid. Drinks & movies at your place or coffee/drinks near the vicinity of your place. Do not overinvest. Less is more, and what I mean is you have to space out the times you guys see each other, so if you have 3 women in your rotation, 1 of them has to be on the weekday schedule, the other two ideally weekends. I've tried 5 women before, but it's way too much work + managing emotions.

Do not see a women in your rotation more than once every 7-10 days, otherwise they'll eventually get the impression that you like them and want more, and this is also to avoid her getting emotionally attached to you as well. There's nothing wrong with giving a woman good dick. You want to come off as a lover/sexual man rather than 'boyfriend,' material otherwise women will try to hold out in hopes of commitment/'take it slow,'.

The easiest women are generally ones who just got out of a LTR.

How do you keep the ones that want a boyfriend at a distance but still be fwb?

If she isn't looking for a relationship, chances are that women will eventually leave your roster on her own accord. If she sticks around, and you actually like her, it's highly likely she does want a relationship. Most women are not down to just fuck around forever.

Best thing to do is establish boundaries early, be straight up, and if they draw that line in the sand simply let it go. Rotations rarely last forever. Live in the present and enjoy the moment.

Are you open and honest that you see other girls?

Women can tell when you are seeing other women. But honesty is usually the best policy.

Do you get burnout after a while and just want a gf/ have any of you kept a rotation going for many months?

Yes, got tired of it. Most of the women I was having in my rotation were not women I would even consider dating seriously, not to mention a good chunk of them all had similar interests which bored me.

What sort of lessons learned are there?

Most women who are into you, will shoot for something more than casual later down the line, just play it cool. Being chill giving off the vibes that you have options tends to play more into your favor.

You don't keep women in your rotation, that's literally why it's called a rotation. If they want to leave, set them free/let them go and find new girls. Always keep gaming to keep your tools sharp so you never get needy/clingy - aka find new leads.

hunterpua · 2024-06-04T07:20:06+00:00

By telling the truth...proactively.

As in don't do the whole, "Don't ask, don't tell."

Tell even if no one asks.

When I'm single I'm always openly polyamorous.

That means a lot of my friends know and practically every girl I ever flirt with knows often before they've even kissed me.

This makes time management and managing the rotation a walk in the park, because they already know that they're not the only one, so they know to be understanding when I don't have much time for them and they basically manage themselves.

I don't text these girls for conversation ever. The only texts I send are ones where I tell them to come over or me saying I wanna go out somewhere.

We do have conversational text exchanges but they only happen when they initiate, they also carry every conversation we have.

In my experience its actually easier than being in a monogamy, because I'm more proactive and initiate a good amount when I'm in a monogamy.

Now of course, not all girls will be happy doing this kind of thing but they don't have to be, because they don't have to be with me.

Why would I be worried about letting one girl go when I still have a rotation of a bunch of other girls?

PureFlames · 2024-06-04T03:11:31+00:00

Its really simple actually

You just dont put any thought into it. This actually works so well because the girls realize u dint gaf about them and want you even more

In college i was fucking 2 girls who were good friends and always acted like friends in social groups, but then each time i was alone with one they would shit talk the other. They both wanted me to ditch the other girl, but i never did because i didnt gaf about either of them

This made both of them chase me more because they could tell i was putting in 0 effort

North_Place_1541 · 2024-06-04T11:27:16+00:00

have no expectations and just enjoy the present. do fun things like how you would do with friends. i like going to gigs or bars or watching a movie. that way you’re both having fun and later, when you hook up it feels natural and comfortable. i can’t really see more than 3 guys, not because it gets old, but because life is busy and also you start to forget what you talked about with each of them and it’s way less fun if you’re not able to have quality conversation and hang out like friends (who fuck). Just don’t expect them to be obsessed with you and keep doing everything you’d normally do- if you’re not planning on dating, you don’t really have to go out of the way to make time for them. just see where they fit into your life easily.

ChicagoJoe123456789 · 2024-06-04T03:53:19+00:00

The ones who want a relationship, do your best to give them a Friday or Saturday night - prime date nights. Those who don’t, try to see primarily during the week. The ones who don’t, they understand as they can read between the lines.

mow_foe · 2024-06-04T17:51:52+00:00

Meh, it's more of an art than a science. I usually had at least 1 nice girl that was totally in the dark, 1-2 bad bitch that knew everything and felt competitive vs. the others. It's great because when 1 annoys or bores you, spend more time with the rest. It is a you-centric strategy, and eventually most of them will want more or move on. I suggest you do.likewise and don't overthink it.

brandonmadeit · 2024-06-04T02:39:19+00:00

Just like maintaining any relationship, call every so often, text to hang out. The most I’d recommend is 3 woman at a time as I’ve found juggling more just becomes a hassle.

IamWisdom · 2024-06-04T14:47:14+00:00

You have to trick 4 or 5 girls that you're only sleeping with them and may be interested in a long term relationship with them. It's that simple.

Misterthickthick · 2024-06-04T01:09:03+00:00

Honesty is my policy. I let it be known early on I’m the guy who’s going to give her orgasms late at night not who she’s going to marry. I don’t go on bullshit dates, I don’t chat for hours about non sexual things before I’ve slept with them. I’m the fuck boy with good dick 👍

Shadykid47 · 2024-06-04T16:09:03+00:00

Which country are you from ? Where are you able to do this ?

I mean the emotional factor alone feels too much to me personally. I want to be like you

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-06-04T23:23:22+00:00

If you have to ask you shouldn’t Maintain one also once again if you have not mastered one woman how can you master 3 ?

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-06-04T15:44:25+00:00

My rotation always falls. Especially last 2 years.

My 26 year old girlfriend and our 2 kids has now moved to my city. So I really lose 4 days easily as I have to show some respect and show up. Then my two finance and tech buisnessses take up so much time as they ramp up.

I used to be able to maintain consistently 4-5 girls a week. Now I might have a short burst then im out of energy once you add in my properties, businesses, partner and kids and seeing my own parents and business partners

madmaxfromshottas · 2024-06-04T05:57:43+00:00

jus give them time an attention but this really is a waste of energy unless you have the time your better off just picking the one you like the most and giving her your attention.

Ok-Entertainer-1401 · 2024-06-04T08:13:12+00:00

Keep meeting new women (via apps or irl) who are into you and keep arranging to meet them/keep in contact.

Title	How do you maintain a rotation?
Author	berzerker5000
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Comments	45
Date	June 4, 2024 1:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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