How to became friend with benefits with a woman?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-06-15T12:30:27+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Refuse2Leave187 · 2024-06-14T14:30:57+00:00

Gotta have sex first .. if you’re a GOD in bed she’ll ask to see you again then she’ll ask for a serious relationship.. thats usually your opportunity to tell her “im not looking for anything serious right now i just wanna remain friends on this level if that’s ok with you” .. and its either gonna be yay or nay

Sandvicheater · 2024-06-14T17:57:37+00:00

Word to the wise about FWB, make sure the girl can be 100% trusted.

My buddy who been FWB with this late 20's business professional cutie was banging without a condom bareback for couple years. The relationship was strictly friendship level as buddy wanted to play the field some more but FWB girl kept pushing for serious relationship and marriage as her ovaries material clock was ticking.

One day bam she hits him with a positive pregnancy test and baby trapped him into a marriage he didn't want.

iROLL24s · 2024-06-14T21:40:36+00:00

Just be straight up about what you want from the get-go

loosetingles · 2024-06-14T20:52:45+00:00

For the ones I've had we started out dating and realized there's no long term connection here but we both enjoy having sex together. I dont think its something you can approach most women about just kind develops over time.

rustedsteellove · 2024-06-14T22:41:00+00:00

You don’t. It will only happen if she’s also wanting FWB.

xAngeronax · 2024-06-15T08:13:21+00:00

Just be upfront blunt with what you want, that's the only way that really works because if you lie then you'll have to deal with consequences later which you may or may not want to have.

SubvertedAI · 2024-06-14T23:11:05+00:00

if you have to ask, then it's not gonna happen for you sorry

Nyxmondo · 2024-06-15T00:09:18+00:00

The most important part is that she is interested in you too or at least wants/wouldnt mind a fwb situation. If u are not worried about changing the dynamic of the friendship for potentially the worse, very respectfully bring up the idea and how it may benefit u both. Think hard about how it might benefit her and come up with actual good reasons that are relevant to her. Now if she already privately likes you or already likes that type of situation it really wouldn’t be hard or complicated to achieve but if that’s not something she has considered about you before. Have a decent non-creepy, non-hornball pitch. She may get into it. If so, talk together and create clear boundaries and expectations. Get tested, sort out your birth control and get banging.

sdnaturist · 2024-06-15T03:06:25+00:00

Have women friends. Benefits come with time and familiarity…

burncushlikewood · 2024-06-15T05:38:31+00:00

Generally asking? You seduce her and get to know her, touch her, make out with her, give her space, and then you ask her. Easier said than done, but I suggest working on your game and studying material/doing approaches

macaroni66 · 2024-06-15T12:22:04+00:00

I'm a woman and can't find a man for this. I've been told men don't need more friends but I require the friendship to get naked.

Mojiitoo · 2024-06-14T23:16:55+00:00

If you gotta ask, it aint gonna right

Hokage_yoshi · 2024-06-14T21:34:05+00:00

Idk u gotta have bde

Minimal_K · 2024-06-15T11:06:52+00:00

I really really wanted with this girl I knew who worked at a coffee shop. It happened eventually. I just walked up to the counter every time, joked a little. I also invited her for coffee at the same shop after her shift. Eventually, I just asked her. She obliged enthusiastically and I had no regrets.

I’ve been a proud owner of a dedicated benefits card at the coffee shop for 6 months.

Particular-Leek-5794 · 2024-06-15T11:33:18+00:00

You can’t force becoming fwb. Don’t even mention this term when talking to a girl. Girls immediately lose interest when she exactly knows what to expect from you. Be playful and fun when talking about what she can expect. Depending on her reaction be more pushy or avoiding. So you control the relationship and it stays in the lanes you want it to. It’s a game so play it.

Silly_Randy · 2024-06-14T15:51:35+00:00

You have to fuck her. Let's say on a friday.

Then you ghost her.

Then Friday comes, you hit her up with

"Omg I've been so busy 😩😩 u ok?"

If she responds...meet with her and fuck her again.

You can also inception her after sex by saying that next week you'll be super busy as a way of venting. Not directly telling her. You're just mentioning it (inception/ planting a seed).

If she texts you during your ghost phase. Reply late and say sorry I've been swamped/ busy. And do short replies, because you don't have any fkn time.

Then hit her up for sex on Friday again.

She should get the hint and if she's a good girl, you've trained her well.

amazingarora · 2024-06-15T11:41:29+00:00

Fwb is so much better than being a relationship.

But you have the set the right frame from the very beginning.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-14T15:41:45+00:00

Have you had sex with her yet?

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-14T20:20:33+00:00

On the first date/get together explain to her your rules, that you are looking for something casual, but that you are totally game for being friends and respecting each other outside of the bedroom of course. But right now you are not emotionally available for anything serious or committed.

bastardfish · 2024-06-15T08:48:05+00:00

Indian hands typed this post.

Beginning-Pass-3243 · 2024-06-15T11:12:07+00:00

Dip your pickle in some latex paint and you'll be good to go all winter

LateProduce · 2024-06-15T01:53:34+00:00

Bro don't. It's a trap.

Title	How to became friend with benefits with a woman?
Author	Madafakaaaaaaaaaaa
Upvotes	119
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Date	June 14, 2024 2:19 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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