Well, she came to get the rest of her stuff, seemed like things were decent. We talked she asked some things and so did I. She later brought the child support and how she doesn't think that she is to pay anything.

Told her to actually look up the calculator and find out herself.

Today I get an email that she's secured an attorney.

We were going for 50/50 or 49/51 due to her wanting the extra night but she makes $15k more than I do. I cover insurance, she covers aftercare. Combined we make 100k.

Sad shit, she's bought a new apt/car/phone/clothes and is close to running out of money so CS would mess her up. I went this route because her intention was to put me on child support when the courts kicked back when we said 0 child support initially.

I feel like I regressed in my mental progress, going crazy after seeing the attorney I consulted had 3.6 rating VS the 4.1 she retained. Now looking at higher ratings than what she retained in fear she'll attempt to pull some shit.

I will fight to the end for as close to equal custody as possible.

Funny enough she asked me yesterday if I'd be bringing legal aid to the next appt which I said no. Next day she retained a lawyer.

Fear is what drives this, in this move she isolated from the world and is in survival mode and just playing into anything her mind tells her. I know many go through this but it's how you move on in the future and parent with a person like this is at the moment is beyond where my mind is right now.