How to be indifferent to a woman who suddenly cools down and begins to ghost you? I am sure many dudes go through this issue at some point with the ladies.

You can be talking for weeks and then you drop the first compliment that shows you like her and baam she’s pulling back with no rationale?

From all the great responses I have learned that the secret is often- ‘mastering the art of acting unbothered’. That means not seeking validation from them but from your own self.

So to the dudes when they intentionally ghost your stories online and you notice something is wrong, what methods have you tried out to be indifferent’ that have worked to turn the power dynamics in this situation?

Meditation, detachment and mindfulness sound like great suggestions but take time to achieve. But for the dude in the situation now what can he do? The more you try to fix it the more you fuck up and attempting to seek their attention with targeted social posts they can smell it from a mile away….. is the best immediate approach just to create mystery and disappear for a few weeks?

Not every man is emotionally indifferent. Many men can feel pretty pathetic and vulnerable by small things they overthink. I feel we need to address and help those who struggle with It.

Share your best advice to not give a fuck.

EDIT - just want to say these are all excellent takes and advices which anyone reading the comments can glean something from, I know I certainly have. Keep them coming.